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Ultra-Long Pediatric Hospitalizations: The Ethics of Living in the Hospital

October 09, 2024

Program for Biomedical Ethics | Yale Pediatric Ethics Program

October 1, 2024

Ultra-Long Pediatric Hospitalizations: The Ethics of Living in the Hospital

Naomi Laventhal, MD, MA, FAAP

Service Chief, Neonatal-Perinatal Medicine

Associate Professor, Department of Pediatrics

Faculty Ethicist, Program in Clinical Ethics - Center for Bioethics and Social Sciences in Medicine

University of Michigan

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12193

Transcript

  • 00:00Got, another fourteen days before
  • 00:02you hit the deadline, to
  • 00:04get your name in, and
  • 00:04we'll see,
  • 00:06we'll see how many candidates
  • 00:07we get for enrollment. But
  • 00:08it's, it's very exciting. Something
  • 00:10new this year for the
  • 00:10medical students who want to
  • 00:12actually have a concentration in
  • 00:13bioethics
  • 00:14as part of their, and
  • 00:15it can show up on
  • 00:16your CV when you're done
  • 00:17too.
  • 00:19Tonight,
  • 00:20tonight's session, it says program
  • 00:21for biomedical ethics, but tonight's
  • 00:23is actually,
  • 00:25sponsored by the Yale pediatric
  • 00:26ethics Program. And it doesn't
  • 00:28much matter to you. It's
  • 00:28the same thing. Twice a
  • 00:29month, we meet here. Most
  • 00:30of you know it. Some
  • 00:31of you don't. We meet
  • 00:32here twice a month.
  • 00:35And if you're not on
  • 00:36our mailing list, please just
  • 00:37send me a note,
  • 00:39to mark dot mercurio at
  • 00:40yale dot e d u
  • 00:41or karen dot kolb at
  • 00:43yale dot e d u,
  • 00:44and we'll make sure you
  • 00:45run the mailing list so
  • 00:46you're always aware of these
  • 00:46things. Or you can just
  • 00:47Google biomedical ethics at Yale,
  • 00:49and you'll find our site,
  • 00:50and you'll see all the
  • 00:51programs
  • 00:52that are coming up.
  • 00:54The way this works, before
  • 00:55I introduce, doctor Laventhall, our
  • 00:56speaker tonight, most of you
  • 00:58know, but just to remind
  • 00:59you well, is that doctor
  • 01:00Laventhall will speak for about
  • 01:02forty five minutes, give or
  • 01:03take a little bit,
  • 01:05and then, I'll moderate a
  • 01:06q and a session. You
  • 01:07guys are encouraged to ask
  • 01:09as many questions as you
  • 01:10want. We'll have a conversation.
  • 01:13Please wait. When if you
  • 01:14have a question, raise your
  • 01:15hand, and one of us
  • 01:16will bring a microphone to
  • 01:17you. And wait until you
  • 01:18have the microphone in hand
  • 01:19to ask your question because
  • 01:20we have a lot of
  • 01:21folks on Zoom tonight as
  • 01:22well. We want them to
  • 01:23be able to hear your
  • 01:23question and everybody else in
  • 01:24the room, and I stand
  • 01:26here as the weak link
  • 01:27in the chain of hearing,
  • 01:28so that's fine. So if
  • 01:29I can't hear you, there
  • 01:30is someone else who can't
  • 01:31hear you as well. So,
  • 01:32please wait till you get
  • 01:33the microphone to ask your
  • 01:34question,
  • 01:36and we'll go for as
  • 01:37long as everybody's interested up
  • 01:39to a hard stop
  • 01:40at six thirty. And so
  • 01:42I apologize in advance if
  • 01:43you had something you really
  • 01:44wanted to ask because at
  • 01:45six twenty eight or so,
  • 01:47I will, I will shut
  • 01:48it down and, invite you
  • 01:50to come back in two
  • 01:51more weeks for our next
  • 01:52seminar. But tonight, we have
  • 01:54an old friend of mine
  • 01:55who is Naomi Laventhal.
  • 01:57Naomi's
  • 01:59educational pedigree takes us from,
  • 02:02Indiana University
  • 02:03to LSU
  • 02:05to University of Chicago. At
  • 02:06University of Chicago, I think
  • 02:08you have a master's degree
  • 02:10in is it public, public
  • 02:11affairs?
  • 02:13Public policy. Public policy, a
  • 02:14master's degree in public policy
  • 02:15as well as having done
  • 02:16their the, ethics fellowship there
  • 02:18at the McLean Center, which,
  • 02:20many of you are familiar
  • 02:21with. And if you're not,
  • 02:22this is one of the
  • 02:23one of the preeminent, bioethics
  • 02:25centers in the country, there
  • 02:26at the University of Chicago.
  • 02:28From there, doctor Laventhall went
  • 02:30to the University of Michigan
  • 02:31where she has risen through
  • 02:32the ranks both in the
  • 02:33world of bioethics and in
  • 02:34the world of neonatology.
  • 02:36She's an attending neonatologist
  • 02:38and and now is in
  • 02:39fact the division chief, in
  • 02:41neonatology
  • 02:41at Ann Arbor.
  • 02:43No small thing.
  • 02:44In addition, she is a
  • 02:45national leader in the field
  • 02:47of bioethics.
  • 02:48She does ethics consultations in
  • 02:50adult and pediatric cases at
  • 02:51Ann Arbor. But,
  • 02:53again, many of you know,
  • 02:54and and if you don't
  • 02:55know, the American Academy of
  • 02:57Pediatrics has a, a a
  • 02:59body called the Committee on
  • 03:00Bioethics
  • 03:01that basically is the policy
  • 03:02making
  • 03:03group at the AAP.
  • 03:05And this group writes guidelines
  • 03:07and policies to the difficult
  • 03:08ethics questions that people who
  • 03:10practice pediatrics
  • 03:12face.
  • 03:13And Naomi is the chair
  • 03:14of that group, which is
  • 03:15based out of Illinois, but
  • 03:16it's a national really an
  • 03:17international group. So she is
  • 03:19one of a handful of,
  • 03:20true leaders in pediatric bioethics
  • 03:22in the country. And I
  • 03:23was delighted when she agreed
  • 03:24to come here,
  • 03:26and talk to us for
  • 03:27a little bit about these
  • 03:28ultra long hospitalizations,
  • 03:30and I'll let her explain
  • 03:32what that is to those
  • 03:33of you who don't know.
  • 03:34Many of you are very
  • 03:35familiar with this already, but
  • 03:36some of you is no
  • 03:37doubt or not.
  • 03:38So please join me in
  • 03:39welcoming doctor Naomi Leventhal.
  • 03:47Well, hi. It's really good
  • 03:48to be here. This is,
  • 03:49I think, the third time
  • 03:50that we've tried to have
  • 03:51me come here in person,
  • 03:52and we finally succeeded. So
  • 03:54I'm really excited about that.
  • 03:56And one thing I'll say
  • 03:57is I've been interested in
  • 03:58this topic for a long
  • 03:59time, but it's the first
  • 04:00time I've been the, like,
  • 04:02the the anchor speaker in
  • 04:03a talk, and this is
  • 04:04a brand new talk. So
  • 04:05I'm trying to make sure
  • 04:05that we end on time
  • 04:07and have lots of time
  • 04:08for questions, but bear with
  • 04:09me.
  • 04:10If I if I don't
  • 04:10get the timing quite how
  • 04:11I want it. Mark's going
  • 04:12to keep me on the
  • 04:14straight and narrow.
  • 04:16So I don't have any
  • 04:17conflicts of interest. One thing,
  • 04:18you know, we're supposed to
  • 04:18talk about whether I'm going
  • 04:20to, you know, talk about
  • 04:20off label therapies. And I'm
  • 04:22not going to do that
  • 04:22on purpose. But when you're
  • 04:24talking about a patient who's
  • 04:25been in the hospital for
  • 04:26four hundred days, who's a
  • 04:28child, there's no way that
  • 04:29hasn't happened. So if it
  • 04:30comes up along the way,
  • 04:31I didn't I didn't mean
  • 04:32to talk about that, but
  • 04:33I might.
  • 04:35And this is there are
  • 04:36points of this talk. It's
  • 04:37an ethics talk. You have
  • 04:38to be intentionally provocative. And
  • 04:40I'm going to do that.
  • 04:41And if I haven't, like,
  • 04:42punched you in the amygdala
  • 04:43at some point, I didn't
  • 04:45do my job.
  • 04:46And the other thing, we
  • 04:47get accused of this a
  • 04:48lot, but our slides are,
  • 04:49like, aggressively Maison Blue branded.
  • 04:51And people sort of, like,
  • 04:52complain about this sometimes and
  • 04:54not sorry.
  • 04:56And
  • 04:57now what I really wanna
  • 04:58do is, say some really
  • 05:00nice things about Mark Mercurio,
  • 05:02who,
  • 05:03I first met at a
  • 05:04conference in my first year
  • 05:05out of fellowship where I
  • 05:06was alone and I didn't
  • 05:07know anyone. And a mutual
  • 05:08friend of ours, like, dispatched
  • 05:10him to come be nice
  • 05:11to me at that meeting,
  • 05:12and that he did. And
  • 05:13it was really, like, an
  • 05:14important thing for me. And
  • 05:16he's been nice to me
  • 05:17ever since that day. And
  • 05:18he's offered me a lot
  • 05:19of really sage counsel over
  • 05:20the years and and camaraderie
  • 05:22in neonatology and bioethics and
  • 05:25sort of advocated for me
  • 05:26to have some of the
  • 05:26opportunities that he talked about.
  • 05:28So that's really important to
  • 05:29me.
  • 05:30And the reason I have
  • 05:31a picture of pina colada
  • 05:32in this on this slide
  • 05:33is I don't even remember
  • 05:34what the thing was, but
  • 05:35we had some disagreement about
  • 05:37something during the pandemic that
  • 05:39ended in I will buy
  • 05:40you a pina colada. And
  • 05:42the
  • 05:43the
  • 05:44the pandemic raged on, and
  • 05:45it took us several years
  • 05:46to finally have that. But
  • 05:47we finally did in Southern
  • 05:49California, and he got to
  • 05:50meet my husband and my
  • 05:50kids. And so it's it's
  • 05:52this, like, in my mind
  • 05:53now, it's Mark and Pina
  • 05:54Coladas.
  • 05:57All right. So I'm going
  • 05:58to tell you about a
  • 05:58case. And I've made this
  • 05:59case a little bit vague
  • 06:00on purpose because you can't
  • 06:01really make these cases up
  • 06:02to the same degree. So
  • 06:03it's a real case that
  • 06:04I've anonymized
  • 06:05a bit.
  • 06:06But so this was a
  • 06:07term baby who had a
  • 06:08skeletal dysplasia and never had
  • 06:10a definitive diagnosis. This was
  • 06:12before the whole genome was
  • 06:13available in an epic
  • 06:16order set near you.
  • 06:18Admitted to the NICU for
  • 06:20six months.
  • 06:21And that's the beginning of
  • 06:22the story.
  • 06:23So
  • 06:24after the baby had been
  • 06:25in the NICU for six
  • 06:26months, left our unit and
  • 06:28went to different units, we'll
  • 06:29do this differently,
  • 06:30but went to our home
  • 06:31ventilator unit in theory to
  • 06:34get ready to go home.
  • 06:36And at that point, the
  • 06:37baby had multiple comorbidities,
  • 06:40had pulmonary hypotension, had bronchomalacia,
  • 06:42had a tracheostomy,
  • 06:44had a surgical feeding tube.
  • 06:45And after about a week
  • 06:46there, had a code, and
  • 06:48I'm using the term code
  • 06:49code kind of loosely because
  • 06:50for this baby over different
  • 06:51times that meant different things.
  • 06:52But some kind of bad
  • 06:53cardiorespiratory
  • 06:54event happened and the baby
  • 06:55went to the PICU, the
  • 06:56pediatric ICU.
  • 06:58And this sort of cycle
  • 07:00of
  • 07:01to the PICU,
  • 07:02back to the vent unit,
  • 07:03to the PICU, back to
  • 07:04the vent unit, always with
  • 07:06codes,
  • 07:07went on for three years
  • 07:09before this baby ultimately left
  • 07:11the hospital with like many,
  • 07:12many code events at some
  • 07:13point was in the PICU
  • 07:14for fourteen months. This is
  • 07:16an epically long hospitalization.
  • 07:20At discharge, this baby had
  • 07:21a tracheostomy, a ventilator,
  • 07:23central venous catheter for reasons
  • 07:25that even like when I
  • 07:26looked at it, I couldn't
  • 07:26quite figure out what that
  • 07:27was for, a surgical feeding
  • 07:29tube and twenty ish prescriptions.
  • 07:33And after about a week
  • 07:34at home, this child comes
  • 07:35back in through the ER
  • 07:36with respiratory distress,
  • 07:38goes to the PICU after
  • 07:39three days in the vent
  • 07:40unit,
  • 07:42after a sort of code
  • 07:43on the floor in septic
  • 07:44shock and died of multisystem
  • 07:45organ failure after a compassionate
  • 07:47transition to comfort care. And
  • 07:49this is all within two
  • 07:50weeks of having gone home
  • 07:51from this three year hospitalization.
  • 07:54So
  • 07:55was this inevitable? Was this
  • 07:57terrible luck? Was this a
  • 07:59waste? Was this worth it?
  • 08:00It's hard to know.
  • 08:03Here's another one.
  • 08:05It's a twenty five week
  • 08:06baby who comes to my
  • 08:07unit, which is level four
  • 08:09NICU from a level three
  • 08:10NICU at too much of
  • 08:12a age for an airway
  • 08:13evaluation. And if you're a
  • 08:14neonatologist, that can mean almost
  • 08:16anything.
  • 08:18The NICU stay with us
  • 08:19is characterized by multiple really
  • 08:21complex medical problems, sort of
  • 08:23more than billed at the
  • 08:24time of original transfer.
  • 08:26Intractable psychosocial challenges that make
  • 08:28coherent long term planning really
  • 08:30hard.
  • 08:32Transferred out of our NICU
  • 08:33to that same home ventilator
  • 08:34unit just after the first
  • 08:36birthday, and we had a
  • 08:37big party at the first
  • 08:38birthday.
  • 08:39Has a feeding tube, not
  • 08:40really on full feedings yet.
  • 08:42Lots of meds, lots of
  • 08:43consults, lots of services.
  • 08:46The all the medical problems
  • 08:48get better over months, but
  • 08:49these psychosocial pair barriers to
  • 08:52discharge remain kind of insurmountable.
  • 08:55And this child goes home
  • 08:57to the family after the
  • 08:58second birthday party,
  • 09:00decannulated
  • 09:01on a nasal cannula,
  • 09:03on less stuff, but, you
  • 09:04know, still ten prescriptions with
  • 09:05lots of discharge appointments.
  • 09:08Comes back in about a
  • 09:08week, but a short stay
  • 09:10and goes back home and
  • 09:10this child is still
  • 09:13home. Over this case, by
  • 09:14this time, I was sort
  • 09:15of paying more attention to
  • 09:16cases like this. There's collective
  • 09:18hand wringing about absolutely everything,
  • 09:21for months.
  • 09:22There's ethics consults. There's we
  • 09:24have a health care equity
  • 09:25consult service. People call them.
  • 09:27There's hospital business meetings. We
  • 09:28now have a kind of
  • 09:29hospital C suite type committee
  • 09:31that just looks at our
  • 09:32super long hospitalizations.
  • 09:34There's moral distress rounds of
  • 09:35various kinds.
  • 09:39But there's also joy
  • 09:40in this child's home with
  • 09:41the family decannulated.
  • 09:44So is this outcome good
  • 09:45or bad? And what I
  • 09:47would say is yes. Right?
  • 09:48I mean, there there this
  • 09:49is
  • 09:50I don't know how to
  • 09:51answer this in any other
  • 09:52way.
  • 09:53So I'm gonna step back
  • 09:54aerially and think a little
  • 09:55bit about, if you're a
  • 09:56pediatrician, the kind of origin
  • 09:58story you have with patients
  • 09:59like this.
  • 10:01If you've trained as a
  • 10:02pediatric resident, you probably remember
  • 10:05some story kind of like
  • 10:06this. And maybe it wasn't
  • 10:07three years, but, you know,
  • 10:08I, stayed last night with
  • 10:10a friend of mine from
  • 10:11pediatric residency.
  • 10:12And, you know, we graduated
  • 10:13from residency twenty one years
  • 10:15ago. And when I told
  • 10:16her the topic, she told
  • 10:17me the name of the
  • 10:18patient that this invoked for
  • 10:20her.
  • 10:22And one of my really
  • 10:24formative experiences was at the
  • 10:25building that's pictured here. So
  • 10:26I trained on the south
  • 10:27side of Chicago, and this
  • 10:29beautiful building was part of
  • 10:30the Columbia exhibition at the
  • 10:32turn of the century, the
  • 10:33turn of the nineteenth to
  • 10:34twentieth or twentieth to twenty
  • 10:35first century, I guess,
  • 10:36and had been a home
  • 10:37for children with rheumatic fever
  • 10:39that then got converted to
  • 10:41a medical home for kids
  • 10:42with chronic disease. But we
  • 10:43would go there as residents
  • 10:44and stay with kids who
  • 10:45were there sometimes for months
  • 10:47waiting for placement in some
  • 10:48better long term facility. So
  • 10:50these are patients that we
  • 10:51knew as pediatric residencies, like
  • 10:53really long term patients.
  • 10:55And as a neonatologist and
  • 10:56Doctor. Mercurio said, I'm a
  • 10:57student now too. I spent
  • 10:58a lot of time thinking
  • 10:59about patients who are in
  • 11:00the hospital for a long
  • 11:02time.
  • 11:02Part of this is in
  • 11:03the NICU, if you're born
  • 11:04at twenty two weeks, you're
  • 11:05in the hospital for a
  • 11:06long time just because you
  • 11:07have to be.
  • 11:08But also we are always
  • 11:10full. And if you're an
  • 11:11administrator in a children's hospital,
  • 11:12you're always full and that's
  • 11:14always a crisis.
  • 11:16As a clinical ethics consultant,
  • 11:18we now have frequent flyers.
  • 11:21These are patients that we
  • 11:22I get the page and
  • 11:23I'm like, wait. I know
  • 11:23this story. I've heard this
  • 11:24before. We've already consulted on
  • 11:26this patient. And, you know,
  • 11:27the NICU for some people
  • 11:28is the newborn ICU, but
  • 11:29there's the other NICU, right,
  • 11:30the neuro ICU. We also
  • 11:32have long stay adult patients
  • 11:33that we get consulted on
  • 11:34over and over because they're
  • 11:35in the hospital forever.
  • 11:38And we're starting to think
  • 11:39about this as a research
  • 11:40lab.
  • 11:41And so we've been talking
  • 11:43about this in various forms.
  • 11:44We all have our own
  • 11:45take on it, but my
  • 11:47collaborators, Beanie Meadow, who's a
  • 11:48neonatologist with me, and Erica
  • 11:49Andres, who's a PICU doc,
  • 11:51and I have, like, worked
  • 11:52on this and come up
  • 11:54with our own kind of
  • 11:55intentionally kind of neatly, neatly,
  • 11:57neatly titles. And when we
  • 11:58first started talking about this,
  • 11:59I said, I don't care
  • 12:00what we talk about, but
  • 12:01the title is going to
  • 12:01be, You Don't Have to
  • 12:02Go Home, But You Can't
  • 12:03Stay Here, because that is
  • 12:04my dream to have a
  • 12:04talk that's called this.
  • 12:06And if you're going to
  • 12:07go present a weird idea
  • 12:08at a meeting and see
  • 12:09how it is going to
  • 12:10go, you do that at
  • 12:11the American Society for Bioethics
  • 12:12and Humanities.
  • 12:14And that's where we started
  • 12:15talking about this. But we're
  • 12:17still at our phases of
  • 12:18trying to take this from
  • 12:19normative ethics work to empirical
  • 12:21work and kind of gearing
  • 12:22up to start studying this
  • 12:23in a more like counting
  • 12:24stuff
  • 12:25kind of way. So here's
  • 12:27what we're going to
  • 12:28do. I'm going to try
  • 12:29to impart the idea that
  • 12:30these patients aren't all the
  • 12:31same, and that there are
  • 12:32different forces that lead to
  • 12:34these patients being in the
  • 12:35hospital for as long as
  • 12:36they are.
  • 12:38That there's more than one
  • 12:39moral dimension to this. And
  • 12:40there's a lot of different
  • 12:41ethical things we have to
  • 12:42think about.
  • 12:44And I'm just trying to
  • 12:45end with, you know, what
  • 12:46should we be thinking about?
  • 12:47What should we be studying?
  • 12:48And then what? What do
  • 12:49we do about patients like
  • 12:50this?
  • 12:52One thing that makes this
  • 12:54really hard, I'm gonna talk
  • 12:54in a minute about this
  • 12:56population called the chronically critically
  • 12:57ill. Chronic critical illness is
  • 12:59not my idea. I didn't
  • 13:00invent it and I wanna
  • 13:01be clear that that's an
  • 13:02area that's a focus of
  • 13:03a lot of research.
  • 13:05The area of super long
  • 13:07hospitalization
  • 13:08is infuriatingly
  • 13:09not. And part of the
  • 13:11reason I say that is
  • 13:12when you try to figure
  • 13:12out what defines a long
  • 13:14hospitalization, you get like, more
  • 13:16than twelve days,
  • 13:18Right? And that doesn't have
  • 13:19anything to do with what
  • 13:20I'm trying to describe. And
  • 13:21in this paper that I'll
  • 13:22come back to the end
  • 13:23that defines like a research
  • 13:25agenda for kids with chronic
  • 13:26critical illness.
  • 13:27Nobody's really, really talking about
  • 13:29like more than three months.
  • 13:31And that's one study that
  • 13:32talks about more than three
  • 13:33months even.
  • 13:35But this is a population
  • 13:36that's been vexing people forever.
  • 13:38You know, since the eighties,
  • 13:39people have been thinking about
  • 13:41what happens to these patients
  • 13:42that stay in the hospital
  • 13:43longer than we wanted.
  • 13:45And for at least a
  • 13:46decade, people have been starting
  • 13:48to notice that these patients
  • 13:50take up a lot of
  • 13:51the bed
  • 13:52bandwidth, if you can think
  • 13:53about it that way. It's
  • 13:54sort of they're taking up
  • 13:55proportionally
  • 13:56more and more of the
  • 13:57bed days, which is how
  • 13:59you think about how much
  • 14:00of the pie something a
  • 14:02hospital patient takes up.
  • 14:05People are also starting to
  • 14:06think about how this impacts
  • 14:08different populations differently.
  • 14:10So in a Canadian study
  • 14:11of this, they looked at
  • 14:12how many kids like this
  • 14:12actually went home to their
  • 14:14own families.
  • 14:15And patients who were just
  • 14:17separated from their families were
  • 14:18more likely to be Aboriginal
  • 14:19than other kids in the
  • 14:20study.
  • 14:22And their, you know, early
  • 14:23days looked at, wow, these
  • 14:25are a really small number
  • 14:26of patients, but they take
  • 14:27up a lot of our
  • 14:27bed days and even more
  • 14:28of our ventilator days.
  • 14:30And this isn't just a
  • 14:32child problem in the UK.
  • 14:33This is a really interesting
  • 14:34study out of the National
  • 14:35Health Service
  • 14:36that they were doing a
  • 14:38look at could we reduce
  • 14:39overall, like, median length of
  • 14:41stay across our whole population
  • 14:43of inpatients to free up
  • 14:44beds? And they identified this
  • 14:46tiny, tiny fraction of patients
  • 14:47who were in the hospital
  • 14:48more than a hundred days
  • 14:50and
  • 14:51discovered that if you took
  • 14:52those out, you didn't move
  • 14:54the median length of stay
  • 14:55for the National Health Service
  • 14:57at all.
  • 14:58And the the idea here
  • 14:59is if we're trying to
  • 15:02lower length of stay, like
  • 15:03free up beds, we could
  • 15:04free up a lot of
  • 15:05beds and targeting median length
  • 15:07of stay isn't gonna do
  • 15:08that in the same way
  • 15:09that just looking at these
  • 15:10patients specifically well.
  • 15:14So chronic critical illness is
  • 15:16a very specific thing. It's
  • 15:17this figure is not to
  • 15:18scale and it's also not
  • 15:19my figure.
  • 15:21But it's it's a subset
  • 15:23of kids with special health
  • 15:24care needs who are in
  • 15:25a subset of set set
  • 15:26of kids with medical complexity.
  • 15:28And the gist of this
  • 15:30is that these kids have,
  • 15:33complex diseases, technology dependence, and
  • 15:36they interact with the health
  • 15:37care system in a completely
  • 15:39different way a lot.
  • 15:42So
  • 15:43what are the practical dimensions
  • 15:45of this?
  • 15:47Sometimes it's that the body
  • 15:48is imperfect. And these are
  • 15:50patients who legitimately can't be
  • 15:52cared for except in an
  • 15:53acute care hospital, usually an
  • 15:55ICU.
  • 15:56But they seem to be
  • 15:56able to do that indefinitely.
  • 15:58So this is not patients
  • 16:00who take a long time
  • 16:01dying. That is a very
  • 16:02different population of patients and
  • 16:03that's not who I'm talking
  • 16:04about. This isn't the futility
  • 16:06dwindles.
  • 16:07This is patients who they're
  • 16:09they live like this.
  • 16:12Sometimes it's that the system
  • 16:13fails. So these are people
  • 16:14who could, in theory, go
  • 16:15home, but there's some sort
  • 16:17of barrier to safe discharge.
  • 16:18And, like, safe we'll get
  • 16:20to this, but, like, safe
  • 16:20can mean any number of
  • 16:21things. But there's some obstacle
  • 16:23to a theoretically achievable discharge.
  • 16:27And sometimes consensus is elusive.
  • 16:29There's something that might get
  • 16:30this child home,
  • 16:32but
  • 16:33something like the parents don't
  • 16:34want that thing.
  • 16:36These are sort of paradigm.
  • 16:37This is really oversimplified. But
  • 16:39and, like, a lot of
  • 16:41times, it's kind of a
  • 16:42mishmash of these things, which
  • 16:44makes it even harder because
  • 16:45just untangling what is the
  • 16:47barrier to discharge is really
  • 16:48hard. Alright. Mark, I warned
  • 16:50you about this, but so
  • 16:51physical physical barriers. Right? So
  • 16:53here's here's doctor Mercurio again.
  • 16:55Right? And I think that
  • 16:56everyone would agree that if
  • 16:57you can see that That's
  • 16:58my high school graduation. This
  • 16:59is his high school graduation
  • 17:01photo.
  • 17:03And he also reminded me
  • 17:04that this is before he'd
  • 17:05had the,
  • 17:07the
  • 17:08burden of being the division
  • 17:09director, like, voiced it upon
  • 17:10him for a decade. But,
  • 17:12I think everyone would argue
  • 17:13that he has a neck.
  • 17:15Right? And you can see
  • 17:16his neck.
  • 17:17Where's this kid's neck? Right
  • 17:19now, this is a random
  • 17:20healthy baby. There's nothing wrong
  • 17:21with this kid. This kid
  • 17:22doesn't need a tracheostomy.
  • 17:24But the point is sometimes
  • 17:25there are things like the
  • 17:26baby needs a trach, but
  • 17:27there's some geographic,
  • 17:29geographic, like, medical, physical, like,
  • 17:31thing. You can't do the
  • 17:33trach for some reason. Probably
  • 17:34not just that they like,
  • 17:35babies can have trachs, but
  • 17:36but for you you just
  • 17:38can't do it.
  • 17:40Sometimes there are real logistic
  • 17:42barriers. So I live in,
  • 17:44Michigan, so we have two
  • 17:45peninsulas. Right? And, like, Yooper
  • 17:46is the upper peninsula, UP.
  • 17:49So you can use my
  • 17:51so
  • 17:52we're here. Here's Ann Arbor.
  • 17:53Right? And here's like the
  • 17:54way upper peninsula. That's like
  • 17:56a ten to twelve hour
  • 17:57drive when it's not snowing.
  • 18:00And so or you, you
  • 18:01know, you can drive to
  • 18:03you can drive to Marquette.
  • 18:04You can fly to Marquette,
  • 18:05which is here, and you
  • 18:05still have a six hour
  • 18:06drive.
  • 18:08Getting a child, you know,
  • 18:10to Houghton
  • 18:11with a tracheostomy and getting
  • 18:13home nursing and, like, where's
  • 18:14their closest hospital that can
  • 18:15actually help them? I mean,
  • 18:17these this is almost impossible.
  • 18:19It can be done, but
  • 18:20but real geographic, like, barriers
  • 18:23to discharge. Or,
  • 18:25so this is a picture
  • 18:27of a trailer park, and
  • 18:28I intentionally picked a picture
  • 18:29of, like, a nice trailer
  • 18:30park. Right? But, like, outfitting
  • 18:32a trailer that someone doesn't
  • 18:34own for what they need
  • 18:35to safely have a home
  • 18:36ventilator,
  • 18:37that's there are huge barriers
  • 18:40to doing that.
  • 18:42And sometimes there are real
  • 18:43barriers to consensus.
  • 18:46Sometimes just what is the
  • 18:48appropriate disposition? When is it
  • 18:49the right time to go
  • 18:50home? Where is the best
  • 18:51place to go? It was
  • 18:52really hard. So I don't
  • 18:53know anything about this this
  • 18:55baby.
  • 18:56But if you look at
  • 18:57this baby, there's a village
  • 18:59around her taking care of
  • 19:00her. And there's a lot
  • 19:01of stuff and there's a
  • 19:02lot of hands.
  • 19:03And if you think about
  • 19:04what this takes and this
  • 19:05kid was kind of like
  • 19:06thriving. Right? Like, you can
  • 19:07imagine why a person would
  • 19:08say, like, I don't know
  • 19:09that I can replicate that
  • 19:10at home. And I don't
  • 19:11know that I want to
  • 19:11try.
  • 19:12This was an interesting story
  • 19:14that we pulled out because
  • 19:15this was, you know, twenty
  • 19:15twenty four and, like, an
  • 19:17NPR story
  • 19:18about an eighteen year old
  • 19:19who was stuck in the
  • 19:20hospital for many, many months.
  • 19:22And the issue was that
  • 19:23the hospital wanted to send
  • 19:24her to a facility. And
  • 19:25the closest one was many
  • 19:27hours from where her family
  • 19:28lived,
  • 19:29hours from her school, hours
  • 19:31from her life. And she
  • 19:32said, I don't want to
  • 19:33be six hours from where
  • 19:34my family is. I want
  • 19:35and if that means I
  • 19:36gotta stay in the hospital,
  • 19:37you got to keep me
  • 19:38here. And there was a
  • 19:38lawsuit about this.
  • 19:41Sometimes there are real disagreements
  • 19:42about the goals of care
  • 19:43too. We were talking about
  • 19:43this over lunch a little
  • 19:44bit that like,
  • 19:46the you know, to say
  • 19:47that, like, they just don't
  • 19:48want the tracheostomy, there are
  • 19:49really, like, good rational reasons
  • 19:50to be really worried about
  • 19:52getting a tracheostomy. Right? Like,
  • 19:53the in home mortality from
  • 19:55kids who go home with
  • 19:56a tracheostomy is is high.
  • 19:58And it's not always because
  • 19:59of the thing that made
  • 20:00the child need the tracheostomy.
  • 20:02If you look at reasons
  • 20:03patient with tracheostomies die, things
  • 20:06like trachea accidents
  • 20:07are one of the biggest
  • 20:08reasons that that happens. So
  • 20:10it's not entirely irrational
  • 20:11to say, I don't want
  • 20:12it. I wanna stay here
  • 20:13until we don't need it
  • 20:14anymore.
  • 20:15Alright. So there are moral
  • 20:16dimensions too, though. Right? Resources.
  • 20:19How much is the discharge
  • 20:20worth? Is it worth three
  • 20:22years in the hospital?
  • 20:24Does every patient have a
  • 20:25same claim on that bed?
  • 20:27So would this be a
  • 20:27relevant question if we had
  • 20:29infinite ICU beds? If
  • 20:31that PICU could just grow
  • 20:32indefinitely, would this be a
  • 20:33discussion?
  • 20:36And is hospital bioethics really
  • 20:38the right arena, right? Is
  • 20:39this a public health question?
  • 20:40Is this about society and
  • 20:41how we think about disability
  • 20:43and how we think about
  • 20:44the
  • 20:46the value
  • 20:47that we're gonna place on
  • 20:48kids like this and what
  • 20:49we're gonna invest in taking
  • 20:50care of kids like this
  • 20:51in the community? Or is
  • 20:52it about something else? You
  • 20:53know, Mark was saying, I
  • 20:54got my, like, public policy
  • 20:55degree and my ethics fellowship
  • 20:56and then my NICU fellowship
  • 20:58at the same time, so
  • 20:58maybe it's about something else
  • 20:59and just y'all can tell
  • 21:00me what that is.
  • 21:02But maybe it's about the
  • 21:03same stuff it always is.
  • 21:04Maybe it's about parental authority
  • 21:06and best interest. Maybe it's
  • 21:07about weighing benefit and harm.
  • 21:09Maybe it's about prognostic prognostic
  • 21:11uncertainty, and maybe it's about
  • 21:12reasonable people disagreeing. This is
  • 21:13what it always is in
  • 21:15pediatric ethics.
  • 21:17So when you think about
  • 21:18these resource questions, though, so
  • 21:21this is where we got
  • 21:22to like, you don't have
  • 21:22to go home, but you
  • 21:23can't stay here and you
  • 21:24do you, but you can't
  • 21:24have my hospital bed. Right?
  • 21:26That's one of the potential
  • 21:27ways you can think about
  • 21:28this. And this is entirely
  • 21:30about pie and who gets
  • 21:31to eat it.
  • 21:32Right? And long hospital stays
  • 21:35take up a lot of
  • 21:36pie, whether that pie is
  • 21:37beds or hospital dollars, health
  • 21:39care dollars.
  • 21:41So we can think about
  • 21:42these kids like they don't
  • 21:43really need an acute care
  • 21:45hospital. And so can these
  • 21:46patients lay claim on acute
  • 21:48care,
  • 21:49beds? And what I would
  • 21:49ask is relative to what,
  • 21:51though,
  • 21:52is that relative to going
  • 21:53somewhere else? Is that relative
  • 21:55to dying instead?
  • 21:57And I would challenge that
  • 21:58we don't have any framework
  • 22:00to rationally have that conversation,
  • 22:02you know, other than like
  • 22:03in something like in the,
  • 22:05you know, public health crisis.
  • 22:06We know a little bit
  • 22:06about those now. We don't
  • 22:08have any framework for that.
  • 22:09And kind of the same
  • 22:10thing about money. Right? Is
  • 22:11there
  • 22:13is a does a hospitalization
  • 22:15just become at some point
  • 22:16in an absolute way too
  • 22:18expensive?
  • 22:19Right? And I would again
  • 22:20say relative to what? And
  • 22:22what's the framework that we
  • 22:23have to talk about that?
  • 22:28The right arena question is
  • 22:29I think also really interesting.
  • 22:31I had to show you
  • 22:31at least one paper I'd
  • 22:32written myself.
  • 22:33And so one of the
  • 22:34things we talked about a
  • 22:35lot during the pandemic was
  • 22:36about bedside rationing. And I
  • 22:38get a lot of ethics
  • 22:39consults
  • 22:40about
  • 22:40isn't this patient eating too
  • 22:42much pie? To which my
  • 22:43answer is always that's not
  • 22:45what a health care ethics
  • 22:46consultation is. Right? We don't
  • 22:47ration at the bedside for
  • 22:49the simple person that you
  • 22:50taking care of your for
  • 22:51the simple reason that you
  • 22:52taking care of your patient
  • 22:54can't do the big picture
  • 22:55at the same time that
  • 22:56you do the small picture.
  • 22:58And but there is a
  • 23:00bigger picture and someone has
  • 23:02to look at it.
  • 23:03And when you look at
  • 23:04the literature about children with
  • 23:06medical complexity and the chronically
  • 23:08critically ill, They're mostly about
  • 23:10health systems and the way
  • 23:11we take these care of
  • 23:12these pictures, these babies in
  • 23:14the big picture, not about
  • 23:15how we do that as
  • 23:16individuals.
  • 23:17And I think one sign
  • 23:19that we have a real
  • 23:20systems problem is that when
  • 23:21you look at programs that
  • 23:22are out there at children's
  • 23:23hospitals that are built to
  • 23:24support families
  • 23:26who have children like this,
  • 23:27and programs actually whose primary
  • 23:29goal is often to keep
  • 23:30these kids out of the
  • 23:31hospital, which they do fairly
  • 23:32successfully,
  • 23:33they're almost always philanthropically funded,
  • 23:35which which means no one
  • 23:36else is paying for them.
  • 23:37Right? And that it you
  • 23:38have to go to donors
  • 23:39to invest in keeping these
  • 23:41kids out of hospitals, which
  • 23:42gives you a sense of
  • 23:43what our societal priorities are.
  • 23:47And then there's the stuff
  • 23:48that I told you it's
  • 23:49always about. Right? Who determines
  • 23:51when someone is ready to
  • 23:52go home? That's in some
  • 23:53sense a parental authority question
  • 23:55is what people want relevant
  • 23:57here? Is a parent's preference
  • 23:58relevant?
  • 24:00Who decides where a child
  • 24:01is better off? And how
  • 24:03do you weigh things like
  • 24:04the risk of nosocomial infection
  • 24:06versus the risk of a
  • 24:07trach accident in a home?
  • 24:08That's kind of an oranges
  • 24:09and apples thing.
  • 24:11How sure do we need
  • 24:12to be that that child
  • 24:13will eventually go home?
  • 24:15And what if parents don't
  • 24:16agree with our certainty about
  • 24:18that? What if they say,
  • 24:18well, look, maybe it's a
  • 24:19really low chance, but I'm
  • 24:20gonna take it?
  • 24:22And are some of these
  • 24:23impasses
  • 24:24just inevitable?
  • 24:25Is there a utilitarian
  • 24:27final arbiter in that impasse
  • 24:28who just gets to decide
  • 24:29you don't get to stay
  • 24:30here for three years?
  • 24:33So I just went through
  • 24:34this whole host of things
  • 24:35that I think that this
  • 24:36is potentially about.
  • 24:38Right? There are a lot
  • 24:39of different
  • 24:41different things. And the point
  • 24:42of this is, I hope
  • 24:43you're already convinced of this,
  • 24:44but that, like, there's a
  • 24:46lot of ethics in these
  • 24:48hospitalizations.
  • 24:49But there's one thing that
  • 24:50I think none of this
  • 24:51has talked about.
  • 24:53And I think that that's
  • 24:54that we also have this
  • 24:56collective,
  • 24:57tacitly, but firmly held belief
  • 24:58that a good life is
  • 24:59lived at home
  • 25:00and that there's a moral
  • 25:01imperative to get kids out
  • 25:03of the hospital as a
  • 25:04distinct existential good.
  • 25:06And that's why I've shown
  • 25:07you this picture that I
  • 25:07stole from some children's hospital
  • 25:09website of this, like, very
  • 25:10harmonious, appealing looking picture of
  • 25:12a mother taking care of
  • 25:13her child with a tracheostomy
  • 25:15and what is clearly a
  • 25:16home. Right? That this is
  • 25:17what people are supposed to
  • 25:18want and that it's achievable.
  • 25:22So what's inherently bad about
  • 25:24living in the hospital?
  • 25:25So relative to what? Again,
  • 25:27what's the comparison here?
  • 25:29Bad versus living at home,
  • 25:31bad versus dying in the
  • 25:32hospital. What's the comparison?
  • 25:34And what if living at
  • 25:35the hospital is better than
  • 25:37living at home for some
  • 25:38people?
  • 25:39And who decides
  • 25:40if dying is the least
  • 25:42worst outcome among the things
  • 25:44that are available to you?
  • 25:45And is that dying in
  • 25:46the hospital? Is that going
  • 25:47home with hospice?
  • 25:49I think that when we
  • 25:51complain about these long hospitalizations
  • 25:53without really getting into this
  • 25:54we're ignoring how complicated this
  • 25:56problem is.
  • 25:58So when we think about
  • 25:59what might be inherently bad
  • 26:00or good about living in
  • 26:01the hospital, there's a lot
  • 26:02of different stakeholders here. I
  • 26:03heard recently that stakeholders like
  • 26:05a bad word that I'm
  • 26:06not supposed to use, but
  • 26:06I don't know what the
  • 26:07alternative is.
  • 26:09So for the patient, for
  • 26:10the family, for the hospital,
  • 26:11for the unit,
  • 26:12for the healthcare professionals, I
  • 26:14think some of these hospitalizations
  • 26:15do take a specific toll
  • 26:17on individual
  • 26:19providers, particularly first line healthcare
  • 26:21providers, like bedside providers, like
  • 26:23nurses and RTs.
  • 26:25So what's the bad stuff
  • 26:27about living in the hospital?
  • 26:28I mean, this has actually
  • 26:28been studied a little. People
  • 26:29have gone and really interviewed
  • 26:30people on, like, what's bad
  • 26:31about living in the hospital?
  • 26:33But you get exposed to
  • 26:35unequivocally
  • 26:36bad things like multi resistant,
  • 26:38multi drug resistant organisms.
  • 26:40In preparing for this, I
  • 26:41read that, you know, medical
  • 26:43error, there's like a dose
  • 26:44response relationship. The longer you're
  • 26:46in the hospital, the more
  • 26:47errors you're going to get
  • 26:48exposed to just by virtue
  • 26:49of being there.
  • 26:50There's noise. You get like,
  • 26:52like ICU hysteria, right? You're
  • 26:54not exposed to normal light
  • 26:55cycling.
  • 26:57You don't get a normal
  • 26:59childhood emotional experience. You don't
  • 27:02get normal development. You can
  • 27:03regress. You don't get to
  • 27:04move around. You're sort of
  • 27:05not free in the way
  • 27:06that kids are supposed to
  • 27:07be free. You don't interact
  • 27:09with your peers. You don't
  • 27:10get too attached to your
  • 27:11family in the same way.
  • 27:14And there are ways that
  • 27:15I'll talk about in a
  • 27:16minute that the care model,
  • 27:17if you live in the
  • 27:18ICU, is really probably not
  • 27:20the care model that you
  • 27:22need.
  • 27:24On the other hand, you're
  • 27:26safe. Right? You have a
  • 27:27huge pool of care providers
  • 27:28that take care of you.
  • 27:30Potentially, there's all this stuff
  • 27:31that's easier for you to
  • 27:32get there than it is
  • 27:33for you to get when
  • 27:34you live at the far
  • 27:35reaches of the Upper Peninsula,
  • 27:36for example. But even in
  • 27:38a big city, if your
  • 27:38parents don't have a car,
  • 27:41You know, OT, PT, speech,
  • 27:43all of these things are
  • 27:44there for you.
  • 27:46You have access to all
  • 27:47your specialists that can come
  • 27:48when you need them. You
  • 27:48can get all your labs.
  • 27:49You can get all your
  • 27:50tests. I would argue
  • 27:51that there are some good
  • 27:53things for you about living
  • 27:54in the hospital.
  • 27:56So what about for parents,
  • 27:57right? I think there are
  • 27:58some really bad things for
  • 27:59parents about having their kid
  • 28:00live in the hospital. They're
  • 28:02separated. People are really starting
  • 28:03to get things like the
  • 28:05indirect cost of having a
  • 28:07hospitalized child, both in terms
  • 28:08of things like that the
  • 28:09insurance doesn't cover, but also
  • 28:11things like parking, right, or
  • 28:13like eating at the expensive
  • 28:14cafeteria.
  • 28:16What it does to your
  • 28:17other kids, the stressors on
  • 28:18you,
  • 28:19the last, the loss of
  • 28:21a normal kind of natural
  • 28:22parenting experience, the fishbowl effect,
  • 28:25people are looking at you
  • 28:27all the time. And you
  • 28:28kind of can't talk about
  • 28:29this without talking about this
  • 28:30really
  • 28:31poignant essay that my friend
  • 28:33and colleague Annie Jeanvier wrote.
  • 28:34She's a neonatal ethicist who
  • 28:35had a twenty five weeker.
  • 28:37And she talks about this
  • 28:38pressure she felt to go
  • 28:40visit on days that she
  • 28:41didn't want to go because
  • 28:42she felt like she had
  • 28:43to go show that she
  • 28:44was a good parent.
  • 28:47But
  • 28:48we see hospitalization for some
  • 28:50of our families be their
  • 28:51route to housing security and
  • 28:53food
  • 28:54and help and respite care
  • 28:56and community. You know, we
  • 28:57see people who find
  • 28:58lifelong friends who understand their
  • 29:00challenges living at the Ronald
  • 29:02McDonald House. Right? It's not
  • 29:03all bad.
  • 29:06And when they go home,
  • 29:08the supports that are supposed
  • 29:09to be there aren't there.
  • 29:10Right? And there are studies
  • 29:11that show that all these
  • 29:12people from your church and
  • 29:13your community that say they're
  • 29:14gonna be with you, all
  • 29:15of that's gone in a
  • 29:16year. And the home nursing
  • 29:17you were supposed to get
  • 29:18doesn't come. So you go
  • 29:19home and you're alone.
  • 29:22Now for the hospital, there's
  • 29:23lots of downsides to this,
  • 29:24right? We're full all the
  • 29:25time.
  • 29:26There's a resource strain. And
  • 29:27I have a friend who
  • 29:28talks about this in terms
  • 29:29of time, money and feelings.
  • 29:31Right? And you put a
  • 29:32lot into these patients. There's
  • 29:34this tacit triage that you're
  • 29:35doing all the time because
  • 29:36you have the chronic patient
  • 29:37and you get paired with,
  • 29:38like you're the nurse, you
  • 29:39get paired with the sickest
  • 29:40patient in the ICU, and
  • 29:42you're constantly trying to decide
  • 29:43where you put your energy
  • 29:44and that burns you out
  • 29:45and burned out nurses leave
  • 29:47the profession.
  • 29:49Right?
  • 29:50And it's a care model
  • 29:51mismatch. This is not what
  • 29:53acute care children's hospitals are
  • 29:54built to do.
  • 29:57You kind of have to
  • 29:58really hunt for good sides
  • 30:00of this for the hospital,
  • 30:01right? Maybe there's some joy,
  • 30:02maybe there's some emotional reward.
  • 30:05These hospitalizations are generally kind
  • 30:06of money losers. But some
  • 30:08of these patients in the
  • 30:08long run, they have lots
  • 30:09of surgeries, surgeries make money,
  • 30:11to save lives. They're scandalous
  • 30:12sometimes and like sometimes it's
  • 30:14good, right? I don't want
  • 30:14to blow it off.
  • 30:15All right. So there's a
  • 30:17population of children who live
  • 30:19in the hospital competing for
  • 30:20acute care beds and attention
  • 30:21with no good alternatives. I
  • 30:23think everybody
  • 30:24sold on that. But so
  • 30:25now what?
  • 30:27So what are the long
  • 30:28term fixes? Right? So there's
  • 30:30the really distant
  • 30:32Mount Everest kind of hard
  • 30:33stuff,
  • 30:34which is getting the resources
  • 30:36that these children need to
  • 30:37put them in a better
  • 30:38environment for them.
  • 30:41So like long term extended
  • 30:43care, like adults have something
  • 30:44called an LTAC, like a
  • 30:45long term acute care center.
  • 30:47Like, we don't really have
  • 30:48those for kids in most
  • 30:49states.
  • 30:50Respite care, like, in the
  • 30:51UK, at least, I think
  • 30:53there used to be, like,
  • 30:54if you took care of
  • 30:55a child like this at
  • 30:56home, you could take them
  • 30:56somewhere to take get a
  • 30:58break
  • 30:59from doing this.
  • 31:00And, you know, a lot
  • 31:01of the chronic critical illness
  • 31:03literature talks about better complex
  • 31:05primary care and medical home
  • 31:06models so that the world
  • 31:07is better for kids like
  • 31:09this.
  • 31:11So if you think about
  • 31:12case one, though, right, that
  • 31:13that first case that I
  • 31:14told you about about the
  • 31:15child who just like codes
  • 31:16all the time.
  • 31:18So here's the model I
  • 31:19showed you. Right? And I
  • 31:20think, though, there's a subset
  • 31:22of this chronic critical illness
  • 31:23with people who really are,
  • 31:25like, constantly unstable.
  • 31:28And there's a set of
  • 31:28patients who really do live
  • 31:30in this liminal space where
  • 31:31they're too sick or unstable
  • 31:33to go home, but they're
  • 31:34not dying.
  • 31:35They're too chronic for an
  • 31:36acute care hospital. And this
  • 31:38is where we've talked in
  • 31:38our group about this need
  • 31:39for, like, the baby LTCH
  • 31:40that nobody really has,
  • 31:43that can take care of
  • 31:44a child like this in
  • 31:45an appropriate setting,
  • 31:46with better mechanisms to support
  • 31:48continuity, and I'll talk more
  • 31:49about that in a minute,
  • 31:50that aren't in competition for
  • 31:51acute care beds. And I
  • 31:53put an asterisk
  • 31:54beside this because kids like
  • 31:55this truthfully do tend to
  • 31:58toggle back and forth between
  • 31:59institutions. It's not really true
  • 32:01that they just stay there.
  • 32:02But I think there,
  • 32:04you could build a place
  • 32:06for like someone like the
  • 32:07patient, the patient in case
  • 32:09one.
  • 32:10And maybe sometimes we really
  • 32:12do kick the can down
  • 32:13the road and just fail
  • 32:14to put together a coherent
  • 32:15long term plan. We don't
  • 32:15do that on purpose. This
  • 32:17is not a bad intentions
  • 32:18thing. Usually in ethics, I
  • 32:19mean, like intentions are good.
  • 32:21But it's just the wrong
  • 32:23care model.
  • 32:24And so Erica, one of
  • 32:26my partners in this, Erica
  • 32:27Andrus, talks about there's more
  • 32:28than one kind of continuity
  • 32:30problem that we have.
  • 32:32It's informational continuity. How do
  • 32:34we hand off relationship
  • 32:37information?
  • 32:38Shift to shift, week to
  • 32:39week, month to month. How
  • 32:40do we get that information
  • 32:42into the right brains in
  • 32:43the right way?
  • 32:44How do we hand off
  • 32:45plans, that management continuity? How
  • 32:47do we agree on how
  • 32:48we're going to take care
  • 32:48of this patient?
  • 32:50Relational continuity. How do you
  • 32:51give these patients that sort
  • 32:52of long term
  • 32:54care relationship that they need?
  • 32:55And this figure, I don't
  • 32:56expect you to read it
  • 32:57all, but this this is
  • 32:58a really complicated patient to
  • 33:00take care of in a
  • 33:01setting where, like, most ICUs,
  • 33:03the attending changes every week.
  • 33:05And for the record, like
  • 33:05as the division director, I
  • 33:06don't think that we should
  • 33:07be on service for a
  • 33:08month, but,
  • 33:09but it doesn't really work.
  • 33:12And I do think that
  • 33:13there are some shorter term
  • 33:14fixes or we could at
  • 33:16least
  • 33:16try. And, and I do
  • 33:18think this is a little
  • 33:19bit still the case of
  • 33:21the nothing we've tried isn't
  • 33:22working and we're spending a
  • 33:23lot of time admiring this
  • 33:25problem.
  • 33:27These are not low hanging
  • 33:28fruit though. This this is
  • 33:30still
  • 33:31hard, gnarly stuff to get
  • 33:32at. But thinking about
  • 33:35what is the way you
  • 33:36get a complex care coordination?
  • 33:38How do we communicate about
  • 33:39these patients?
  • 33:40I don't even think we're
  • 33:41just talking about implicit bias
  • 33:42here. I think there's explicit
  • 33:43bias here. I mean, I
  • 33:44think there's biases we know
  • 33:45we have in the way
  • 33:46we take care of these
  • 33:46patients.
  • 33:47And decision support is a
  • 33:49thing that we know a
  • 33:50lot about abstractly that we
  • 33:51have not brought very effectively
  • 33:53into actual hospitals to do
  • 33:56it. And people are starting
  • 33:57to write about this, both
  • 33:58in the adult world and
  • 33:59in the pediatric world, about
  • 34:01how do you do better
  • 34:02when these kids come into
  • 34:03the hospital and provide the
  • 34:05kind of interventions that they
  • 34:06need.
  • 34:09We could think about being
  • 34:11more consistent
  • 34:12in the way that we
  • 34:13apply care for these patients,
  • 34:15both to reduce that maddening
  • 34:16odyssey of nobody agrees on
  • 34:18whether or not we should
  • 34:18do the trach. We talked
  • 34:19about this at lunch, too.
  • 34:21And potentially to make that
  • 34:23hospitalization more efficient and potentially
  • 34:25shorter. Right? So I just
  • 34:26picked here, I tried to
  • 34:27say, does anyone know when
  • 34:28you should do a tracheostomy
  • 34:30for a premature baby with
  • 34:32bronchopulmonary dysplasia? And the answer
  • 34:34is no. Right?
  • 34:36People have attempted to kind
  • 34:38of get at this in
  • 34:40other
  • 34:41similarly
  • 34:42messy spaces.
  • 34:44So this is the multi
  • 34:45organization statement that looked at
  • 34:47how you resolve kind of
  • 34:48intractable disputes about,
  • 34:52potentially non beneficial treatment, right,
  • 34:53which is not these patients.
  • 34:54But the idea is
  • 34:56even the stickiest
  • 34:57problems
  • 34:58do lend themselves to
  • 35:01guidelines.
  • 35:02Right? And we could probably
  • 35:03do better to do that.
  • 35:07Where I'm less sure that
  • 35:08we're at all ready to
  • 35:10go
  • 35:11is like,
  • 35:12could we at the front
  • 35:13end say no?
  • 35:14Right?
  • 35:15This is a sort of
  • 35:16tweaked version of that that
  • 35:18figure I showed you earlier
  • 35:19about, like, who eats the
  • 35:19pie?
  • 35:22Other than in a true
  • 35:23public health crisis, and we
  • 35:24know we've just had one,
  • 35:25we got we did do
  • 35:26this,
  • 35:28to say, like, you deserve
  • 35:29the bad and you don't.
  • 35:32I don't think we're ready
  • 35:34to do that for this
  • 35:34population when we haven't showed
  • 35:36that we're ready to do
  • 35:36that for any other population,
  • 35:40when we don't have anywhere
  • 35:41else for this patient to
  • 35:42go. So what we'd really
  • 35:43be saying is
  • 35:45our algorithm predicts that you're
  • 35:46still gonna be here in
  • 35:47two years, so you don't
  • 35:48get to live. And I
  • 35:50don't think that that that's
  • 35:51where we are.
  • 35:53And similarly,
  • 35:56I don't think that we
  • 35:56have the collective will to
  • 35:58cut people off from their
  • 35:59health care in a coherent,
  • 36:00transparent, and systematically applied way,
  • 36:02which isn't to say that
  • 36:03I don't think people die
  • 36:05because the health care system
  • 36:06won't pay for them. I
  • 36:06think that happens all the
  • 36:07time, but not in the
  • 36:08light of day.
  • 36:10And, again, I don't
  • 36:12think in the US, we
  • 36:13are ready to say this
  • 36:15hospitalization. You have spent as
  • 36:16much as we're gonna spend
  • 36:17on this hospitalization.
  • 36:18You have to leave even
  • 36:19if there's nowhere for you
  • 36:20to go. Now, other health
  • 36:22systems in other countries
  • 36:23do this kind of, but
  • 36:25we haven't done that coherently
  • 36:27openly in this country.
  • 36:31And society really does fail.
  • 36:32Some patients who could be
  • 36:33home or housed if the
  • 36:35resources were there. And that
  • 36:36was my second case. Like,
  • 36:36this is a patient who,
  • 36:38like, if medical foster care
  • 36:40was an actual
  • 36:41thing, that patient could have
  • 36:42gone home.
  • 36:44But at least in my
  • 36:45state,
  • 36:46it's a it's a medical
  • 36:47foster care is an idea.
  • 36:49And what medical foster care
  • 36:51actually becomes is
  • 36:53we call that patient's mom
  • 36:55a bad mom for not
  • 36:56being able to mobilize the
  • 36:58no resources that she has
  • 36:59to take care of her
  • 37:00child, and we call CPS
  • 37:01and forcibly remove that child.
  • 37:02And that is not medical
  • 37:03foster care. That is something
  • 37:04else entirely.
  • 37:06And we don't have some
  • 37:07states have great medical long
  • 37:08term facilities,
  • 37:10for kids like this. My
  • 37:11state doesn't. Right? And so
  • 37:14this is we're not gonna
  • 37:15solve this at the hospital
  • 37:16level. This is a policy
  • 37:17level problem. And, again, this
  • 37:18is Mount Everest.
  • 37:20But
  • 37:22but we're failing to to
  • 37:24to come up with an
  • 37:25alternative to the three hundred
  • 37:26day hospitalization for some of
  • 37:27these kids.
  • 37:30So now what?
  • 37:31So I told you about
  • 37:32this paper,
  • 37:33which was this, this, these
  • 37:34are kind of a Renee
  • 37:35Boss and Miriam Shapiro are
  • 37:36really kind of leading the
  • 37:37efforts to define this. But
  • 37:39they're looking at this from
  • 37:39a population level of who
  • 37:41are children with chronic critical
  • 37:43illness and how do we
  • 37:44decide,
  • 37:45define
  • 37:46a research
  • 37:47agenda for those kids.
  • 37:49So if you're interested in
  • 37:50this, I mean, they they
  • 37:51they're they've written a road
  • 37:52map for, like, what to
  • 37:53study.
  • 37:54There's nothing wrong with this.
  • 37:56But I also think we
  • 37:57need to do this. I
  • 37:58think that we need to
  • 37:59look at this
  • 38:01from a defining these hospitalizations
  • 38:03in a more coherent way
  • 38:04to study these as hospitalizations.
  • 38:07So get past you were
  • 38:08in the PICU for fourteen
  • 38:10days
  • 38:11and really think about this
  • 38:12as to
  • 38:14are we measuring these hospitalizations
  • 38:16in days, weeks, months, years?
  • 38:19Can we wrap our heads
  • 38:20around who these patients are?
  • 38:22What are the outcomes that
  • 38:24we're interested in? And what
  • 38:25does that mean?
  • 38:27And I think that, you
  • 38:28know, I was mentored by
  • 38:29Bill Meadow,
  • 38:30who's
  • 38:31kind of revolutionary insight at
  • 38:33the time was
  • 38:34when you don't know what
  • 38:36to do about an ethically
  • 38:37vexing problem, you start by
  • 38:39counting stuff. And we haven't
  • 38:40even really started to count
  • 38:42this yet. And I think
  • 38:43we really need to.
  • 38:45So I'm gonna
  • 38:47summarize.
  • 38:48I think, am I where
  • 38:48you wanted me to be?
  • 38:49I think I am.
  • 38:51So a small but important
  • 38:53population of medically complex children
  • 38:55lives in acute care hospitals
  • 38:56in the US and around
  • 38:57the world in a system
  • 38:58that fails them and everybody
  • 39:00else. It's not just hurting
  • 39:01them.
  • 39:03There's a care model and
  • 39:04resource mismatch.
  • 39:06There's no available and appropriate
  • 39:08resource allocation framework that's gonna
  • 39:10triage us out of this.
  • 39:14And there's this unrealistic
  • 39:15monolithic expectation that going home
  • 39:18is everybody's North Star.
  • 39:20And to bring this back
  • 39:21to ethics, that's a parental
  • 39:22authority problem. That's a best
  • 39:24interest problem. We don't know
  • 39:25how to try to force
  • 39:26everybody to want the same,
  • 39:28how not to force everybody
  • 39:29to want the same thing.
  • 39:31There's limited resources
  • 39:33and will for things that
  • 39:35could help address challenges in
  • 39:36the short term. And those
  • 39:37aren't fast, easy, or cheap,
  • 39:39but there's even less for
  • 39:40the long term. And I've
  • 39:40said it now, I think
  • 39:41the third time, that's Mount
  • 39:42Everest.
  • 39:44So that's what I'm gonna
  • 39:45say about that. That's the
  • 39:46living roof of my children's
  • 39:47hospital, which I think is
  • 39:47pretty cool.
  • 39:49I wanna acknowledge Erica and
  • 39:50Beanie who have been my,
  • 39:51like, thought
  • 39:52kind of,
  • 39:53partners in crime in this.
  • 39:54That's my email address if
  • 39:55you're interested in this and
  • 39:56wanna get in on it.
  • 39:58And I'm gonna stop there.
  • 39:59And hopefully, you're gonna ask
  • 40:00me hard questions that I
  • 40:01can't answer because then I've
  • 40:02done it right.
  • 40:09Yeah. I'm gonna I'm gonna
  • 40:10sit and take the second
  • 40:11bottle of water. Yeah. Well,
  • 40:12if you could sit, I'm
  • 40:13gonna give you one of
  • 40:13these to take a minute.
  • 40:14Okay.
  • 40:15There you go.
  • 40:17There you go.
  • 40:19Alright. Well, that was pretty
  • 40:21depressing.
  • 40:23But that's alright because, I
  • 40:25mean,
  • 40:26those who work in the
  • 40:27field are not shocked or
  • 40:28depressed,
  • 40:29by this because,
  • 40:31we're well aware of it.
  • 40:32This is a this is
  • 40:33for those of you who
  • 40:33don't know, for the students
  • 40:35here, this is not,
  • 40:37this is a problem here
  • 40:39as well.
  • 40:42I I guess that I'll
  • 40:43take the first question while
  • 40:44you guys think of your
  • 40:45questions.
  • 40:46One of the things that
  • 40:47occurs to me
  • 40:49is that and and when
  • 40:50you mentioned Bill Meadow, I
  • 40:51I was reminded of a
  • 40:52paper that Bill wrote years
  • 40:53ago, which you may come
  • 40:55to mind for you as
  • 40:55well. You might have been
  • 40:56involved in. In fact, it
  • 40:57was a study done at
  • 40:58University of Chicago years ago.
  • 41:00When we talk about these
  • 41:01kids, we could also
  • 41:03and you alluded this early
  • 41:04in the talk,
  • 41:05categorize them broadly. Right? And
  • 41:07say, these are the kids
  • 41:08who we think this kid's
  • 41:09never gonna get out of
  • 41:10here alive. And these are
  • 41:11the kids who we think,
  • 41:12you know what? If we
  • 41:12really work at this for
  • 41:13a long, long time, this
  • 41:15kid's relatively stable. We just
  • 41:16gotta eventually find a way
  • 41:17to get this kid someplace
  • 41:18where he can be on
  • 41:19the ventilator, you know, and
  • 41:20get the kind of care
  • 41:21he needs.
  • 41:23One of the things that
  • 41:24Bill showed years ago was
  • 41:25we're really bad at figuring
  • 41:26out who those kids are
  • 41:27who are not gonna get
  • 41:28out of here alive, at
  • 41:29least in neonatology.
  • 41:31But it's a separate thing,
  • 41:33I guess, what what I'm
  • 41:34thinking, that the staff becomes
  • 41:36very distressed
  • 41:38by kids who were in
  • 41:39the in the in the
  • 41:40ICU for a very long
  • 41:41period of time when people
  • 41:42think that this is never
  • 41:43gonna have a happy ending.
  • 41:44Now you're you made the
  • 41:45point with your examples that
  • 41:47sometimes there is a happy
  • 41:48ending.
  • 41:49Is there a way when
  • 41:50we think about this to
  • 41:51try and divide these up
  • 41:53into two different groups in
  • 41:54our mind, or is that
  • 41:55gonna just make things worse?
  • 41:58Well,
  • 41:59is this I don't know.
  • 42:04Tap it. It might be
  • 42:05on.
  • 42:07Nope.
  • 42:08Am I on? There you
  • 42:09go. Okay. It's on.
  • 42:12Sort of.
  • 42:13I'm not in this. I'm
  • 42:15not thinking about patients
  • 42:17who have a condition where
  • 42:19from the get go, we're
  • 42:20saying,
  • 42:21this is likely
  • 42:22not a condition that you
  • 42:24survive. I think that's a
  • 42:25sort of different entity.
  • 42:27These are kids that you
  • 42:29really thought you were gonna
  • 42:30get home.
  • 42:32Right? And I, and I
  • 42:32think that the idea is
  • 42:34it's gonna be long and
  • 42:35it's gonna be hard,
  • 42:37but everyone has sort of
  • 42:39assumed
  • 42:40that there is some way
  • 42:41that this gets better and
  • 42:42you go home.
  • 42:44Now,
  • 42:45like my first case, you'd
  • 42:46think like how many codes
  • 42:47is this gonna take for
  • 42:48us to adjust that
  • 42:50that assumption? But the idea
  • 42:51is this is somehow with
  • 42:52time reversible.
  • 42:55Right? And so this is
  • 42:56one of the things about
  • 42:57kids with trachs, right, is
  • 42:58that a lot of them
  • 42:58decalate. A lot of them
  • 42:59don't need these ventilators forever.
  • 43:01So I think that you
  • 43:03so so I guess to
  • 43:04try to answer your question,
  • 43:05I think you have to
  • 43:05start as what's the primary
  • 43:07condition, and is there something
  • 43:08here that gets better
  • 43:10if you can write out
  • 43:11the initial hard part?
  • 43:13So maybe that's what it
  • 43:13is. The defining thing is,
  • 43:15is there some aspect of
  • 43:16this that gets better with
  • 43:17time?
  • 43:19Yes, please. Wait. Give us
  • 43:21one second till,
  • 43:22we get the microphone to
  • 43:23you.
  • 43:28That was, that was really
  • 43:29wonderful. You have my mind
  • 43:30spinning, though, and my head's
  • 43:31spinning, and I think that
  • 43:33was your your aim. I'm
  • 43:35Larry Vitilano,
  • 43:36a long, long time,
  • 43:38pediatric psychologist here. And,
  • 43:41my question is, on the
  • 43:42other side, thinking about what
  • 43:44parents really want for their
  • 43:45kids,
  • 43:46for a second. And and
  • 43:48if, you know, I always
  • 43:49assume that in their own
  • 43:50ways, they want what's best
  • 43:52for their kids. We may
  • 43:53not agree with it, but
  • 43:54it's it's what they
  • 43:56want. And can do you
  • 43:57do is it useful to
  • 43:58think about can we give
  • 44:00parents more options,
  • 44:03for them to choose on
  • 44:04choose from a home or
  • 44:06institutional,
  • 44:08you know, I don't know,
  • 44:09some kind of live in
  • 44:10paraprofessionals.
  • 44:12You know, I know that
  • 44:14a lot of cultures do
  • 44:14that. They they they train
  • 44:16someone who then lives with
  • 44:17them.
  • 44:19What's your thoughts about
  • 44:21giving parents more options, or
  • 44:22should we just stay with
  • 44:24what's the medically soundest
  • 44:27option in our majority opinion?
  • 44:30Well, so I think that
  • 44:31that is there's there's a
  • 44:32lot in that question.
  • 44:35The least satisfying part is
  • 44:37you'd like to give parents
  • 44:38all the options that you
  • 44:39have. And I think you
  • 44:40have a moral obligation to
  • 44:41do that. I think the
  • 44:42reality is depending on where
  • 44:44you live,
  • 44:45sometimes you really don't have
  • 44:47that many.
  • 44:48Right? And so things like
  • 44:49medical foster care, which is
  • 44:51this sort of theoretical unicorn
  • 44:53that doesn't really exist,
  • 44:56where I think
  • 44:58I am gonna get to
  • 45:00use an extra slide. We
  • 45:01had this big debate about
  • 45:01whether I get to use
  • 45:02an extra slide. Alright. It's
  • 45:04really exciting.
  • 45:06Because I wanted to talk
  • 45:07about this a little bit.
  • 45:08I think that
  • 45:10what is,
  • 45:15this one. What is really
  • 45:16hard
  • 45:17is that
  • 45:19when you think about options,
  • 45:21is this gets really gray
  • 45:23really fast in these kinds
  • 45:24of situations when you're trying
  • 45:25to engage parents
  • 45:27because our whole concept
  • 45:29of what it means to
  • 45:30be ready for discharge and
  • 45:31what a safe discharge
  • 45:33means
  • 45:34is really a square peg
  • 45:36in a round hole thing.
  • 45:36And that it's not built
  • 45:38around this kind of kid.
  • 45:40And when you're thinking about
  • 45:41how parents are going to
  • 45:42weigh
  • 45:44different options,
  • 45:45they're not comparing opposite oranges,
  • 45:47right? They're really different kinds
  • 45:48of outcomes.
  • 45:49And so
  • 45:52it takes a really advanced
  • 45:53kind of communication
  • 45:54skill set and a lot
  • 45:55of time and a lot
  • 45:56of encounters. And that's, that's
  • 45:58why I talked about decision
  • 45:59support a little bit. I
  • 46:01think walking parents through that
  • 46:02is is hard because nothing
  • 46:04that we have in the
  • 46:06hospital, none of our tools
  • 46:07are built for these kinds
  • 46:09of decisions. And also this
  • 46:11idea of, like, are you
  • 46:12going to achieve the ideal
  • 46:13discharge? You talk about the
  • 46:14paraprofessional
  • 46:15thing.
  • 46:17A lot of times, a
  • 46:18lot, in the times that
  • 46:19I've seen some of these
  • 46:20discharge,
  • 46:21we do move the goalposts
  • 46:23over time based on sort
  • 46:24of what's seeming achievable. So,
  • 46:26like, I'll give you an
  • 46:27example of that. In our
  • 46:28HomeVent program, we say you
  • 46:29have to have two trained
  • 46:31providers.
  • 46:32Someone has to like, providers
  • 46:33meaning parents, you know, who
  • 46:35are or parent equivalents who
  • 46:36are one of them has
  • 46:38to be trained up on
  • 46:40eight million things that they
  • 46:41have to be able to
  • 46:42do and demonstrate
  • 46:44competence in doing. And one
  • 46:45of them has to be
  • 46:46home with that child
  • 46:47twenty four hours a day
  • 46:49to provide that, like, awake
  • 46:52to tend to the digging
  • 46:53and the bells and the
  • 46:54things and the emergencies with
  • 46:55the thing.
  • 46:56And then maybe they can
  • 46:58get home nursing and maybe
  • 46:59they can't.
  • 47:00Right? And
  • 47:02sometimes you really don't have
  • 47:03that second person.
  • 47:06And at some point, sometimes
  • 47:07we say,
  • 47:08we're going to let you
  • 47:09do this without the second
  • 47:11person.
  • 47:12And it's not our favorite
  • 47:13option and it's not the
  • 47:14best option, but
  • 47:16it's the option.
  • 47:18And if the alternative, like
  • 47:19in my state is you
  • 47:20give up custody of this
  • 47:22child
  • 47:22because you're never leaving,
  • 47:24maybe that's a good enough
  • 47:25option. And I think that
  • 47:26a lot of these discharge
  • 47:27do become about
  • 47:29building consensus with parents about
  • 47:32safe enough
  • 47:33in an imperfect world.
  • 47:36But one of the things
  • 47:36that's really hard is when,
  • 47:38especially when we start getting
  • 47:39really creative and engaging parents
  • 47:40with like
  • 47:42really out of the box
  • 47:42ways, finding like resources in
  • 47:44their communities and things is
  • 47:45that there there are data
  • 47:48that those resources go away
  • 47:50and that these safety nets
  • 47:52that people build, the novelty
  • 47:53of this wears off and
  • 47:55people leave.
  • 47:57But
  • 47:59how you get people we're
  • 48:01doing some empirical research at
  • 48:02our place on how parents
  • 48:03get engaged in tracheostomy decision
  • 48:05making and who they talk
  • 48:07to and where they go
  • 48:07for information
  • 48:09and how you get people
  • 48:10to
  • 48:11really engage with this question
  • 48:13of, am I ready to
  • 48:13have an ICU in my
  • 48:14house?
  • 48:16And if I'm not,
  • 48:17what's the alternative? So in
  • 48:19my experience,
  • 48:20when people say no to
  • 48:21tracheostomy,
  • 48:23they're not saying,
  • 48:25if what this takes is
  • 48:26a tracheostomy and then ICU
  • 48:28in my house,
  • 48:29I'd rather consider hospice and
  • 48:30comfort care. What they're saying
  • 48:32is we will stay here
  • 48:33until we don't need one.
  • 48:35What? Until we don't need
  • 48:36one.
  • 48:37And we talked about this
  • 48:38at lunch. Sometimes they successfully
  • 48:39stay until they don't need
  • 48:40one.
  • 48:41Sometimes they stay until they're
  • 48:42like, alright. I guess we're
  • 48:43not ever gonna not need
  • 48:44one, and they got one.
  • 48:46Sometimes something catastrophic happens.
  • 48:48But usually, the alternative they're
  • 48:50weighing
  • 48:51is not different goals of
  • 48:53care. It's a workaround to
  • 48:55the thing that they don't
  • 48:56want, can't fathom, can't achieve.
  • 48:58I don't know if that
  • 48:59kinda got it here.
  • 49:03But to a point that
  • 49:04you made,
  • 49:05here, take that with you,
  • 49:06To a point that you
  • 49:07made before, Naomi, which is
  • 49:09maybe we can reject the
  • 49:10premise. And this is something
  • 49:11that you touched on, which
  • 49:12that does
  • 49:14going home
  • 49:15I mean, should that be
  • 49:16the North Star? Would we
  • 49:18take an awful lot of
  • 49:19pressure
  • 49:19off an awful lot of
  • 49:21people if
  • 49:23we didn't say what we're
  • 49:23gonna try and do is
  • 49:24get this to the point
  • 49:25where you can take this
  • 49:25child home. You know what?
  • 49:27Your life is could be
  • 49:28better, and, in fact, the
  • 49:29kid's life could be better
  • 49:30if we found some place
  • 49:31within a thirty minute drive
  • 49:32of your house,
  • 49:34where they could take care
  • 49:34of this. And you could
  • 49:35still be very much involved
  • 49:36in the child's life. And,
  • 49:38I mean, here, I mean,
  • 49:39some folks in the room
  • 49:40still might remember our pediatric
  • 49:42respiratory care unit.
  • 49:44And, I mean, I mean,
  • 49:45I'll be blunt, which was
  • 49:47for, you know, for some
  • 49:48cases like this, it wasn't
  • 49:49designed for exactly like this,
  • 49:51but I I never heard
  • 49:52an argument for closing it
  • 49:53down except that, you know,
  • 49:55it costs money.
  • 49:58That, obviously, it would cost
  • 49:59money to have these facilities
  • 50:01and and
  • 50:02in terms of generating RVUs,
  • 50:04etcetera, this would be a
  • 50:05big question. But but but
  • 50:06what about that? You you
  • 50:07you question that premise yourself
  • 50:08that maybe we shouldn't be
  • 50:10aiming to get these kids
  • 50:11home, but someplace else parents
  • 50:12who don't want I mean,
  • 50:13I think to say
  • 50:14to take a parent who
  • 50:15doesn't wanna turn their living
  • 50:17room into an ICU
  • 50:18but wants their kid to
  • 50:20live
  • 50:21as being fundamentally irrational, I
  • 50:23don't think that's that irrational.
  • 50:24Like, I think that makes
  • 50:25a lot of sense. You
  • 50:26know?
  • 50:28Please.
  • 50:29Sure. Thank you so much,
  • 50:31for coming. It's really a
  • 50:32thought provoking talk, and
  • 50:35it made me think of,
  • 50:38Emily Oster, who's an economist
  • 50:40out of Brown who writes
  • 50:41about parenting issues.
  • 50:43And she often says there's
  • 50:45no secret option c, meaning
  • 50:47we ought to dispense with
  • 50:48the magical thinking
  • 50:50and the wishing away of
  • 50:51certain problems and sometimes come
  • 50:53to a place of acceptance
  • 50:55depending on our role in
  • 50:56a given system about
  • 50:58what the limitations are. And
  • 51:00you reference, like, some of
  • 51:01these are hospital level solutions.
  • 51:02Some of these are systems
  • 51:03level solutions. Some of these
  • 51:05are Mount Everest y things
  • 51:06where we'd have to move
  • 51:07heaven and earth to get
  • 51:08to them.
  • 51:09I'm in my first year
  • 51:11of medical school.
  • 51:12So I'm thinking about the
  • 51:14long training road ahead, and
  • 51:16I'm wondering what you think
  • 51:18are
  • 51:19practical
  • 51:20skills
  • 51:21that medical students,
  • 51:23residents, fellows, even attendings. What
  • 51:26have you seen people equip
  • 51:27themselves with
  • 51:29that lets them
  • 51:31come to a place of
  • 51:32acceptance without having to solve
  • 51:33those systems level problems.
  • 51:36And
  • 51:37we'll never avoid moral distress,
  • 51:39but navigate it in a
  • 51:41healthy way while caring for
  • 51:43these patients.
  • 51:45Well, I'll give you one
  • 51:46that doesn't apply to all
  • 51:47of those situations,
  • 51:49but does work for me
  • 51:51a lot of the time
  • 51:53that comes around
  • 51:55letting people want things that
  • 51:56I wouldn't pick.
  • 51:58Right. And mine is it's
  • 51:59truly a mantra and it's,
  • 52:00I wish they didn't want
  • 52:01this, but they do. And
  • 52:02I say those words in
  • 52:03my head, I wish they
  • 52:04didn't want this, but they
  • 52:05do as opposed to what's
  • 52:07wrong with you, that you
  • 52:08want this. Right. And letting
  • 52:10people want something and value
  • 52:12something
  • 52:13that isn't necessarily what you
  • 52:15would pick.
  • 52:16Right?
  • 52:17And that to me, to
  • 52:18me, it has all been
  • 52:19about trying to at least
  • 52:21come out of a place
  • 52:22of judgment
  • 52:23and try not to view
  • 52:24people as particularly as being
  • 52:26defective for wanting their kid
  • 52:27to live. Right as a,
  • 52:29as a general idea.
  • 52:32And not to confuse hope
  • 52:34and denial,
  • 52:35right? So when people say,
  • 52:37I know you're telling me
  • 52:38that this is really long
  • 52:39shot and I believe that
  • 52:40my child is going to
  • 52:41be the zero point one
  • 52:41percent,
  • 52:43They're not making an actuarial
  • 52:45determination that they think that
  • 52:46their child is gonna be
  • 52:47a point one percent. Right?
  • 52:48That's not the activity that
  • 52:49they're engaging in. And so
  • 52:51trying to talk them out
  • 52:52of that by making an
  • 52:53actuarial argument isn't going to
  • 52:56work.
  • 52:56Right? And so I think
  • 52:58that
  • 53:01don't put it that way.
  • 53:02If that you know, if
  • 53:04it's not gonna happen,
  • 53:05just say it's not gonna
  • 53:07happen and don't hinge it
  • 53:08on, like, this. But I
  • 53:09have to be absolutely truth
  • 53:11and tell them that, like,
  • 53:11I guess it's theoretically a
  • 53:13tiny bit possible and, like,
  • 53:14offer that as an anchor.
  • 53:15Right? So
  • 53:16so one is let people
  • 53:18pick things that you wouldn't
  • 53:19pick. Another is don't offer
  • 53:20people choices that aren't things
  • 53:22that
  • 53:23they, that you're going to
  • 53:24let them pick. Right? So
  • 53:25if it's not a choice,
  • 53:26don't put it on the
  • 53:27menu and then say you
  • 53:27were wrong for picking the
  • 53:28thing that I didn't want
  • 53:29you pick.
  • 53:32How not to, as a
  • 53:33first year
  • 53:34student, be totally depressed by
  • 53:36this. You know, Mark started
  • 53:37with like this depressing. Right?
  • 53:39Is a lot harder, right?
  • 53:40And how not to feel
  • 53:41totally daunted by this is
  • 53:43a lot harder. And, you
  • 53:44know, we talked earlier this
  • 53:45morning about just the challenges
  • 53:47of like, how do you
  • 53:48build
  • 53:49a working functional system to
  • 53:51improve continuity over the six
  • 53:54months of a hospitalization.
  • 53:55Even that's really hard.
  • 53:57And that my last sort
  • 53:59of mantra there is like
  • 54:00if you read the book,
  • 54:02the power of habit is
  • 54:03small wins, right? Just you
  • 54:05don't have to fix it
  • 54:06all. Like, take a tiny
  • 54:08thing and fix a tiny
  • 54:10thing is is the way
  • 54:11that I have
  • 54:13lived with how imperfect that
  • 54:14it is.
  • 54:16Yeah. Well, here we got
  • 54:17a gentleman here and then
  • 54:18a gentleman back there.
  • 54:19Hi.
  • 54:20Thank you so much for,
  • 54:22this talk. It's a lot
  • 54:23to think about.
  • 54:25I wanted to touch on
  • 54:26the question that's on the
  • 54:27slide.
  • 54:28When is good enough good
  • 54:29enough?
  • 54:30And we talked a lot
  • 54:31during this talk about how
  • 54:33the healthcare system is really
  • 54:34strained.
  • 54:35There's often a backlog of
  • 54:37a lot of patients.
  • 54:38And I was curious if
  • 54:39those pressures
  • 54:40of, like, the high, like,
  • 54:43load on these hospital systems
  • 54:45ever changes the threshold of
  • 54:46good enough for patients.
  • 54:48And,
  • 54:49additionally, whether, like, the implied
  • 54:52odds
  • 54:53of, like, a patient's family
  • 54:54being able to take care
  • 54:55of them outside of the
  • 54:56hospital ever changes,
  • 54:58what we define as good
  • 55:00enough, whether it does and
  • 55:01whether it should.
  • 55:04That's a really good question.
  • 55:05And in some ways, there
  • 55:06are some sort of simple
  • 55:07answers,
  • 55:09that I really learned during
  • 55:11the pandemic, actually. So one
  • 55:12of the things that happened,
  • 55:13like, if you're a bioethicist
  • 55:14during the pandemic, you're like,
  • 55:15this is it. This is
  • 55:16what we trained for.
  • 55:18And
  • 55:19one of the things that
  • 55:20I learned that I invoke
  • 55:21all the time is if
  • 55:22you're going to ration something,
  • 55:25you do it with rules
  • 55:26in the light of day.
  • 55:28You don't do it in
  • 55:29darkness. You don't make it
  • 55:31up on the fly.
  • 55:32You
  • 55:33you convene a room. You're
  • 55:34explicit that that's what you're
  • 55:36doing and you write it
  • 55:37down and you vet it
  • 55:38and vet it and vet
  • 55:39it and you show it
  • 55:40to people that you know
  • 55:41are going to hate it
  • 55:42and pick it apart and
  • 55:43you make sure you've done
  • 55:44it fairly. So if you're
  • 55:45going to do something like,
  • 55:46say,
  • 55:48it's RSV season and the
  • 55:49hospital is more full than
  • 55:50usual, so we're going to
  • 55:51move the goalpost about when
  • 55:52we do this or what
  • 55:53the discharge criteria are.
  • 55:55I mean, I think it's
  • 55:56extremely
  • 55:57hard to, to execute something
  • 55:59like that, but you're really
  • 56:01explicit about what you're doing
  • 56:03and you make the trade
  • 56:04offs really clear.
  • 56:08I think this,
  • 56:09you know, things come up
  • 56:10like this with like
  • 56:12early discharge around newborn care,
  • 56:13right? Where you have some
  • 56:14parents who really want to
  • 56:15go home, like the, like
  • 56:16the UK model where you
  • 56:17go home after six hours,
  • 56:18right? And generally we think
  • 56:19of like going home with
  • 56:20a newborn in less than
  • 56:22twenty four hours as being
  • 56:23like,
  • 56:24like potentially risky, right? Sometimes
  • 56:26the way you do this
  • 56:27is you build creative workarounds.
  • 56:28Like the way we're doing
  • 56:29this at our hospital is
  • 56:30we're
  • 56:31we're sending,
  • 56:32midwives to the homes. Right?
  • 56:33So sometimes the way you
  • 56:35do the good enough is
  • 56:36that you think more creatively
  • 56:37about what the patches are.
  • 56:39Right? And you don't just
  • 56:40say, well, this sucks, but
  • 56:41I guess it's all we
  • 56:41can do. You think really
  • 56:43creatively about
  • 56:45the and. Right? Like, it's
  • 56:46not a but, it's an
  • 56:47and. Like, well, we're gonna
  • 56:49change the standard
  • 56:50and we're gonna
  • 56:52mitigate our discomfort with the
  • 56:54potential downsides of that by
  • 56:56adding these other things.
  • 56:59It's when what we learned
  • 57:00during the pandemic is that
  • 57:01when we didn't
  • 57:02think hard enough and we
  • 57:04weren't careful enough and we
  • 57:05didn't show it to enough
  • 57:07people, we made terrible mistakes.
  • 57:12The other thing that's sad
  • 57:13is that kids often pay
  • 57:15the price for this because
  • 57:16we're all they're almost always
  • 57:17an afterthought. Right? Like, the
  • 57:18outer space for kids is
  • 57:20almost always less of a
  • 57:21perceived crisis than like outer
  • 57:22space for adults.
  • 57:25But
  • 57:27it's really dicey to say,
  • 57:31well, we're full. So like,
  • 57:33you know, yesterday, you you
  • 57:35needed two providers, but today
  • 57:36it's that, you know, like,
  • 57:37you start doing that case
  • 57:39by case and somebody gets
  • 57:40hurt.
  • 57:43So my question is around,
  • 57:47my question is around what
  • 57:49is meaningful function
  • 57:51that makes sort of, like,
  • 57:53return to home, like,
  • 57:56a a moral good in
  • 57:57a sense. Meaningful function?
  • 57:59Like, meaningful function.
  • 58:01So,
  • 58:02like, I think a lot
  • 58:03of the reasons why we
  • 58:04consider, like, going home and
  • 58:06we assume that going home
  • 58:07is a good idea is
  • 58:08also because of the potential
  • 58:09activities and development that the
  • 58:11child can engage in,
  • 58:13at home as opposed to
  • 58:14in the hospital. And you've
  • 58:16kind of, like,
  • 58:17pushed against some of these.
  • 58:19But I I'm wondering if
  • 58:20there's any thought around, like,
  • 58:22are there, like, requirements
  • 58:25of certain children that make
  • 58:26it such that the function
  • 58:28that they
  • 58:30will regain or are likely
  • 58:31to regain in the short
  • 58:32term is, like,
  • 58:33not enough for them to
  • 58:35actually benefit
  • 58:36from going home.
  • 58:38I am gonna push back
  • 58:39against what you're saying. I
  • 58:40think that there is a
  • 58:42sense that
  • 58:44there's existential good in being
  • 58:45at home
  • 58:47beyond some of those,
  • 58:49you get to roll around
  • 58:49on the floor with your
  • 58:50your siblings and your dog
  • 58:52kind of things. I mean,
  • 58:53we have people who ask
  • 58:54to take the bodies of
  • 58:56their children who have died
  • 58:57home.
  • 58:58Right? And we we have
  • 58:59people, you know, people who
  • 59:01go home, you know, ambulance
  • 59:03home on CPAP so that
  • 59:04their children can die at
  • 59:05home. I think for some
  • 59:07families, this
  • 59:08truly kind of spiritual existential,
  • 59:11you belong at home with
  • 59:12us thing has nothing to
  • 59:14do with function at all.
  • 59:15And we sell that when
  • 59:17it's convenient. Right? When we
  • 59:18want our bed back, we
  • 59:20push hard on this, don't
  • 59:21you want your child at
  • 59:22home with you? And some
  • 59:23people really do. I mean,
  • 59:25so it is the North
  • 59:26Star for some people that
  • 59:27has nothing to do with
  • 59:30tangible things they're gonna get
  • 59:31out of being at home.
  • 59:32It's that
  • 59:33our family is together at
  • 59:35home.
  • 59:36And even if it's just
  • 59:37that they smile when we
  • 59:38come into the room or
  • 59:39I smile when I see
  • 59:41them in the room that
  • 59:41they belong,
  • 59:44that has nothing to do
  • 59:45with the function they're going
  • 59:47to achieve.
  • 59:50The bigger question of
  • 59:52so one way people have
  • 59:53talked about this is relational
  • 59:54potential, right? Just thinking in
  • 59:55the longer term about
  • 59:58about how much does a
  • 59:58society invest in someone who
  • 59:59is technology dependent
  • 01:00:00has to do with their
  • 01:00:02different kinds of potential. That's
  • 01:00:04a very different conversation than
  • 01:00:05what I've talked about. That's
  • 01:00:06a who's worth it question.
  • 01:00:08That is not really what
  • 01:00:10I talked about
  • 01:00:11here, which
  • 01:00:14I'd say in general in
  • 01:00:15pediatric ethics, we've mostly moved
  • 01:00:17away from, right? Like this
  • 01:00:18idea that like we get
  • 01:00:19to decide
  • 01:00:20whose
  • 01:00:22quality of life is worth
  • 01:00:23it. I think our bracket
  • 01:00:25around that is really suffering.
  • 01:00:26Right? If we you have
  • 01:00:28suffering that I can't relieve,
  • 01:00:31I don't prolong that suffering.
  • 01:00:32But beyond that,
  • 01:00:34I think
  • 01:00:35if your parents
  • 01:00:37see that you
  • 01:00:39you live a life that
  • 01:00:40they see you benefiting from
  • 01:00:42having,
  • 01:00:42we we don't push back
  • 01:00:44against that.
  • 01:00:50Here, please.
  • 01:00:58Hi. Thank you. I'm curious,
  • 01:01:00like, how much of this
  • 01:01:01problem, if any of this
  • 01:01:02problem, you think could be
  • 01:01:03addressed by simply increasing the
  • 01:01:05number of NICU beds? And
  • 01:01:06you talked about, like, the
  • 01:01:07baby,
  • 01:01:09baby LTAC, so it was.
  • 01:01:10Like, how how like, what
  • 01:01:11sort of additional ethical challenges
  • 01:01:13that that might, address?
  • 01:01:15Well, so we don't have
  • 01:01:16enough beds, full stop. Right?
  • 01:01:17And it's not just the
  • 01:01:18right beds. It's the right
  • 01:01:19beds in the right places,
  • 01:01:21the right
  • 01:01:22providers in the right places.
  • 01:01:26The baby LTAC thing is
  • 01:01:27is there there's two questions.
  • 01:01:28There's capacity overall. There's there's
  • 01:01:31these could we ever have
  • 01:01:32a baby LTAC? Who would
  • 01:01:33be the
  • 01:01:34care providers in those places?
  • 01:01:35Like, we are looking, for
  • 01:01:37example, at my place. We
  • 01:01:38just acquired another NICU. And
  • 01:01:39we are looking
  • 01:01:42at if you are not
  • 01:01:43ready for a trach, you
  • 01:01:44can go to this other
  • 01:01:45NICU and you can be
  • 01:01:46there for months on CPAP,
  • 01:01:48sort of like trying to
  • 01:01:49get off this.
  • 01:01:50But it's the reason that
  • 01:01:51I talked about my research
  • 01:01:52agenda for this. I don't
  • 01:01:53think we have any real
  • 01:01:54sense of what the scope
  • 01:01:55of this is because we're
  • 01:01:57still defining ultra long stay
  • 01:01:58as twelve days.
  • 01:02:01I think we need to
  • 01:02:02know that.
  • 01:02:06Do you think it'd be
  • 01:02:07premature? Sorry. Just tell you
  • 01:02:08to make any of these
  • 01:02:09big changes before you got
  • 01:02:10that sort of data.
  • 01:02:14Could you repeat the question
  • 01:02:15then? Yeah. So the question
  • 01:02:15is whether it would be
  • 01:02:16premature to make those sort
  • 01:02:17of big changes. If I've
  • 01:02:18learned anything in my budding
  • 01:02:19career as like a suit,
  • 01:02:20it's that you can't make
  • 01:02:21a big change without making
  • 01:02:23a numbers case for it.
  • 01:02:24So and it's not a
  • 01:02:25good idea. Right? Because if
  • 01:02:26you do that once, right,
  • 01:02:27if you get people to
  • 01:02:28invent invest in a big
  • 01:02:30idea once and you were
  • 01:02:31wrong, they never listen to
  • 01:02:32you again. So I wouldn't
  • 01:02:34advocate for that.
  • 01:02:37Thank you so much.
  • 01:02:39I'm Sylvia. I am a
  • 01:02:41a pediatric,
  • 01:02:42social worker here at the
  • 01:02:43hospital, and I work with,
  • 01:02:45transplant recipients and transplant candidates.
  • 01:02:47So while we're waiting for
  • 01:02:48the transplant,
  • 01:02:50we do have long hospitalizations.
  • 01:02:52And I have found that
  • 01:02:53for the moral distress
  • 01:02:55part, like, actually having, like,
  • 01:02:56debriefings and talking to one
  • 01:02:58another, hey. This is really
  • 01:02:59challenging to see the the
  • 01:03:00child with this long hospitalization
  • 01:03:01has been very helpful.
  • 01:03:03And in Connecticut, we do
  • 01:03:04have medically complex foster homes,
  • 01:03:07but I've seen children be
  • 01:03:09completely heartbroken
  • 01:03:10when we advocate for a
  • 01:03:12safe placement because it's psychosocially
  • 01:03:14unfit, and all that child
  • 01:03:16wants to do is to
  • 01:03:18go home with with their
  • 01:03:19parent,
  • 01:03:20regardless of the ramifications.
  • 01:03:23So one of the saddest
  • 01:03:24cases I had, he had
  • 01:03:25a really short life expectancy.
  • 01:03:27And,
  • 01:03:28part of all my advocacy
  • 01:03:29efforts towards the end was
  • 01:03:31trying to break down the
  • 01:03:33barriers
  • 01:03:34put in place by our
  • 01:03:35department of children and families,
  • 01:03:36your CPS.
  • 01:03:38So this is extremely emotionally
  • 01:03:39challenging. And I feel like
  • 01:03:41my patient
  • 01:03:42is the pediatric patient and
  • 01:03:44also the families, but also
  • 01:03:46the staff. And it's been
  • 01:03:47really hard, to to provide
  • 01:03:49support with the staff.
  • 01:03:50Yeah. There's a lot in
  • 01:03:51that comment that's important.
  • 01:03:54I mean, one is just
  • 01:03:55any version of calling people
  • 01:03:57bad parents for
  • 01:03:59not I mean,
  • 01:04:00doing that with healthy children
  • 01:04:02when parents don't have what
  • 01:04:03they need is sort of
  • 01:04:04bad enough. But when what
  • 01:04:05they need is heroic, I
  • 01:04:06think is sort of even
  • 01:04:07worse.
  • 01:04:09And yeah, kids want to
  • 01:04:10be with their parents even
  • 01:04:11when their lives with their
  • 01:04:12parents are pretty bad. And
  • 01:04:13even when their parents are
  • 01:04:15potentially not good people, kids
  • 01:04:16want to be with their
  • 01:04:17parents. Right?
  • 01:04:18The issue of staff, I
  • 01:04:19mean, there's been some work,
  • 01:04:20like, in NICUs, for example,
  • 01:04:21about embedded psychologists in NICUs
  • 01:04:24to support, not like like
  • 01:04:25for parents, but also for
  • 01:04:27staff. Right? I mean, the
  • 01:04:28the toll these kinds of
  • 01:04:30cases take on people, you
  • 01:04:31know, like in our NICU,
  • 01:04:32I imagine the NICU here
  • 01:04:33is the same, nurses take
  • 01:04:34on this, like, primary role.
  • 01:04:35Right? And they and
  • 01:04:37one, I mean, the potential
  • 01:04:38for, like,
  • 01:04:40really problematic boundary violations. Right?
  • 01:04:43But also just, like,
  • 01:04:44they when these patients die,
  • 01:04:46they experience profound loss. When
  • 01:04:48these patients get discharged, they
  • 01:04:49have, like, problems with separation.
  • 01:04:51I mean, I think that
  • 01:04:53we didn't build acute care
  • 01:04:54hospitals for what these kinds
  • 01:04:56of relationships were gonna do
  • 01:04:58to our staff either. And
  • 01:04:59they are leaving the profession.
  • 01:05:01They also make more mistakes.
  • 01:05:02They do there's a thing
  • 01:05:03called, like, values and position.
  • 01:05:04We talked about this. Right?
  • 01:05:05Like, you lose the ability
  • 01:05:06to to participate in perspective
  • 01:05:08taking. Like, what happens to
  • 01:05:10you if you don't
  • 01:05:12have this kind of thing
  • 01:05:13tended to over months and
  • 01:05:15years is is like we
  • 01:05:16know it's really bad.
  • 01:05:18I just probably have to
  • 01:05:19hear it. But they don't
  • 01:05:20they don't get to see
  • 01:05:21the long term outcome that
  • 01:05:22I do. I'm inpatient and
  • 01:05:24outpatient.
  • 01:05:24Mhmm. So so I think
  • 01:05:26that's important. We should
  • 01:05:28I think it would be
  • 01:05:28curative to have the inpatient
  • 01:05:30staff that only sees the
  • 01:05:31acute part. Like, in my
  • 01:05:33role as a transplant social
  • 01:05:34worker, I get to serve
  • 01:05:36inpatient and outpatient. And these
  • 01:05:37nurses are just seeing the,
  • 01:05:39like,
  • 01:05:40the most brutal time without
  • 01:05:41seeing the awesome quality of
  • 01:05:43life that comes after. And
  • 01:05:44I've been trying to shed
  • 01:05:45light on that, but I
  • 01:05:46think that that should be
  • 01:05:47in embedded. It shouldn't be
  • 01:05:49something that is spontaneously offered.
  • 01:05:51Oh, when they come back
  • 01:05:52for their outpatient appointment, I'll
  • 01:05:53make sure that they come
  • 01:05:54visit you at the unit.
  • 01:05:55Yeah. I think that that
  • 01:05:56kind of closure that's something
  • 01:05:57we see with residents too.
  • 01:05:58And it actually becomes a
  • 01:05:59big problem with residents because
  • 01:06:01the kids with chronic critical
  • 01:06:03illness that they see are
  • 01:06:04the ones who get admitted
  • 01:06:05every month. Right? And they
  • 01:06:06don't see the ones who
  • 01:06:06are home.
  • 01:06:07Right? And I had this
  • 01:06:08happen to me actually. I
  • 01:06:09was in attending when this
  • 01:06:10happened where it's,
  • 01:06:12a patient that I was
  • 01:06:13seeing was telling me about
  • 01:06:13her another child
  • 01:06:15that had Down syndrome. And
  • 01:06:16I said, oh, like, you
  • 01:06:17know, where does he get
  • 01:06:18his specialty care? And she
  • 01:06:18said, what specialty care? He
  • 01:06:19doesn't need any. Right? And
  • 01:06:21we don't see that child,
  • 01:06:22right? We don't and our
  • 01:06:23residents have this all the
  • 01:06:25time where their experience of
  • 01:06:26like, for me, extreme prematurity,
  • 01:06:28prematurity
  • 01:06:29is the frequent flyers to
  • 01:06:30the ER, not the ones
  • 01:06:31who go home and stay
  • 01:06:32there. Right? And so I
  • 01:06:33do think that ability to,
  • 01:06:35to achieve that, to recognize
  • 01:06:36that life over the lifespan
  • 01:06:38builds empathy, if nothing else.
  • 01:06:41I kind of just sort
  • 01:06:42of a pragmatic question.
  • 01:06:44And those families that are
  • 01:06:45sort of decisionally rigid and
  • 01:06:47maybe you're
  • 01:06:48choosing the thing you're not
  • 01:06:49wanting them to choose.
  • 01:06:51I'm thinking about the repeated
  • 01:06:53code type patient. How do
  • 01:06:55you build a constructive relationship
  • 01:06:57with that family? I I
  • 01:06:58would imagine they if they're
  • 01:06:59seeing you for the sixth
  • 01:07:00time,
  • 01:07:01they're not going to engage
  • 01:07:03with you. And I know
  • 01:07:04there's certainly something to be
  • 01:07:05said for rapport building, but
  • 01:07:07I just know that through
  • 01:07:08some of my work with
  • 01:07:09tracheostomy, and I'm kind of
  • 01:07:11the face of that discussion
  • 01:07:12month over month with some
  • 01:07:13of these families.
  • 01:07:15Some of that that's been
  • 01:07:16a I've built great relationships
  • 01:07:18that I've continued even beyond
  • 01:07:19discharge, and sometimes I feel
  • 01:07:21like
  • 01:07:22the family can become avoidant
  • 01:07:23of the hospital, and I'm
  • 01:07:24building
  • 01:07:26an interaction that is distancing
  • 01:07:27that parent from their child,
  • 01:07:29which I hate. And I
  • 01:07:30was just wondering what your
  • 01:07:31perspective is on kind of
  • 01:07:33a how can we build
  • 01:07:34something constructive
  • 01:07:35and be and hold their
  • 01:07:36hand longitudinally rather than drive
  • 01:07:38them away?
  • 01:07:40I think there's a lot
  • 01:07:41there's a lot there, and
  • 01:07:42and it you're one, one,
  • 01:07:43I mean, you accept that
  • 01:07:44you're not gonna win them
  • 01:07:44all. But but I think
  • 01:07:46some of that is building
  • 01:07:47in other sorts of supports
  • 01:07:49for parents. So they have
  • 01:07:50other outlets of it. Like,
  • 01:07:52they feel heard
  • 01:07:54in other settings. Some of
  • 01:07:55it is anticipatory guidance. We're
  • 01:07:57gonna talk about this and
  • 01:07:58we're gonna keep talking about
  • 01:08:00this.
  • 01:08:00And sort of setting up
  • 01:08:02early so that you're having
  • 01:08:03that conversation before the sign
  • 01:08:04goes up on the wall
  • 01:08:05that says I don't wanna
  • 01:08:06hear anything negative. Right? Because
  • 01:08:08you've heard that by the
  • 01:08:09time the sign goes up,
  • 01:08:10it's it's gone. And and
  • 01:08:12that experience of the parents
  • 01:08:13never come, and as soon
  • 01:08:14as they come, you're like,
  • 01:08:15good. You're here. I can
  • 01:08:16tell you how bad it
  • 01:08:16is. And then they don't
  • 01:08:17come back. And then and
  • 01:08:19you
  • 01:08:20that's the QI. Like, you've
  • 01:08:21built the system designed to
  • 01:08:22get exactly the result that
  • 01:08:23it gets. Right? When people
  • 01:08:25come and all you do
  • 01:08:26is bludgeon them with the
  • 01:08:28truth.
  • 01:08:29And for me, that, yeah,
  • 01:08:30I heard you the first
  • 01:08:31twenty times, you told me
  • 01:08:32how bad this is.
  • 01:08:34I think
  • 01:08:36setting expectations early for what
  • 01:08:39these goals of care conversations
  • 01:08:40are gonna be like, that
  • 01:08:42we are gonna talk about
  • 01:08:43this at regular intervals.
  • 01:08:46But I also think a
  • 01:08:47lot of us in ways
  • 01:08:48that we don't realize are
  • 01:08:49kind of like
  • 01:08:51punitive about some of the
  • 01:08:52way we talk about this
  • 01:08:53in ways that we don't
  • 01:08:54even realize. So like one
  • 01:08:55of the things that I
  • 01:08:55sometimes hear is,
  • 01:08:57you know, when I have
  • 01:08:58a parent who's chosen something
  • 01:08:59that they don't, that people
  • 01:09:00didn't want them to choose,
  • 01:09:01right? It's like, I want
  • 01:09:02them to go up to
  • 01:09:03the pick you and see
  • 01:09:04what this is gonna look
  • 01:09:05like when when he's six.
  • 01:09:07And part of me is
  • 01:09:08like, think about
  • 01:09:10that six year old's parent
  • 01:09:11and the
  • 01:09:13you just made a cautionary
  • 01:09:14tale out of someone else's
  • 01:09:15kid. Right? And imagine if
  • 01:09:17that was your kid. And
  • 01:09:18and so the lack of
  • 01:09:19empathy for the whole situation
  • 01:09:20there, like to punish you
  • 01:09:21for wanting something I don't
  • 01:09:22want you to want, I'm
  • 01:09:23gonna go,
  • 01:09:24like, like,
  • 01:09:25waterboard you with with with
  • 01:09:27something bad.
  • 01:09:29But,
  • 01:09:32I think
  • 01:09:35setting up the expectation,
  • 01:09:38not
  • 01:09:40making people, like, sort of
  • 01:09:41saying, like, you're wrong for
  • 01:09:42being hopeful.
  • 01:09:45But,
  • 01:09:46like, there's another piece of
  • 01:09:47this that I I do
  • 01:09:48think is actually helpful that,
  • 01:09:49like, flitted
  • 01:09:50past me. But
  • 01:09:54I I think there's something
  • 01:09:55about the way we engage
  • 01:09:57with it that isn't just
  • 01:09:58like you're wrong, wrong, you're
  • 01:09:59wrong. Like one of my
  • 01:10:00one of my colleagues used
  • 01:10:01to say something like, if
  • 01:10:02you wanna be hopeful, I'll
  • 01:10:03be hopeful with you. And
  • 01:10:05we still have to talk
  • 01:10:06about what this is going
  • 01:10:07to look like if it
  • 01:10:08doesn't go the way both
  • 01:10:09of us hoped it would
  • 01:10:10go. Right? And sort of
  • 01:10:12building this alliance around, like,
  • 01:10:13I will share the wanting
  • 01:10:15this to go well, and
  • 01:10:16also help you prepare for
  • 01:10:18what if it doesn't.
  • 01:10:19Instead of this, like, you
  • 01:10:21know it's gonna be really
  • 01:10:22bad. Right? And the other
  • 01:10:22thing is the best way
  • 01:10:23to lose someone is by
  • 01:10:25telling them about only the
  • 01:10:26bad parts and having it
  • 01:10:27go better than expected. Right?
  • 01:10:29Like
  • 01:10:30like, you lose someone forever
  • 01:10:32when you only prepare them
  • 01:10:34for a terrible outcome and
  • 01:10:35it goes really well. And
  • 01:10:35they're like, why would I
  • 01:10:36trust you? You rooted against
  • 01:10:37my kid. Why would I
  • 01:10:39trust you?
  • 01:10:41So but you're gonna lose
  • 01:10:42some people some of the
  • 01:10:43time. Right? And the Internet's
  • 01:10:44gonna tell them how terrible
  • 01:10:45you are and how terrible
  • 01:10:46all of us are, and
  • 01:10:47you're gonna lose some people
  • 01:10:48some of the time. And
  • 01:10:49you give yourself some grace
  • 01:10:50when that happens.
  • 01:10:56Anyone else? Is there anybody
  • 01:10:58that you'd like to share?
  • 01:10:59Online or Say again? Is
  • 01:11:00there anyone on Zoom?
  • 01:11:01Do we have I mean,
  • 01:11:02you wanna check, see if
  • 01:11:03there's a question on Zoom?
  • 01:11:07What is where it means
  • 01:11:08to be You know, it
  • 01:11:09was it was you know,
  • 01:11:10you made a a point,
  • 01:11:12Naomi, that I thought was
  • 01:11:13really,
  • 01:11:14important. And there's a couple
  • 01:11:15points when you talked about,
  • 01:11:17you know, when this is
  • 01:11:18what kids want, sometime is
  • 01:11:20is is sometimes it's not
  • 01:11:22just about trying to figure
  • 01:11:23out what kids want. You
  • 01:11:24know, I I tell a
  • 01:11:25story about when one of
  • 01:11:26my kids wanted something,
  • 01:11:28and I said, well, I
  • 01:11:29can't do that because I
  • 01:11:30have to justify it to
  • 01:11:31the boss.
  • 01:11:32She's like a twelve year
  • 01:11:33old girl and wants her
  • 01:11:33to do something I thought
  • 01:11:34was dangerous. And then she
  • 01:11:35said, well, who's the boss?
  • 01:11:36And I said, well, the
  • 01:11:37boss is twenty five year
  • 01:11:39old you. And when she
  • 01:11:40gets here, I have to
  • 01:11:41explain. So, I mean, it
  • 01:11:42gets to a question of
  • 01:11:43will people will these kids
  • 01:11:46I mean, I I think
  • 01:11:47that it's not so much
  • 01:11:48about making
  • 01:11:49a a a child happy
  • 01:11:51as as it is. It's
  • 01:11:53certainly, that's important or even
  • 01:11:54the parents happy, but I
  • 01:11:55sometimes think the person I
  • 01:11:57work for most
  • 01:11:58is this kid at twenty
  • 01:11:59five. Will this kid at
  • 01:12:00twenty five look back and
  • 01:12:01say, thank you. You did
  • 01:12:02the right thing for me,
  • 01:12:03or you really did the
  • 01:12:04wrong thing for me. That
  • 01:12:05may be everything from placing
  • 01:12:06the child with the the
  • 01:12:08the biological parents to, doing
  • 01:12:10a tracheostomy or whatever is
  • 01:12:12to try and imagine what
  • 01:12:13this looks like from the
  • 01:12:14child's point of view,
  • 01:12:16looking back
  • 01:12:17as an adult. That's a
  • 01:12:18very hard thing to do
  • 01:12:19with newborns.
  • 01:12:20The older the kid gets,
  • 01:12:21it gets a little bit
  • 01:12:22easier. But to try and
  • 01:12:23have that perspective because in
  • 01:12:25the moment, some so much
  • 01:12:26of it seems so cruel.
  • 01:12:29Well and I don't know
  • 01:12:30about you, but the longer
  • 01:12:31I do this, the less
  • 01:12:32confident I feel on my
  • 01:12:33crystal ball.
  • 01:12:34You know, and and and
  • 01:12:35the less sure I am
  • 01:12:36that I can predict the
  • 01:12:37future. And and somebody asked
  • 01:12:39about this, you know, but
  • 01:12:39patients that I didn't think
  • 01:12:40were gonna live, live.
  • 01:12:42And patients that I thought
  • 01:12:43were gonna need a Drake
  • 01:12:44don't or, you know, patients
  • 01:12:45I thought were gonna do
  • 01:12:46pretty well, do way worse
  • 01:12:46than I expected.
  • 01:12:48And so
  • 01:12:49how on earth do you
  • 01:12:50know how to answer to
  • 01:12:51that future twenty five year
  • 01:12:53old? Some sometimes you do.
  • 01:12:54I would say that sometimes
  • 01:12:56you do because some things
  • 01:12:57are are are clearly not
  • 01:12:58good for the child. So
  • 01:12:59for example, the child who
  • 01:13:00wants very much to be
  • 01:13:01placed with a parent who
  • 01:13:02clearly
  • 01:13:03is, an an important and
  • 01:13:05significant danger to that child.
  • 01:13:07So clearly, I think you
  • 01:13:08can bet that that child
  • 01:13:09as an adult may look
  • 01:13:10back and say, I'm glad
  • 01:13:11I was taken out of
  • 01:13:12that unsafe setting. But your
  • 01:13:14point is well taken that
  • 01:13:15that that often, you know,
  • 01:13:17often we can't we can't
  • 01:13:18know and we can't predict
  • 01:13:19that stuff. You're absolutely right
  • 01:13:21about that. And and so,
  • 01:13:23you know, we're left grappling
  • 01:13:24with this stuff and trying
  • 01:13:25to make small changes and
  • 01:13:26working with these things.
  • 01:13:29Other thoughts?
  • 01:13:32Yes, please.
  • 01:13:34Wait for the mic.
  • 01:13:39Well, thank you for for
  • 01:13:41the thought.
  • 01:13:43Well, my name is Francisco.
  • 01:13:45I am from Colombia. I
  • 01:13:47am during this month as
  • 01:13:50international med student,
  • 01:13:52and I want to share
  • 01:13:53an experience that we have
  • 01:13:55in our country.
  • 01:13:57It's called,
  • 01:13:59hospitalization. Maybe you have any
  • 01:14:01strategy
  • 01:14:02similar to it,
  • 01:14:04and I want to know,
  • 01:14:06what's your opinion about it
  • 01:14:07because, well,
  • 01:14:09a step behind,
  • 01:14:12the full discharge of the
  • 01:14:15of the hospital of on
  • 01:14:16our patients in the area,
  • 01:14:18on pediatrics area.
  • 01:14:21We
  • 01:14:23recently
  • 01:14:23used it
  • 01:14:25on that patients
  • 01:14:26that only need oxygen or
  • 01:14:29antibiotics.
  • 01:14:31And, well, that things,
  • 01:14:34limit
  • 01:14:35the the
  • 01:14:36the usefulness
  • 01:14:38of,
  • 01:14:40of the admission of that
  • 01:14:41patients on
  • 01:14:43on our,
  • 01:14:45hospitalization
  • 01:14:46floor.
  • 01:14:47So the question that we
  • 01:14:49use is,
  • 01:14:51when is the the time
  • 01:14:52that our patients
  • 01:14:54can go to home and
  • 01:14:56staying on a constant follow-up,
  • 01:14:59consults?
  • 01:15:01And, well,
  • 01:15:02do you have an strategy
  • 01:15:05similar to it, or do
  • 01:15:07you use
  • 01:15:08that,
  • 01:15:09home hospitalization as an strategy,
  • 01:15:13behind the full discharge
  • 01:15:15or, like, medium point?
  • 01:15:19So if I understand this
  • 01:15:20correctly, you're talking about situations
  • 01:15:21where you go home with
  • 01:15:22a fair amount of in
  • 01:15:23home supports?
  • 01:15:24Yeah. Yeah. So I guess
  • 01:15:26we I think different different
  • 01:15:27institutions use that more or
  • 01:15:29less. I mean, like in
  • 01:15:30our adult hospital, we have
  • 01:15:31something we call hospital at
  • 01:15:32home. You know, we're really
  • 01:15:33I mean, I think this
  • 01:15:34is a fairly intensive amount
  • 01:15:35of of services that we're
  • 01:15:37providing in the home. Mhmm.
  • 01:15:39You know, we, for example,
  • 01:15:40like my one of my
  • 01:15:40examples, I mean, we send
  • 01:15:41kids home on oxygen all
  • 01:15:42the time. We are very
  • 01:15:44aggressively sending kids home with
  • 01:15:46NG tubes.
  • 01:15:48And I think this again,
  • 01:15:49starts to get into at
  • 01:15:50least with kids, interesting things
  • 01:15:51about parental
  • 01:15:53preferences.
  • 01:15:53Okay. Right? Because we do
  • 01:15:55still offer some choices about
  • 01:15:57this and, you know, sort
  • 01:15:58of.
  • 01:16:00And what I've done is,
  • 01:16:01you know, parents who say,
  • 01:16:02I would never want to
  • 01:16:03take my baby home with
  • 01:16:04an NG tube. After a
  • 01:16:06couple of weeks, they're like,
  • 01:16:07can we talk about that
  • 01:16:07program again? Because I've had
  • 01:16:09enough of this.
  • 01:16:10A good friend of mine
  • 01:16:11who's a neonatologist,
  • 01:16:12who studies chronic lung disease
  • 01:16:14Yeah. Did a study with
  • 01:16:15parents looking at sort of
  • 01:16:17how much would it be
  • 01:16:19worth to you? Like, how
  • 01:16:20how much longer would you
  • 01:16:21be willing to stay in
  • 01:16:22the hospital to not go
  • 01:16:23home on oxygen?
  • 01:16:25And sort of had them,
  • 01:16:26like, use, like, a physical
  • 01:16:28scale to kind of, like,
  • 01:16:28pull, like, how many more
  • 01:16:29days you know, if you
  • 01:16:30could go home two more
  • 01:16:32days or two more weeks.
  • 01:16:33So, like, what is it
  • 01:16:33worth to you to stay
  • 01:16:34in the hospital to get
  • 01:16:35off oxygen? And then she
  • 01:16:36actually talked to parents who'd
  • 01:16:38gone home on oxygen or
  • 01:16:39not,
  • 01:16:40and said,
  • 01:16:42you know,
  • 01:16:43kind of like if you
  • 01:16:44had to do it again.
  • 01:16:45No parent of a baby
  • 01:16:46who went home on oxygen
  • 01:16:48said, I shoulda
  • 01:16:49stayed and come off oxygen.
  • 01:16:51But a lot of parents
  • 01:16:52who who stayed said, I
  • 01:16:53shoulda just gone home on
  • 01:16:54the oxygen. Right? So not
  • 01:16:55that value of being home
  • 01:16:56thing. People start to go
  • 01:16:57a little nuts in the
  • 01:16:58NICU. Right? Like, they really
  • 01:16:59wanna get out. Yeah. Some
  • 01:17:01people think you shouldn't have
  • 01:17:02a choice about that. Some
  • 01:17:03people say, like, this isn't
  • 01:17:04like, I'm sorry if you
  • 01:17:04don't like it, you meet
  • 01:17:05eligibility criteria. You're going home
  • 01:17:07with oxygen. Right? Different programs
  • 01:17:09build those things differently.
  • 01:17:12I think it also like
  • 01:17:14depends on do you have
  • 01:17:15the resources to consistently put
  • 01:17:17those resources in the home
  • 01:17:19that you need?
  • 01:17:22I think that telehealth for
  • 01:17:23us changed this a lot.
  • 01:17:25Like our HomeNG program works
  • 01:17:27because
  • 01:17:29almost all the visits are
  • 01:17:30video visits.
  • 01:17:32And our HomeNG program offers
  • 01:17:35a little more
  • 01:17:36than if you just go
  • 01:17:37home and follow-up with your
  • 01:17:38pediatrician.
  • 01:17:39Okay. So like you go
  • 01:17:40home with HomeNG, you get
  • 01:17:42a speech pathologist, a dietitian,
  • 01:17:43and a feeding psychologist. Right?
  • 01:17:45You get this whole bundle,
  • 01:17:46and we make it really
  • 01:17:47attractive
  • 01:17:48to go home with all
  • 01:17:49these things, like,
  • 01:17:51look over here, look over
  • 01:17:51here, look over all these
  • 01:17:52things.
  • 01:17:54But some people say, like,
  • 01:17:55I don't want stuff on
  • 01:17:57my kid's face. I don't
  • 01:17:58want people to see it.
  • 01:17:59I don't want people to
  • 01:18:00see my child as someone
  • 01:18:01who has all these things.
  • 01:18:03And I think the really
  • 01:18:04compelling question in a country
  • 01:18:05like the U. S, which
  • 01:18:06is very much about what
  • 01:18:08do I want, is how
  • 01:18:09much do we care about
  • 01:18:10what people want
  • 01:18:12versus our public health need
  • 01:18:14to open up that bed.
  • 01:18:17And right now this is
  • 01:18:18done hospital by it's not
  • 01:18:20even done state by state.
  • 01:18:21It's done hospital by hospital.
  • 01:18:23And there are people who
  • 01:18:24think it's hideously unsafe to
  • 01:18:25send anyone home with an
  • 01:18:26NGT.
  • 01:18:27Right? And so,
  • 01:18:29we don't have a strong
  • 01:18:31collective identity about how we
  • 01:18:33think that should be done.
  • 01:18:34Okay. Well, thank you.
  • 01:18:36Let me,
  • 01:18:37close-up Yeah. Doctor Leventhal with
  • 01:18:39a comment.
  • 01:18:41Thank you for this wonderful
  • 01:18:42discussion. I'm a pediatrician at
  • 01:18:43the hospital for special care
  • 01:18:45in Connecticut.
  • 01:18:46About ten percent of the
  • 01:18:47beds are for children. This
  • 01:18:49is the only place in
  • 01:18:50Connecticut that will accept transfers
  • 01:18:52from Yale's unit or from
  • 01:18:53the PICU.
  • 01:18:55And children you were talking
  • 01:18:56about, yes,
  • 01:18:58you hit on the issues
  • 01:18:59we face every day. So
  • 01:19:00a a note of thanks
  • 01:19:01and endorsement. I will take
  • 01:19:03that. Along those lines, please
  • 01:19:04join me in thanking.
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  • 01:19:14for your wardrobe. This is
  • 01:19:15the best More blue for
  • 01:19:18your wardrobe.
  • 01:19:19Now you're talking.
  • 01:19:20Oh, yeah, baby. Thank you.
  • 01:19:22Honest. Thank you so much.
  • 01:19:24This was more. Thank you
  • 01:19:25all for Appreciate your buzz.
  • 01:19:26To reach we have a
  • 01:19:27job to lecture.