Life is looking just a little brighter – literally – today. Though the temperature is well below freezing here in New Haven, the sky is bright and the sun will shine just a little bit longer than it did yesterday. And we will gain a few more moments of sunlight tomorrow, and the day after, and the day after that…. Incremental progress can be easy to overlook, but most gains in life are built of small advances that accrue day after day. I remind myself of this as I sit and list my must-do’s, should-do’s and goals that really matter for the coming months, and place them on a calendar that already seems surprisingly full. I guess my resolution is to keep at all of them, especially the ones without a due date, even though it is tempting to do things “JIT”. After all, it works for the NIH; it kind of works for Congress (whew!); and when Amazon can deliver almost anything tomorrow, who needs to plan ahead?
But in the dead of winter, I hunger for hot, off the vine heirloom tomatoes from my garden…which will arrive in August if I buy the seeds now, start seedlings in a few months and have my favorites ready to transplant at the end of May. I want a student’s paper accepted well before their anticipated May graduation, so now is the time to finish edits and send it out for review. A new grant needs to be submitted this spring – so it is high time to draft the specific aims, map out the research plan, and know which data we need to obtain…so we can begin experiments now. For every aspiration – an October re-entry, a dermatology match, an excellent rotation lab, a vacation after Step 1 is done – the planning and work begin now.
So even though some of you may feel a bit unhappy to be reading this RIGHT NOW, feeling that you FINALLY have some time off and absolutely deserve to banish all thoughts of work until you must – give yourself a gift for the New Year. Schedule time to work on all those important projects, set due dates for (incremental!) milestones, make a standing date to go to the movies, the art gallery, the gym. Don’t put off till tomorrow what you can finish today. (Wow, that sounds like my dad….) You’ll be rewarded by having time for LIFE, and by getting on with life, instead of crashing and burning at the 11th hour.
2024 has been rough in so many ways, from the global to the personal. Disengaging, retreating, checking out do seem tempting. But there are big goals ahead for all of us, which we might accomplish if we each keep doing our small part. Keep at research and patient care, and let people know that their tax dollars (and the NIH and HHS) make this possible. Ask people who don’t share your beliefs why they hold theirs – and listen to their answers. Realize what privileges and opportunities made a difference in your life – and see if you can pay it forward for someone else. Think about the person you want to be and the life you want to live, and make a small incremental move toward that goal.
Wishing you a happy, healthy, meaningful and resolute 2025!
Dr. K.