Ultra-Long Pediatric Hospitalizations: The Ethics of Living in the Hospital
October 09, 2024Program for Biomedical Ethics | Yale Pediatric Ethics Program
October 1, 2024
Ultra-Long Pediatric Hospitalizations: The Ethics of Living in the Hospital
Naomi Laventhal, MD, MA, FAAP
Service Chief, Neonatal-Perinatal Medicine
Associate Professor, Department of Pediatrics
Faculty Ethicist, Program in Clinical Ethics - Center for Bioethics and Social Sciences in Medicine
University of Michigan
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- 00:00Got, another fourteen days before
- 00:02you hit the deadline, to
- 00:04get your name in, and
- 00:04we'll see,
- 00:06we'll see how many candidates
- 00:07we get for enrollment. But
- 00:08it's, it's very exciting. Something
- 00:10new this year for the
- 00:10medical students who want to
- 00:12actually have a concentration in
- 00:13bioethics
- 00:14as part of their, and
- 00:15it can show up on
- 00:16your CV when you're done
- 00:17too.
- 00:19Tonight,
- 00:20tonight's session, it says program
- 00:21for biomedical ethics, but tonight's
- 00:23is actually,
- 00:25sponsored by the Yale pediatric
- 00:26ethics Program. And it doesn't
- 00:28much matter to you. It's
- 00:28the same thing. Twice a
- 00:29month, we meet here. Most
- 00:30of you know it. Some
- 00:31of you don't. We meet
- 00:32here twice a month.
- 00:35And if you're not on
- 00:36our mailing list, please just
- 00:37send me a note,
- 00:39to mark dot mercurio at
- 00:40yale dot e d u
- 00:41or karen dot kolb at
- 00:43yale dot e d u,
- 00:44and we'll make sure you
- 00:45run the mailing list so
- 00:46you're always aware of these
- 00:46things. Or you can just
- 00:47Google biomedical ethics at Yale,
- 00:49and you'll find our site,
- 00:50and you'll see all the
- 00:51programs
- 00:52that are coming up.
- 00:54The way this works, before
- 00:55I introduce, doctor Laventhall, our
- 00:56speaker tonight, most of you
- 00:58know, but just to remind
- 00:59you well, is that doctor
- 01:00Laventhall will speak for about
- 01:02forty five minutes, give or
- 01:03take a little bit,
- 01:05and then, I'll moderate a
- 01:06q and a session. You
- 01:07guys are encouraged to ask
- 01:09as many questions as you
- 01:10want. We'll have a conversation.
- 01:13Please wait. When if you
- 01:14have a question, raise your
- 01:15hand, and one of us
- 01:16will bring a microphone to
- 01:17you. And wait until you
- 01:18have the microphone in hand
- 01:19to ask your question because
- 01:20we have a lot of
- 01:21folks on Zoom tonight as
- 01:22well. We want them to
- 01:23be able to hear your
- 01:23question and everybody else in
- 01:24the room, and I stand
- 01:26here as the weak link
- 01:27in the chain of hearing,
- 01:28so that's fine. So if
- 01:29I can't hear you, there
- 01:30is someone else who can't
- 01:31hear you as well. So,
- 01:32please wait till you get
- 01:33the microphone to ask your
- 01:34question,
- 01:36and we'll go for as
- 01:37long as everybody's interested up
- 01:39to a hard stop
- 01:40at six thirty. And so
- 01:42I apologize in advance if
- 01:43you had something you really
- 01:44wanted to ask because at
- 01:45six twenty eight or so,
- 01:47I will, I will shut
- 01:48it down and, invite you
- 01:50to come back in two
- 01:51more weeks for our next
- 01:52seminar. But tonight, we have
- 01:54an old friend of mine
- 01:55who is Naomi Laventhal.
- 01:57Naomi's
- 01:59educational pedigree takes us from,
- 02:02Indiana University
- 02:03to LSU
- 02:05to University of Chicago. At
- 02:06University of Chicago, I think
- 02:08you have a master's degree
- 02:10in is it public, public
- 02:11affairs?
- 02:13Public policy. Public policy, a
- 02:14master's degree in public policy
- 02:15as well as having done
- 02:16their the, ethics fellowship there
- 02:18at the McLean Center, which,
- 02:20many of you are familiar
- 02:21with. And if you're not,
- 02:22this is one of the
- 02:23one of the preeminent, bioethics
- 02:25centers in the country, there
- 02:26at the University of Chicago.
- 02:28From there, doctor Laventhall went
- 02:30to the University of Michigan
- 02:31where she has risen through
- 02:32the ranks both in the
- 02:33world of bioethics and in
- 02:34the world of neonatology.
- 02:36She's an attending neonatologist
- 02:38and and now is in
- 02:39fact the division chief, in
- 02:41neonatology
- 02:41at Ann Arbor.
- 02:43No small thing.
- 02:44In addition, she is a
- 02:45national leader in the field
- 02:47of bioethics.
- 02:48She does ethics consultations in
- 02:50adult and pediatric cases at
- 02:51Ann Arbor. But,
- 02:53again, many of you know,
- 02:54and and if you don't
- 02:55know, the American Academy of
- 02:57Pediatrics has a, a a
- 02:59body called the Committee on
- 03:00Bioethics
- 03:01that basically is the policy
- 03:02making
- 03:03group at the AAP.
- 03:05And this group writes guidelines
- 03:07and policies to the difficult
- 03:08ethics questions that people who
- 03:10practice pediatrics
- 03:12face.
- 03:13And Naomi is the chair
- 03:14of that group, which is
- 03:15based out of Illinois, but
- 03:16it's a national really an
- 03:17international group. So she is
- 03:19one of a handful of,
- 03:20true leaders in pediatric bioethics
- 03:22in the country. And I
- 03:23was delighted when she agreed
- 03:24to come here,
- 03:26and talk to us for
- 03:27a little bit about these
- 03:28ultra long hospitalizations,
- 03:30and I'll let her explain
- 03:32what that is to those
- 03:33of you who don't know.
- 03:34Many of you are very
- 03:35familiar with this already, but
- 03:36some of you is no
- 03:37doubt or not.
- 03:38So please join me in
- 03:39welcoming doctor Naomi Leventhal.
- 03:47Well, hi. It's really good
- 03:48to be here. This is,
- 03:49I think, the third time
- 03:50that we've tried to have
- 03:51me come here in person,
- 03:52and we finally succeeded. So
- 03:54I'm really excited about that.
- 03:56And one thing I'll say
- 03:57is I've been interested in
- 03:58this topic for a long
- 03:59time, but it's the first
- 04:00time I've been the, like,
- 04:02the the anchor speaker in
- 04:03a talk, and this is
- 04:04a brand new talk. So
- 04:05I'm trying to make sure
- 04:05that we end on time
- 04:07and have lots of time
- 04:08for questions, but bear with
- 04:09me.
- 04:10If I if I don't
- 04:10get the timing quite how
- 04:11I want it. Mark's going
- 04:12to keep me on the
- 04:14straight and narrow.
- 04:16So I don't have any
- 04:17conflicts of interest. One thing,
- 04:18you know, we're supposed to
- 04:18talk about whether I'm going
- 04:20to, you know, talk about
- 04:20off label therapies. And I'm
- 04:22not going to do that
- 04:22on purpose. But when you're
- 04:24talking about a patient who's
- 04:25been in the hospital for
- 04:26four hundred days, who's a
- 04:28child, there's no way that
- 04:29hasn't happened. So if it
- 04:30comes up along the way,
- 04:31I didn't I didn't mean
- 04:32to talk about that, but
- 04:33I might.
- 04:35And this is there are
- 04:36points of this talk. It's
- 04:37an ethics talk. You have
- 04:38to be intentionally provocative. And
- 04:40I'm going to do that.
- 04:41And if I haven't, like,
- 04:42punched you in the amygdala
- 04:43at some point, I didn't
- 04:45do my job.
- 04:46And the other thing, we
- 04:47get accused of this a
- 04:48lot, but our slides are,
- 04:49like, aggressively Maison Blue branded.
- 04:51And people sort of, like,
- 04:52complain about this sometimes and
- 04:54not sorry.
- 04:56And
- 04:57now what I really wanna
- 04:58do is, say some really
- 05:00nice things about Mark Mercurio,
- 05:02who,
- 05:03I first met at a
- 05:04conference in my first year
- 05:05out of fellowship where I
- 05:06was alone and I didn't
- 05:07know anyone. And a mutual
- 05:08friend of ours, like, dispatched
- 05:10him to come be nice
- 05:11to me at that meeting,
- 05:12and that he did. And
- 05:13it was really, like, an
- 05:14important thing for me. And
- 05:16he's been nice to me
- 05:17ever since that day. And
- 05:18he's offered me a lot
- 05:19of really sage counsel over
- 05:20the years and and camaraderie
- 05:22in neonatology and bioethics and
- 05:25sort of advocated for me
- 05:26to have some of the
- 05:26opportunities that he talked about.
- 05:28So that's really important to
- 05:29me.
- 05:30And the reason I have
- 05:31a picture of pina colada
- 05:32in this on this slide
- 05:33is I don't even remember
- 05:34what the thing was, but
- 05:35we had some disagreement about
- 05:37something during the pandemic that
- 05:39ended in I will buy
- 05:40you a pina colada. And
- 05:42the
- 05:43the
- 05:44the pandemic raged on, and
- 05:45it took us several years
- 05:46to finally have that. But
- 05:47we finally did in Southern
- 05:49California, and he got to
- 05:50meet my husband and my
- 05:50kids. And so it's it's
- 05:52this, like, in my mind
- 05:53now, it's Mark and Pina
- 05:54Coladas.
- 05:57All right. So I'm going
- 05:58to tell you about a
- 05:58case. And I've made this
- 05:59case a little bit vague
- 06:00on purpose because you can't
- 06:01really make these cases up
- 06:02to the same degree. So
- 06:03it's a real case that
- 06:04I've anonymized
- 06:05a bit.
- 06:06But so this was a
- 06:07term baby who had a
- 06:08skeletal dysplasia and never had
- 06:10a definitive diagnosis. This was
- 06:12before the whole genome was
- 06:13available in an epic
- 06:16order set near you.
- 06:18Admitted to the NICU for
- 06:20six months.
- 06:21And that's the beginning of
- 06:22the story.
- 06:23So
- 06:24after the baby had been
- 06:25in the NICU for six
- 06:26months, left our unit and
- 06:28went to different units, we'll
- 06:29do this differently,
- 06:30but went to our home
- 06:31ventilator unit in theory to
- 06:34get ready to go home.
- 06:36And at that point, the
- 06:37baby had multiple comorbidities,
- 06:40had pulmonary hypotension, had bronchomalacia,
- 06:42had a tracheostomy,
- 06:44had a surgical feeding tube.
- 06:45And after about a week
- 06:46there, had a code, and
- 06:48I'm using the term code
- 06:49code kind of loosely because
- 06:50for this baby over different
- 06:51times that meant different things.
- 06:52But some kind of bad
- 06:53cardiorespiratory
- 06:54event happened and the baby
- 06:55went to the PICU, the
- 06:56pediatric ICU.
- 06:58And this sort of cycle
- 07:00of
- 07:01to the PICU,
- 07:02back to the vent unit,
- 07:03to the PICU, back to
- 07:04the vent unit, always with
- 07:06codes,
- 07:07went on for three years
- 07:09before this baby ultimately left
- 07:11the hospital with like many,
- 07:12many code events at some
- 07:13point was in the PICU
- 07:14for fourteen months. This is
- 07:16an epically long hospitalization.
- 07:20At discharge, this baby had
- 07:21a tracheostomy, a ventilator,
- 07:23central venous catheter for reasons
- 07:25that even like when I
- 07:26looked at it, I couldn't
- 07:26quite figure out what that
- 07:27was for, a surgical feeding
- 07:29tube and twenty ish prescriptions.
- 07:33And after about a week
- 07:34at home, this child comes
- 07:35back in through the ER
- 07:36with respiratory distress,
- 07:38goes to the PICU after
- 07:39three days in the vent
- 07:40unit,
- 07:42after a sort of code
- 07:43on the floor in septic
- 07:44shock and died of multisystem
- 07:45organ failure after a compassionate
- 07:47transition to comfort care. And
- 07:49this is all within two
- 07:50weeks of having gone home
- 07:51from this three year hospitalization.
- 07:54So
- 07:55was this inevitable? Was this
- 07:57terrible luck? Was this a
- 07:59waste? Was this worth it?
- 08:00It's hard to know.
- 08:03Here's another one.
- 08:05It's a twenty five week
- 08:06baby who comes to my
- 08:07unit, which is level four
- 08:09NICU from a level three
- 08:10NICU at too much of
- 08:12a age for an airway
- 08:13evaluation. And if you're a
- 08:14neonatologist, that can mean almost
- 08:16anything.
- 08:18The NICU stay with us
- 08:19is characterized by multiple really
- 08:21complex medical problems, sort of
- 08:23more than billed at the
- 08:24time of original transfer.
- 08:26Intractable psychosocial challenges that make
- 08:28coherent long term planning really
- 08:30hard.
- 08:32Transferred out of our NICU
- 08:33to that same home ventilator
- 08:34unit just after the first
- 08:36birthday, and we had a
- 08:37big party at the first
- 08:38birthday.
- 08:39Has a feeding tube, not
- 08:40really on full feedings yet.
- 08:42Lots of meds, lots of
- 08:43consults, lots of services.
- 08:46The all the medical problems
- 08:48get better over months, but
- 08:49these psychosocial pair barriers to
- 08:52discharge remain kind of insurmountable.
- 08:55And this child goes home
- 08:57to the family after the
- 08:58second birthday party,
- 09:00decannulated
- 09:01on a nasal cannula,
- 09:03on less stuff, but, you
- 09:04know, still ten prescriptions with
- 09:05lots of discharge appointments.
- 09:08Comes back in about a
- 09:08week, but a short stay
- 09:10and goes back home and
- 09:10this child is still
- 09:13home. Over this case, by
- 09:14this time, I was sort
- 09:15of paying more attention to
- 09:16cases like this. There's collective
- 09:18hand wringing about absolutely everything,
- 09:21for months.
- 09:22There's ethics consults. There's we
- 09:24have a health care equity
- 09:25consult service. People call them.
- 09:27There's hospital business meetings. We
- 09:28now have a kind of
- 09:29hospital C suite type committee
- 09:31that just looks at our
- 09:32super long hospitalizations.
- 09:34There's moral distress rounds of
- 09:35various kinds.
- 09:39But there's also joy
- 09:40in this child's home with
- 09:41the family decannulated.
- 09:44So is this outcome good
- 09:45or bad? And what I
- 09:47would say is yes. Right?
- 09:48I mean, there there this
- 09:49is
- 09:50I don't know how to
- 09:51answer this in any other
- 09:52way.
- 09:53So I'm gonna step back
- 09:54aerially and think a little
- 09:55bit about, if you're a
- 09:56pediatrician, the kind of origin
- 09:58story you have with patients
- 09:59like this.
- 10:01If you've trained as a
- 10:02pediatric resident, you probably remember
- 10:05some story kind of like
- 10:06this. And maybe it wasn't
- 10:07three years, but, you know,
- 10:08I, stayed last night with
- 10:10a friend of mine from
- 10:11pediatric residency.
- 10:12And, you know, we graduated
- 10:13from residency twenty one years
- 10:15ago. And when I told
- 10:16her the topic, she told
- 10:17me the name of the
- 10:18patient that this invoked for
- 10:20her.
- 10:22And one of my really
- 10:24formative experiences was at the
- 10:25building that's pictured here. So
- 10:26I trained on the south
- 10:27side of Chicago, and this
- 10:29beautiful building was part of
- 10:30the Columbia exhibition at the
- 10:32turn of the century, the
- 10:33turn of the nineteenth to
- 10:34twentieth or twentieth to twenty
- 10:35first century, I guess,
- 10:36and had been a home
- 10:37for children with rheumatic fever
- 10:39that then got converted to
- 10:41a medical home for kids
- 10:42with chronic disease. But we
- 10:43would go there as residents
- 10:44and stay with kids who
- 10:45were there sometimes for months
- 10:47waiting for placement in some
- 10:48better long term facility. So
- 10:50these are patients that we
- 10:51knew as pediatric residencies, like
- 10:53really long term patients.
- 10:55And as a neonatologist and
- 10:56Doctor. Mercurio said, I'm a
- 10:57student now too. I spent
- 10:58a lot of time thinking
- 10:59about patients who are in
- 11:00the hospital for a long
- 11:02time.
- 11:02Part of this is in
- 11:03the NICU, if you're born
- 11:04at twenty two weeks, you're
- 11:05in the hospital for a
- 11:06long time just because you
- 11:07have to be.
- 11:08But also we are always
- 11:10full. And if you're an
- 11:11administrator in a children's hospital,
- 11:12you're always full and that's
- 11:14always a crisis.
- 11:16As a clinical ethics consultant,
- 11:18we now have frequent flyers.
- 11:21These are patients that we
- 11:22I get the page and
- 11:23I'm like, wait. I know
- 11:23this story. I've heard this
- 11:24before. We've already consulted on
- 11:26this patient. And, you know,
- 11:27the NICU for some people
- 11:28is the newborn ICU, but
- 11:29there's the other NICU, right,
- 11:30the neuro ICU. We also
- 11:32have long stay adult patients
- 11:33that we get consulted on
- 11:34over and over because they're
- 11:35in the hospital forever.
- 11:38And we're starting to think
- 11:39about this as a research
- 11:40lab.
- 11:41And so we've been talking
- 11:43about this in various forms.
- 11:44We all have our own
- 11:45take on it, but my
- 11:47collaborators, Beanie Meadow, who's a
- 11:48neonatologist with me, and Erica
- 11:49Andres, who's a PICU doc,
- 11:51and I have, like, worked
- 11:52on this and come up
- 11:54with our own kind of
- 11:55intentionally kind of neatly, neatly,
- 11:57neatly titles. And when we
- 11:58first started talking about this,
- 11:59I said, I don't care
- 12:00what we talk about, but
- 12:01the title is going to
- 12:01be, You Don't Have to
- 12:02Go Home, But You Can't
- 12:03Stay Here, because that is
- 12:04my dream to have a
- 12:04talk that's called this.
- 12:06And if you're going to
- 12:07go present a weird idea
- 12:08at a meeting and see
- 12:09how it is going to
- 12:10go, you do that at
- 12:11the American Society for Bioethics
- 12:12and Humanities.
- 12:14And that's where we started
- 12:15talking about this. But we're
- 12:17still at our phases of
- 12:18trying to take this from
- 12:19normative ethics work to empirical
- 12:21work and kind of gearing
- 12:22up to start studying this
- 12:23in a more like counting
- 12:24stuff
- 12:25kind of way. So here's
- 12:27what we're going to
- 12:28do. I'm going to try
- 12:29to impart the idea that
- 12:30these patients aren't all the
- 12:31same, and that there are
- 12:32different forces that lead to
- 12:34these patients being in the
- 12:35hospital for as long as
- 12:36they are.
- 12:38That there's more than one
- 12:39moral dimension to this. And
- 12:40there's a lot of different
- 12:41ethical things we have to
- 12:42think about.
- 12:44And I'm just trying to
- 12:45end with, you know, what
- 12:46should we be thinking about?
- 12:47What should we be studying?
- 12:48And then what? What do
- 12:49we do about patients like
- 12:50this?
- 12:52One thing that makes this
- 12:54really hard, I'm gonna talk
- 12:54in a minute about this
- 12:56population called the chronically critically
- 12:57ill. Chronic critical illness is
- 12:59not my idea. I didn't
- 13:00invent it and I wanna
- 13:01be clear that that's an
- 13:02area that's a focus of
- 13:03a lot of research.
- 13:05The area of super long
- 13:07hospitalization
- 13:08is infuriatingly
- 13:09not. And part of the
- 13:11reason I say that is
- 13:12when you try to figure
- 13:12out what defines a long
- 13:14hospitalization, you get like, more
- 13:16than twelve days,
- 13:18Right? And that doesn't have
- 13:19anything to do with what
- 13:20I'm trying to describe. And
- 13:21in this paper that I'll
- 13:22come back to the end
- 13:23that defines like a research
- 13:25agenda for kids with chronic
- 13:26critical illness.
- 13:27Nobody's really, really talking about
- 13:29like more than three months.
- 13:31And that's one study that
- 13:32talks about more than three
- 13:33months even.
- 13:35But this is a population
- 13:36that's been vexing people forever.
- 13:38You know, since the eighties,
- 13:39people have been thinking about
- 13:41what happens to these patients
- 13:42that stay in the hospital
- 13:43longer than we wanted.
- 13:45And for at least a
- 13:46decade, people have been starting
- 13:48to notice that these patients
- 13:50take up a lot of
- 13:51the bed
- 13:52bandwidth, if you can think
- 13:53about it that way. It's
- 13:54sort of they're taking up
- 13:55proportionally
- 13:56more and more of the
- 13:57bed days, which is how
- 13:59you think about how much
- 14:00of the pie something a
- 14:02hospital patient takes up.
- 14:05People are also starting to
- 14:06think about how this impacts
- 14:08different populations differently.
- 14:10So in a Canadian study
- 14:11of this, they looked at
- 14:12how many kids like this
- 14:12actually went home to their
- 14:14own families.
- 14:15And patients who were just
- 14:17separated from their families were
- 14:18more likely to be Aboriginal
- 14:19than other kids in the
- 14:20study.
- 14:22And their, you know, early
- 14:23days looked at, wow, these
- 14:25are a really small number
- 14:26of patients, but they take
- 14:27up a lot of our
- 14:27bed days and even more
- 14:28of our ventilator days.
- 14:30And this isn't just a
- 14:32child problem in the UK.
- 14:33This is a really interesting
- 14:34study out of the National
- 14:35Health Service
- 14:36that they were doing a
- 14:38look at could we reduce
- 14:39overall, like, median length of
- 14:41stay across our whole population
- 14:43of inpatients to free up
- 14:44beds? And they identified this
- 14:46tiny, tiny fraction of patients
- 14:47who were in the hospital
- 14:48more than a hundred days
- 14:50and
- 14:51discovered that if you took
- 14:52those out, you didn't move
- 14:54the median length of stay
- 14:55for the National Health Service
- 14:57at all.
- 14:58And the the idea here
- 14:59is if we're trying to
- 15:02lower length of stay, like
- 15:03free up beds, we could
- 15:04free up a lot of
- 15:05beds and targeting median length
- 15:07of stay isn't gonna do
- 15:08that in the same way
- 15:09that just looking at these
- 15:10patients specifically well.
- 15:14So chronic critical illness is
- 15:16a very specific thing. It's
- 15:17this figure is not to
- 15:18scale and it's also not
- 15:19my figure.
- 15:21But it's it's a subset
- 15:23of kids with special health
- 15:24care needs who are in
- 15:25a subset of set set
- 15:26of kids with medical complexity.
- 15:28And the gist of this
- 15:30is that these kids have,
- 15:33complex diseases, technology dependence, and
- 15:36they interact with the health
- 15:37care system in a completely
- 15:39different way a lot.
- 15:42So
- 15:43what are the practical dimensions
- 15:45of this?
- 15:47Sometimes it's that the body
- 15:48is imperfect. And these are
- 15:50patients who legitimately can't be
- 15:52cared for except in an
- 15:53acute care hospital, usually an
- 15:55ICU.
- 15:56But they seem to be
- 15:56able to do that indefinitely.
- 15:58So this is not patients
- 16:00who take a long time
- 16:01dying. That is a very
- 16:02different population of patients and
- 16:03that's not who I'm talking
- 16:04about. This isn't the futility
- 16:06dwindles.
- 16:07This is patients who they're
- 16:09they live like this.
- 16:12Sometimes it's that the system
- 16:13fails. So these are people
- 16:14who could, in theory, go
- 16:15home, but there's some sort
- 16:17of barrier to safe discharge.
- 16:18And, like, safe we'll get
- 16:20to this, but, like, safe
- 16:20can mean any number of
- 16:21things. But there's some obstacle
- 16:23to a theoretically achievable discharge.
- 16:27And sometimes consensus is elusive.
- 16:29There's something that might get
- 16:30this child home,
- 16:32but
- 16:33something like the parents don't
- 16:34want that thing.
- 16:36These are sort of paradigm.
- 16:37This is really oversimplified. But
- 16:39and, like, a lot of
- 16:41times, it's kind of a
- 16:42mishmash of these things, which
- 16:44makes it even harder because
- 16:45just untangling what is the
- 16:47barrier to discharge is really
- 16:48hard. Alright. Mark, I warned
- 16:50you about this, but so
- 16:51physical physical barriers. Right? So
- 16:53here's here's doctor Mercurio again.
- 16:55Right? And I think that
- 16:56everyone would agree that if
- 16:57you can see that That's
- 16:58my high school graduation. This
- 16:59is his high school graduation
- 17:01photo.
- 17:03And he also reminded me
- 17:04that this is before he'd
- 17:05had the,
- 17:07the
- 17:08burden of being the division
- 17:09director, like, voiced it upon
- 17:10him for a decade. But,
- 17:12I think everyone would argue
- 17:13that he has a neck.
- 17:15Right? And you can see
- 17:16his neck.
- 17:17Where's this kid's neck? Right
- 17:19now, this is a random
- 17:20healthy baby. There's nothing wrong
- 17:21with this kid. This kid
- 17:22doesn't need a tracheostomy.
- 17:24But the point is sometimes
- 17:25there are things like the
- 17:26baby needs a trach, but
- 17:27there's some geographic,
- 17:29geographic, like, medical, physical, like,
- 17:31thing. You can't do the
- 17:33trach for some reason. Probably
- 17:34not just that they like,
- 17:35babies can have trachs, but
- 17:36but for you you just
- 17:38can't do it.
- 17:40Sometimes there are real logistic
- 17:42barriers. So I live in,
- 17:44Michigan, so we have two
- 17:45peninsulas. Right? And, like, Yooper
- 17:46is the upper peninsula, UP.
- 17:49So you can use my
- 17:51so
- 17:52we're here. Here's Ann Arbor.
- 17:53Right? And here's like the
- 17:54way upper peninsula. That's like
- 17:56a ten to twelve hour
- 17:57drive when it's not snowing.
- 18:00And so or you, you
- 18:01know, you can drive to
- 18:03you can drive to Marquette.
- 18:04You can fly to Marquette,
- 18:05which is here, and you
- 18:05still have a six hour
- 18:06drive.
- 18:08Getting a child, you know,
- 18:10to Houghton
- 18:11with a tracheostomy and getting
- 18:13home nursing and, like, where's
- 18:14their closest hospital that can
- 18:15actually help them? I mean,
- 18:17these this is almost impossible.
- 18:19It can be done, but
- 18:20but real geographic, like, barriers
- 18:23to discharge. Or,
- 18:25so this is a picture
- 18:27of a trailer park, and
- 18:28I intentionally picked a picture
- 18:29of, like, a nice trailer
- 18:30park. Right? But, like, outfitting
- 18:32a trailer that someone doesn't
- 18:34own for what they need
- 18:35to safely have a home
- 18:36ventilator,
- 18:37that's there are huge barriers
- 18:40to doing that.
- 18:42And sometimes there are real
- 18:43barriers to consensus.
- 18:46Sometimes just what is the
- 18:48appropriate disposition? When is it
- 18:49the right time to go
- 18:50home? Where is the best
- 18:51place to go? It was
- 18:52really hard. So I don't
- 18:53know anything about this this
- 18:55baby.
- 18:56But if you look at
- 18:57this baby, there's a village
- 18:59around her taking care of
- 19:00her. And there's a lot
- 19:01of stuff and there's a
- 19:02lot of hands.
- 19:03And if you think about
- 19:04what this takes and this
- 19:05kid was kind of like
- 19:06thriving. Right? Like, you can
- 19:07imagine why a person would
- 19:08say, like, I don't know
- 19:09that I can replicate that
- 19:10at home. And I don't
- 19:11know that I want to
- 19:11try.
- 19:12This was an interesting story
- 19:14that we pulled out because
- 19:15this was, you know, twenty
- 19:15twenty four and, like, an
- 19:17NPR story
- 19:18about an eighteen year old
- 19:19who was stuck in the
- 19:20hospital for many, many months.
- 19:22And the issue was that
- 19:23the hospital wanted to send
- 19:24her to a facility. And
- 19:25the closest one was many
- 19:27hours from where her family
- 19:28lived,
- 19:29hours from her school, hours
- 19:31from her life. And she
- 19:32said, I don't want to
- 19:33be six hours from where
- 19:34my family is. I want
- 19:35and if that means I
- 19:36gotta stay in the hospital,
- 19:37you got to keep me
- 19:38here. And there was a
- 19:38lawsuit about this.
- 19:41Sometimes there are real disagreements
- 19:42about the goals of care
- 19:43too. We were talking about
- 19:43this over lunch a little
- 19:44bit that like,
- 19:46the you know, to say
- 19:47that, like, they just don't
- 19:48want the tracheostomy, there are
- 19:49really, like, good rational reasons
- 19:50to be really worried about
- 19:52getting a tracheostomy. Right? Like,
- 19:53the in home mortality from
- 19:55kids who go home with
- 19:56a tracheostomy is is high.
- 19:58And it's not always because
- 19:59of the thing that made
- 20:00the child need the tracheostomy.
- 20:02If you look at reasons
- 20:03patient with tracheostomies die, things
- 20:06like trachea accidents
- 20:07are one of the biggest
- 20:08reasons that that happens. So
- 20:10it's not entirely irrational
- 20:11to say, I don't want
- 20:12it. I wanna stay here
- 20:13until we don't need it
- 20:14anymore.
- 20:15Alright. So there are moral
- 20:16dimensions too, though. Right? Resources.
- 20:19How much is the discharge
- 20:20worth? Is it worth three
- 20:22years in the hospital?
- 20:24Does every patient have a
- 20:25same claim on that bed?
- 20:27So would this be a
- 20:27relevant question if we had
- 20:29infinite ICU beds? If
- 20:31that PICU could just grow
- 20:32indefinitely, would this be a
- 20:33discussion?
- 20:36And is hospital bioethics really
- 20:38the right arena, right? Is
- 20:39this a public health question?
- 20:40Is this about society and
- 20:41how we think about disability
- 20:43and how we think about
- 20:44the
- 20:46the value
- 20:47that we're gonna place on
- 20:48kids like this and what
- 20:49we're gonna invest in taking
- 20:50care of kids like this
- 20:51in the community? Or is
- 20:52it about something else? You
- 20:53know, Mark was saying, I
- 20:54got my, like, public policy
- 20:55degree and my ethics fellowship
- 20:56and then my NICU fellowship
- 20:58at the same time, so
- 20:58maybe it's about something else
- 20:59and just y'all can tell
- 21:00me what that is.
- 21:02But maybe it's about the
- 21:03same stuff it always is.
- 21:04Maybe it's about parental authority
- 21:06and best interest. Maybe it's
- 21:07about weighing benefit and harm.
- 21:09Maybe it's about prognostic prognostic
- 21:11uncertainty, and maybe it's about
- 21:12reasonable people disagreeing. This is
- 21:13what it always is in
- 21:15pediatric ethics.
- 21:17So when you think about
- 21:18these resource questions, though, so
- 21:21this is where we got
- 21:22to like, you don't have
- 21:22to go home, but you
- 21:23can't stay here and you
- 21:24do you, but you can't
- 21:24have my hospital bed. Right?
- 21:26That's one of the potential
- 21:27ways you can think about
- 21:28this. And this is entirely
- 21:30about pie and who gets
- 21:31to eat it.
- 21:32Right? And long hospital stays
- 21:35take up a lot of
- 21:36pie, whether that pie is
- 21:37beds or hospital dollars, health
- 21:39care dollars.
- 21:41So we can think about
- 21:42these kids like they don't
- 21:43really need an acute care
- 21:45hospital. And so can these
- 21:46patients lay claim on acute
- 21:48care,
- 21:49beds? And what I would
- 21:49ask is relative to what,
- 21:51though,
- 21:52is that relative to going
- 21:53somewhere else? Is that relative
- 21:55to dying instead?
- 21:57And I would challenge that
- 21:58we don't have any framework
- 22:00to rationally have that conversation,
- 22:02you know, other than like
- 22:03in something like in the,
- 22:05you know, public health crisis.
- 22:06We know a little bit
- 22:06about those now. We don't
- 22:08have any framework for that.
- 22:09And kind of the same
- 22:10thing about money. Right? Is
- 22:11there
- 22:13is a does a hospitalization
- 22:15just become at some point
- 22:16in an absolute way too
- 22:18expensive?
- 22:19Right? And I would again
- 22:20say relative to what? And
- 22:22what's the framework that we
- 22:23have to talk about that?
- 22:28The right arena question is
- 22:29I think also really interesting.
- 22:31I had to show you
- 22:31at least one paper I'd
- 22:32written myself.
- 22:33And so one of the
- 22:34things we talked about a
- 22:35lot during the pandemic was
- 22:36about bedside rationing. And I
- 22:38get a lot of ethics
- 22:39consults
- 22:40about
- 22:40isn't this patient eating too
- 22:42much pie? To which my
- 22:43answer is always that's not
- 22:45what a health care ethics
- 22:46consultation is. Right? We don't
- 22:47ration at the bedside for
- 22:49the simple person that you
- 22:50taking care of your for
- 22:51the simple reason that you
- 22:52taking care of your patient
- 22:54can't do the big picture
- 22:55at the same time that
- 22:56you do the small picture.
- 22:58And but there is a
- 23:00bigger picture and someone has
- 23:02to look at it.
- 23:03And when you look at
- 23:04the literature about children with
- 23:06medical complexity and the chronically
- 23:08critically ill, They're mostly about
- 23:10health systems and the way
- 23:11we take these care of
- 23:12these pictures, these babies in
- 23:14the big picture, not about
- 23:15how we do that as
- 23:16individuals.
- 23:17And I think one sign
- 23:19that we have a real
- 23:20systems problem is that when
- 23:21you look at programs that
- 23:22are out there at children's
- 23:23hospitals that are built to
- 23:24support families
- 23:26who have children like this,
- 23:27and programs actually whose primary
- 23:29goal is often to keep
- 23:30these kids out of the
- 23:31hospital, which they do fairly
- 23:32successfully,
- 23:33they're almost always philanthropically funded,
- 23:35which which means no one
- 23:36else is paying for them.
- 23:37Right? And that it you
- 23:38have to go to donors
- 23:39to invest in keeping these
- 23:41kids out of hospitals, which
- 23:42gives you a sense of
- 23:43what our societal priorities are.
- 23:47And then there's the stuff
- 23:48that I told you it's
- 23:49always about. Right? Who determines
- 23:51when someone is ready to
- 23:52go home? That's in some
- 23:53sense a parental authority question
- 23:55is what people want relevant
- 23:57here? Is a parent's preference
- 23:58relevant?
- 24:00Who decides where a child
- 24:01is better off? And how
- 24:03do you weigh things like
- 24:04the risk of nosocomial infection
- 24:06versus the risk of a
- 24:07trach accident in a home?
- 24:08That's kind of an oranges
- 24:09and apples thing.
- 24:11How sure do we need
- 24:12to be that that child
- 24:13will eventually go home?
- 24:15And what if parents don't
- 24:16agree with our certainty about
- 24:18that? What if they say,
- 24:18well, look, maybe it's a
- 24:19really low chance, but I'm
- 24:20gonna take it?
- 24:22And are some of these
- 24:23impasses
- 24:24just inevitable?
- 24:25Is there a utilitarian
- 24:27final arbiter in that impasse
- 24:28who just gets to decide
- 24:29you don't get to stay
- 24:30here for three years?
- 24:33So I just went through
- 24:34this whole host of things
- 24:35that I think that this
- 24:36is potentially about.
- 24:38Right? There are a lot
- 24:39of different
- 24:41different things. And the point
- 24:42of this is, I hope
- 24:43you're already convinced of this,
- 24:44but that, like, there's a
- 24:46lot of ethics in these
- 24:48hospitalizations.
- 24:49But there's one thing that
- 24:50I think none of this
- 24:51has talked about.
- 24:53And I think that that's
- 24:54that we also have this
- 24:56collective,
- 24:57tacitly, but firmly held belief
- 24:58that a good life is
- 24:59lived at home
- 25:00and that there's a moral
- 25:01imperative to get kids out
- 25:03of the hospital as a
- 25:04distinct existential good.
- 25:06And that's why I've shown
- 25:07you this picture that I
- 25:07stole from some children's hospital
- 25:09website of this, like, very
- 25:10harmonious, appealing looking picture of
- 25:12a mother taking care of
- 25:13her child with a tracheostomy
- 25:15and what is clearly a
- 25:16home. Right? That this is
- 25:17what people are supposed to
- 25:18want and that it's achievable.
- 25:22So what's inherently bad about
- 25:24living in the hospital?
- 25:25So relative to what? Again,
- 25:27what's the comparison here?
- 25:29Bad versus living at home,
- 25:31bad versus dying in the
- 25:32hospital. What's the comparison?
- 25:34And what if living at
- 25:35the hospital is better than
- 25:37living at home for some
- 25:38people?
- 25:39And who decides
- 25:40if dying is the least
- 25:42worst outcome among the things
- 25:44that are available to you?
- 25:45And is that dying in
- 25:46the hospital? Is that going
- 25:47home with hospice?
- 25:49I think that when we
- 25:51complain about these long hospitalizations
- 25:53without really getting into this
- 25:54we're ignoring how complicated this
- 25:56problem is.
- 25:58So when we think about
- 25:59what might be inherently bad
- 26:00or good about living in
- 26:01the hospital, there's a lot
- 26:02of different stakeholders here. I
- 26:03heard recently that stakeholders like
- 26:05a bad word that I'm
- 26:06not supposed to use, but
- 26:06I don't know what the
- 26:07alternative is.
- 26:09So for the patient, for
- 26:10the family, for the hospital,
- 26:11for the unit,
- 26:12for the healthcare professionals, I
- 26:14think some of these hospitalizations
- 26:15do take a specific toll
- 26:17on individual
- 26:19providers, particularly first line healthcare
- 26:21providers, like bedside providers, like
- 26:23nurses and RTs.
- 26:25So what's the bad stuff
- 26:27about living in the hospital?
- 26:28I mean, this has actually
- 26:28been studied a little. People
- 26:29have gone and really interviewed
- 26:30people on, like, what's bad
- 26:31about living in the hospital?
- 26:33But you get exposed to
- 26:35unequivocally
- 26:36bad things like multi resistant,
- 26:38multi drug resistant organisms.
- 26:40In preparing for this, I
- 26:41read that, you know, medical
- 26:43error, there's like a dose
- 26:44response relationship. The longer you're
- 26:46in the hospital, the more
- 26:47errors you're going to get
- 26:48exposed to just by virtue
- 26:49of being there.
- 26:50There's noise. You get like,
- 26:52like ICU hysteria, right? You're
- 26:54not exposed to normal light
- 26:55cycling.
- 26:57You don't get a normal
- 26:59childhood emotional experience. You don't
- 27:02get normal development. You can
- 27:03regress. You don't get to
- 27:04move around. You're sort of
- 27:05not free in the way
- 27:06that kids are supposed to
- 27:07be free. You don't interact
- 27:09with your peers. You don't
- 27:10get too attached to your
- 27:11family in the same way.
- 27:14And there are ways that
- 27:15I'll talk about in a
- 27:16minute that the care model,
- 27:17if you live in the
- 27:18ICU, is really probably not
- 27:20the care model that you
- 27:22need.
- 27:24On the other hand, you're
- 27:26safe. Right? You have a
- 27:27huge pool of care providers
- 27:28that take care of you.
- 27:30Potentially, there's all this stuff
- 27:31that's easier for you to
- 27:32get there than it is
- 27:33for you to get when
- 27:34you live at the far
- 27:35reaches of the Upper Peninsula,
- 27:36for example. But even in
- 27:38a big city, if your
- 27:38parents don't have a car,
- 27:41You know, OT, PT, speech,
- 27:43all of these things are
- 27:44there for you.
- 27:46You have access to all
- 27:47your specialists that can come
- 27:48when you need them. You
- 27:48can get all your labs.
- 27:49You can get all your
- 27:50tests. I would argue
- 27:51that there are some good
- 27:53things for you about living
- 27:54in the hospital.
- 27:56So what about for parents,
- 27:57right? I think there are
- 27:58some really bad things for
- 27:59parents about having their kid
- 28:00live in the hospital. They're
- 28:02separated. People are really starting
- 28:03to get things like the
- 28:05indirect cost of having a
- 28:07hospitalized child, both in terms
- 28:08of things like that the
- 28:09insurance doesn't cover, but also
- 28:11things like parking, right, or
- 28:13like eating at the expensive
- 28:14cafeteria.
- 28:16What it does to your
- 28:17other kids, the stressors on
- 28:18you,
- 28:19the last, the loss of
- 28:21a normal kind of natural
- 28:22parenting experience, the fishbowl effect,
- 28:25people are looking at you
- 28:27all the time. And you
- 28:28kind of can't talk about
- 28:29this without talking about this
- 28:30really
- 28:31poignant essay that my friend
- 28:33and colleague Annie Jeanvier wrote.
- 28:34She's a neonatal ethicist who
- 28:35had a twenty five weeker.
- 28:37And she talks about this
- 28:38pressure she felt to go
- 28:40visit on days that she
- 28:41didn't want to go because
- 28:42she felt like she had
- 28:43to go show that she
- 28:44was a good parent.
- 28:47But
- 28:48we see hospitalization for some
- 28:50of our families be their
- 28:51route to housing security and
- 28:53food
- 28:54and help and respite care
- 28:56and community. You know, we
- 28:57see people who find
- 28:58lifelong friends who understand their
- 29:00challenges living at the Ronald
- 29:02McDonald House. Right? It's not
- 29:03all bad.
- 29:06And when they go home,
- 29:08the supports that are supposed
- 29:09to be there aren't there.
- 29:10Right? And there are studies
- 29:11that show that all these
- 29:12people from your church and
- 29:13your community that say they're
- 29:14gonna be with you, all
- 29:15of that's gone in a
- 29:16year. And the home nursing
- 29:17you were supposed to get
- 29:18doesn't come. So you go
- 29:19home and you're alone.
- 29:22Now for the hospital, there's
- 29:23lots of downsides to this,
- 29:24right? We're full all the
- 29:25time.
- 29:26There's a resource strain. And
- 29:27I have a friend who
- 29:28talks about this in terms
- 29:29of time, money and feelings.
- 29:31Right? And you put a
- 29:32lot into these patients. There's
- 29:34this tacit triage that you're
- 29:35doing all the time because
- 29:36you have the chronic patient
- 29:37and you get paired with,
- 29:38like you're the nurse, you
- 29:39get paired with the sickest
- 29:40patient in the ICU, and
- 29:42you're constantly trying to decide
- 29:43where you put your energy
- 29:44and that burns you out
- 29:45and burned out nurses leave
- 29:47the profession.
- 29:49Right?
- 29:50And it's a care model
- 29:51mismatch. This is not what
- 29:53acute care children's hospitals are
- 29:54built to do.
- 29:57You kind of have to
- 29:58really hunt for good sides
- 30:00of this for the hospital,
- 30:01right? Maybe there's some joy,
- 30:02maybe there's some emotional reward.
- 30:05These hospitalizations are generally kind
- 30:06of money losers. But some
- 30:08of these patients in the
- 30:08long run, they have lots
- 30:09of surgeries, surgeries make money,
- 30:11to save lives. They're scandalous
- 30:12sometimes and like sometimes it's
- 30:14good, right? I don't want
- 30:14to blow it off.
- 30:15All right. So there's a
- 30:17population of children who live
- 30:19in the hospital competing for
- 30:20acute care beds and attention
- 30:21with no good alternatives. I
- 30:23think everybody
- 30:24sold on that. But so
- 30:25now what?
- 30:27So what are the long
- 30:28term fixes? Right? So there's
- 30:30the really distant
- 30:32Mount Everest kind of hard
- 30:33stuff,
- 30:34which is getting the resources
- 30:36that these children need to
- 30:37put them in a better
- 30:38environment for them.
- 30:41So like long term extended
- 30:43care, like adults have something
- 30:44called an LTAC, like a
- 30:45long term acute care center.
- 30:47Like, we don't really have
- 30:48those for kids in most
- 30:49states.
- 30:50Respite care, like, in the
- 30:51UK, at least, I think
- 30:53there used to be, like,
- 30:54if you took care of
- 30:55a child like this at
- 30:56home, you could take them
- 30:56somewhere to take get a
- 30:58break
- 30:59from doing this.
- 31:00And, you know, a lot
- 31:01of the chronic critical illness
- 31:03literature talks about better complex
- 31:05primary care and medical home
- 31:06models so that the world
- 31:07is better for kids like
- 31:09this.
- 31:11So if you think about
- 31:12case one, though, right, that
- 31:13that first case that I
- 31:14told you about about the
- 31:15child who just like codes
- 31:16all the time.
- 31:18So here's the model I
- 31:19showed you. Right? And I
- 31:20think, though, there's a subset
- 31:22of this chronic critical illness
- 31:23with people who really are,
- 31:25like, constantly unstable.
- 31:28And there's a set of
- 31:28patients who really do live
- 31:30in this liminal space where
- 31:31they're too sick or unstable
- 31:33to go home, but they're
- 31:34not dying.
- 31:35They're too chronic for an
- 31:36acute care hospital. And this
- 31:38is where we've talked in
- 31:38our group about this need
- 31:39for, like, the baby LTCH
- 31:40that nobody really has,
- 31:43that can take care of
- 31:44a child like this in
- 31:45an appropriate setting,
- 31:46with better mechanisms to support
- 31:48continuity, and I'll talk more
- 31:49about that in a minute,
- 31:50that aren't in competition for
- 31:51acute care beds. And I
- 31:53put an asterisk
- 31:54beside this because kids like
- 31:55this truthfully do tend to
- 31:58toggle back and forth between
- 31:59institutions. It's not really true
- 32:01that they just stay there.
- 32:02But I think there,
- 32:04you could build a place
- 32:06for like someone like the
- 32:07patient, the patient in case
- 32:09one.
- 32:10And maybe sometimes we really
- 32:12do kick the can down
- 32:13the road and just fail
- 32:14to put together a coherent
- 32:15long term plan. We don't
- 32:15do that on purpose. This
- 32:17is not a bad intentions
- 32:18thing. Usually in ethics, I
- 32:19mean, like intentions are good.
- 32:21But it's just the wrong
- 32:23care model.
- 32:24And so Erica, one of
- 32:26my partners in this, Erica
- 32:27Andrus, talks about there's more
- 32:28than one kind of continuity
- 32:30problem that we have.
- 32:32It's informational continuity. How do
- 32:34we hand off relationship
- 32:37information?
- 32:38Shift to shift, week to
- 32:39week, month to month. How
- 32:40do we get that information
- 32:42into the right brains in
- 32:43the right way?
- 32:44How do we hand off
- 32:45plans, that management continuity? How
- 32:47do we agree on how
- 32:48we're going to take care
- 32:48of this patient?
- 32:50Relational continuity. How do you
- 32:51give these patients that sort
- 32:52of long term
- 32:54care relationship that they need?
- 32:55And this figure, I don't
- 32:56expect you to read it
- 32:57all, but this this is
- 32:58a really complicated patient to
- 33:00take care of in a
- 33:01setting where, like, most ICUs,
- 33:03the attending changes every week.
- 33:05And for the record, like
- 33:05as the division director, I
- 33:06don't think that we should
- 33:07be on service for a
- 33:08month, but,
- 33:09but it doesn't really work.
- 33:12And I do think that
- 33:13there are some shorter term
- 33:14fixes or we could at
- 33:16least
- 33:16try. And, and I do
- 33:18think this is a little
- 33:19bit still the case of
- 33:21the nothing we've tried isn't
- 33:22working and we're spending a
- 33:23lot of time admiring this
- 33:25problem.
- 33:27These are not low hanging
- 33:28fruit though. This this is
- 33:30still
- 33:31hard, gnarly stuff to get
- 33:32at. But thinking about
- 33:35what is the way you
- 33:36get a complex care coordination?
- 33:38How do we communicate about
- 33:39these patients?
- 33:40I don't even think we're
- 33:41just talking about implicit bias
- 33:42here. I think there's explicit
- 33:43bias here. I mean, I
- 33:44think there's biases we know
- 33:45we have in the way
- 33:46we take care of these
- 33:46patients.
- 33:47And decision support is a
- 33:49thing that we know a
- 33:50lot about abstractly that we
- 33:51have not brought very effectively
- 33:53into actual hospitals to do
- 33:56it. And people are starting
- 33:57to write about this, both
- 33:58in the adult world and
- 33:59in the pediatric world, about
- 34:01how do you do better
- 34:02when these kids come into
- 34:03the hospital and provide the
- 34:05kind of interventions that they
- 34:06need.
- 34:09We could think about being
- 34:11more consistent
- 34:12in the way that we
- 34:13apply care for these patients,
- 34:15both to reduce that maddening
- 34:16odyssey of nobody agrees on
- 34:18whether or not we should
- 34:18do the trach. We talked
- 34:19about this at lunch, too.
- 34:21And potentially to make that
- 34:23hospitalization more efficient and potentially
- 34:25shorter. Right? So I just
- 34:26picked here, I tried to
- 34:27say, does anyone know when
- 34:28you should do a tracheostomy
- 34:30for a premature baby with
- 34:32bronchopulmonary dysplasia? And the answer
- 34:34is no. Right?
- 34:36People have attempted to kind
- 34:38of get at this in
- 34:40other
- 34:41similarly
- 34:42messy spaces.
- 34:44So this is the multi
- 34:45organization statement that looked at
- 34:47how you resolve kind of
- 34:48intractable disputes about,
- 34:52potentially non beneficial treatment, right,
- 34:53which is not these patients.
- 34:54But the idea is
- 34:56even the stickiest
- 34:57problems
- 34:58do lend themselves to
- 35:01guidelines.
- 35:02Right? And we could probably
- 35:03do better to do that.
- 35:07Where I'm less sure that
- 35:08we're at all ready to
- 35:10go
- 35:11is like,
- 35:12could we at the front
- 35:13end say no?
- 35:14Right?
- 35:15This is a sort of
- 35:16tweaked version of that that
- 35:18figure I showed you earlier
- 35:19about, like, who eats the
- 35:19pie?
- 35:22Other than in a true
- 35:23public health crisis, and we
- 35:24know we've just had one,
- 35:25we got we did do
- 35:26this,
- 35:28to say, like, you deserve
- 35:29the bad and you don't.
- 35:32I don't think we're ready
- 35:34to do that for this
- 35:34population when we haven't showed
- 35:36that we're ready to do
- 35:36that for any other population,
- 35:40when we don't have anywhere
- 35:41else for this patient to
- 35:42go. So what we'd really
- 35:43be saying is
- 35:45our algorithm predicts that you're
- 35:46still gonna be here in
- 35:47two years, so you don't
- 35:48get to live. And I
- 35:50don't think that that that's
- 35:51where we are.
- 35:53And similarly,
- 35:56I don't think that we
- 35:56have the collective will to
- 35:58cut people off from their
- 35:59health care in a coherent,
- 36:00transparent, and systematically applied way,
- 36:02which isn't to say that
- 36:03I don't think people die
- 36:05because the health care system
- 36:06won't pay for them. I
- 36:06think that happens all the
- 36:07time, but not in the
- 36:08light of day.
- 36:10And, again, I don't
- 36:12think in the US, we
- 36:13are ready to say this
- 36:15hospitalization. You have spent as
- 36:16much as we're gonna spend
- 36:17on this hospitalization.
- 36:18You have to leave even
- 36:19if there's nowhere for you
- 36:20to go. Now, other health
- 36:22systems in other countries
- 36:23do this kind of, but
- 36:25we haven't done that coherently
- 36:27openly in this country.
- 36:31And society really does fail.
- 36:32Some patients who could be
- 36:33home or housed if the
- 36:35resources were there. And that
- 36:36was my second case. Like,
- 36:36this is a patient who,
- 36:38like, if medical foster care
- 36:40was an actual
- 36:41thing, that patient could have
- 36:42gone home.
- 36:44But at least in my
- 36:45state,
- 36:46it's a it's a medical
- 36:47foster care is an idea.
- 36:49And what medical foster care
- 36:51actually becomes is
- 36:53we call that patient's mom
- 36:55a bad mom for not
- 36:56being able to mobilize the
- 36:58no resources that she has
- 36:59to take care of her
- 37:00child, and we call CPS
- 37:01and forcibly remove that child.
- 37:02And that is not medical
- 37:03foster care. That is something
- 37:04else entirely.
- 37:06And we don't have some
- 37:07states have great medical long
- 37:08term facilities,
- 37:10for kids like this. My
- 37:11state doesn't. Right? And so
- 37:14this is we're not gonna
- 37:15solve this at the hospital
- 37:16level. This is a policy
- 37:17level problem. And, again, this
- 37:18is Mount Everest.
- 37:20But
- 37:22but we're failing to to
- 37:24to come up with an
- 37:25alternative to the three hundred
- 37:26day hospitalization for some of
- 37:27these kids.
- 37:30So now what?
- 37:31So I told you about
- 37:32this paper,
- 37:33which was this, this, these
- 37:34are kind of a Renee
- 37:35Boss and Miriam Shapiro are
- 37:36really kind of leading the
- 37:37efforts to define this. But
- 37:39they're looking at this from
- 37:39a population level of who
- 37:41are children with chronic critical
- 37:43illness and how do we
- 37:44decide,
- 37:45define
- 37:46a research
- 37:47agenda for those kids.
- 37:49So if you're interested in
- 37:50this, I mean, they they
- 37:51they're they've written a road
- 37:52map for, like, what to
- 37:53study.
- 37:54There's nothing wrong with this.
- 37:56But I also think we
- 37:57need to do this. I
- 37:58think that we need to
- 37:59look at this
- 38:01from a defining these hospitalizations
- 38:03in a more coherent way
- 38:04to study these as hospitalizations.
- 38:07So get past you were
- 38:08in the PICU for fourteen
- 38:10days
- 38:11and really think about this
- 38:12as to
- 38:14are we measuring these hospitalizations
- 38:16in days, weeks, months, years?
- 38:19Can we wrap our heads
- 38:20around who these patients are?
- 38:22What are the outcomes that
- 38:24we're interested in? And what
- 38:25does that mean?
- 38:27And I think that, you
- 38:28know, I was mentored by
- 38:29Bill Meadow,
- 38:30who's
- 38:31kind of revolutionary insight at
- 38:33the time was
- 38:34when you don't know what
- 38:36to do about an ethically
- 38:37vexing problem, you start by
- 38:39counting stuff. And we haven't
- 38:40even really started to count
- 38:42this yet. And I think
- 38:43we really need to.
- 38:45So I'm gonna
- 38:47summarize.
- 38:48I think, am I where
- 38:48you wanted me to be?
- 38:49I think I am.
- 38:51So a small but important
- 38:53population of medically complex children
- 38:55lives in acute care hospitals
- 38:56in the US and around
- 38:57the world in a system
- 38:58that fails them and everybody
- 39:00else. It's not just hurting
- 39:01them.
- 39:03There's a care model and
- 39:04resource mismatch.
- 39:06There's no available and appropriate
- 39:08resource allocation framework that's gonna
- 39:10triage us out of this.
- 39:14And there's this unrealistic
- 39:15monolithic expectation that going home
- 39:18is everybody's North Star.
- 39:20And to bring this back
- 39:21to ethics, that's a parental
- 39:22authority problem. That's a best
- 39:24interest problem. We don't know
- 39:25how to try to force
- 39:26everybody to want the same,
- 39:28how not to force everybody
- 39:29to want the same thing.
- 39:31There's limited resources
- 39:33and will for things that
- 39:35could help address challenges in
- 39:36the short term. And those
- 39:37aren't fast, easy, or cheap,
- 39:39but there's even less for
- 39:40the long term. And I've
- 39:40said it now, I think
- 39:41the third time, that's Mount
- 39:42Everest.
- 39:44So that's what I'm gonna
- 39:45say about that. That's the
- 39:46living roof of my children's
- 39:47hospital, which I think is
- 39:47pretty cool.
- 39:49I wanna acknowledge Erica and
- 39:50Beanie who have been my,
- 39:51like, thought
- 39:52kind of,
- 39:53partners in crime in this.
- 39:54That's my email address if
- 39:55you're interested in this and
- 39:56wanna get in on it.
- 39:58And I'm gonna stop there.
- 39:59And hopefully, you're gonna ask
- 40:00me hard questions that I
- 40:01can't answer because then I've
- 40:02done it right.
- 40:09Yeah. I'm gonna I'm gonna
- 40:10sit and take the second
- 40:11bottle of water. Yeah. Well,
- 40:12if you could sit, I'm
- 40:13gonna give you one of
- 40:13these to take a minute.
- 40:14Okay.
- 40:15There you go.
- 40:17There you go.
- 40:19Alright. Well, that was pretty
- 40:21depressing.
- 40:23But that's alright because, I
- 40:25mean,
- 40:26those who work in the
- 40:27field are not shocked or
- 40:28depressed,
- 40:29by this because,
- 40:31we're well aware of it.
- 40:32This is a this is
- 40:33for those of you who
- 40:33don't know, for the students
- 40:35here, this is not,
- 40:37this is a problem here
- 40:39as well.
- 40:42I I guess that I'll
- 40:43take the first question while
- 40:44you guys think of your
- 40:45questions.
- 40:46One of the things that
- 40:47occurs to me
- 40:49is that and and when
- 40:50you mentioned Bill Meadow, I
- 40:51I was reminded of a
- 40:52paper that Bill wrote years
- 40:53ago, which you may come
- 40:55to mind for you as
- 40:55well. You might have been
- 40:56involved in. In fact, it
- 40:57was a study done at
- 40:58University of Chicago years ago.
- 41:00When we talk about these
- 41:01kids, we could also
- 41:03and you alluded this early
- 41:04in the talk,
- 41:05categorize them broadly. Right? And
- 41:07say, these are the kids
- 41:08who we think this kid's
- 41:09never gonna get out of
- 41:10here alive. And these are
- 41:11the kids who we think,
- 41:12you know what? If we
- 41:12really work at this for
- 41:13a long, long time, this
- 41:15kid's relatively stable. We just
- 41:16gotta eventually find a way
- 41:17to get this kid someplace
- 41:18where he can be on
- 41:19the ventilator, you know, and
- 41:20get the kind of care
- 41:21he needs.
- 41:23One of the things that
- 41:24Bill showed years ago was
- 41:25we're really bad at figuring
- 41:26out who those kids are
- 41:27who are not gonna get
- 41:28out of here alive, at
- 41:29least in neonatology.
- 41:31But it's a separate thing,
- 41:33I guess, what what I'm
- 41:34thinking, that the staff becomes
- 41:36very distressed
- 41:38by kids who were in
- 41:39the in the in the
- 41:40ICU for a very long
- 41:41period of time when people
- 41:42think that this is never
- 41:43gonna have a happy ending.
- 41:44Now you're you made the
- 41:45point with your examples that
- 41:47sometimes there is a happy
- 41:48ending.
- 41:49Is there a way when
- 41:50we think about this to
- 41:51try and divide these up
- 41:53into two different groups in
- 41:54our mind, or is that
- 41:55gonna just make things worse?
- 41:58Well,
- 41:59is this I don't know.
- 42:04Tap it. It might be
- 42:05on.
- 42:07Nope.
- 42:08Am I on? There you
- 42:09go. Okay. It's on.
- 42:12Sort of.
- 42:13I'm not in this. I'm
- 42:15not thinking about patients
- 42:17who have a condition where
- 42:19from the get go, we're
- 42:20saying,
- 42:21this is likely
- 42:22not a condition that you
- 42:24survive. I think that's a
- 42:25sort of different entity.
- 42:27These are kids that you
- 42:29really thought you were gonna
- 42:30get home.
- 42:32Right? And I, and I
- 42:32think that the idea is
- 42:34it's gonna be long and
- 42:35it's gonna be hard,
- 42:37but everyone has sort of
- 42:39assumed
- 42:40that there is some way
- 42:41that this gets better and
- 42:42you go home.
- 42:44Now,
- 42:45like my first case, you'd
- 42:46think like how many codes
- 42:47is this gonna take for
- 42:48us to adjust that
- 42:50that assumption? But the idea
- 42:51is this is somehow with
- 42:52time reversible.
- 42:55Right? And so this is
- 42:56one of the things about
- 42:57kids with trachs, right, is
- 42:58that a lot of them
- 42:58decalate. A lot of them
- 42:59don't need these ventilators forever.
- 43:01So I think that you
- 43:03so so I guess to
- 43:04try to answer your question,
- 43:05I think you have to
- 43:05start as what's the primary
- 43:07condition, and is there something
- 43:08here that gets better
- 43:10if you can write out
- 43:11the initial hard part?
- 43:13So maybe that's what it
- 43:13is. The defining thing is,
- 43:15is there some aspect of
- 43:16this that gets better with
- 43:17time?
- 43:19Yes, please. Wait. Give us
- 43:21one second till,
- 43:22we get the microphone to
- 43:23you.
- 43:28That was, that was really
- 43:29wonderful. You have my mind
- 43:30spinning, though, and my head's
- 43:31spinning, and I think that
- 43:33was your your aim. I'm
- 43:35Larry Vitilano,
- 43:36a long, long time,
- 43:38pediatric psychologist here. And,
- 43:41my question is, on the
- 43:42other side, thinking about what
- 43:44parents really want for their
- 43:45kids,
- 43:46for a second. And and
- 43:48if, you know, I always
- 43:49assume that in their own
- 43:50ways, they want what's best
- 43:52for their kids. We may
- 43:53not agree with it, but
- 43:54it's it's what they
- 43:56want. And can do you
- 43:57do is it useful to
- 43:58think about can we give
- 44:00parents more options,
- 44:03for them to choose on
- 44:04choose from a home or
- 44:06institutional,
- 44:08you know, I don't know,
- 44:09some kind of live in
- 44:10paraprofessionals.
- 44:12You know, I know that
- 44:14a lot of cultures do
- 44:14that. They they they train
- 44:16someone who then lives with
- 44:17them.
- 44:19What's your thoughts about
- 44:21giving parents more options, or
- 44:22should we just stay with
- 44:24what's the medically soundest
- 44:27option in our majority opinion?
- 44:30Well, so I think that
- 44:31that is there's there's a
- 44:32lot in that question.
- 44:35The least satisfying part is
- 44:37you'd like to give parents
- 44:38all the options that you
- 44:39have. And I think you
- 44:40have a moral obligation to
- 44:41do that. I think the
- 44:42reality is depending on where
- 44:44you live,
- 44:45sometimes you really don't have
- 44:47that many.
- 44:48Right? And so things like
- 44:49medical foster care, which is
- 44:51this sort of theoretical unicorn
- 44:53that doesn't really exist,
- 44:56where I think
- 44:58I am gonna get to
- 45:00use an extra slide. We
- 45:01had this big debate about
- 45:01whether I get to use
- 45:02an extra slide. Alright. It's
- 45:04really exciting.
- 45:06Because I wanted to talk
- 45:07about this a little bit.
- 45:08I think that
- 45:10what is,
- 45:15this one. What is really
- 45:16hard
- 45:17is that
- 45:19when you think about options,
- 45:21is this gets really gray
- 45:23really fast in these kinds
- 45:24of situations when you're trying
- 45:25to engage parents
- 45:27because our whole concept
- 45:29of what it means to
- 45:30be ready for discharge and
- 45:31what a safe discharge
- 45:33means
- 45:34is really a square peg
- 45:36in a round hole thing.
- 45:36And that it's not built
- 45:38around this kind of kid.
- 45:40And when you're thinking about
- 45:41how parents are going to
- 45:42weigh
- 45:44different options,
- 45:45they're not comparing opposite oranges,
- 45:47right? They're really different kinds
- 45:48of outcomes.
- 45:49And so
- 45:52it takes a really advanced
- 45:53kind of communication
- 45:54skill set and a lot
- 45:55of time and a lot
- 45:56of encounters. And that's, that's
- 45:58why I talked about decision
- 45:59support a little bit. I
- 46:01think walking parents through that
- 46:02is is hard because nothing
- 46:04that we have in the
- 46:06hospital, none of our tools
- 46:07are built for these kinds
- 46:09of decisions. And also this
- 46:11idea of, like, are you
- 46:12going to achieve the ideal
- 46:13discharge? You talk about the
- 46:14paraprofessional
- 46:15thing.
- 46:17A lot of times, a
- 46:18lot, in the times that
- 46:19I've seen some of these
- 46:20discharge,
- 46:21we do move the goalposts
- 46:23over time based on sort
- 46:24of what's seeming achievable. So,
- 46:26like, I'll give you an
- 46:27example of that. In our
- 46:28HomeVent program, we say you
- 46:29have to have two trained
- 46:31providers.
- 46:32Someone has to like, providers
- 46:33meaning parents, you know, who
- 46:35are or parent equivalents who
- 46:36are one of them has
- 46:38to be trained up on
- 46:40eight million things that they
- 46:41have to be able to
- 46:42do and demonstrate
- 46:44competence in doing. And one
- 46:45of them has to be
- 46:46home with that child
- 46:47twenty four hours a day
- 46:49to provide that, like, awake
- 46:52to tend to the digging
- 46:53and the bells and the
- 46:54things and the emergencies with
- 46:55the thing.
- 46:56And then maybe they can
- 46:58get home nursing and maybe
- 46:59they can't.
- 47:00Right? And
- 47:02sometimes you really don't have
- 47:03that second person.
- 47:06And at some point, sometimes
- 47:07we say,
- 47:08we're going to let you
- 47:09do this without the second
- 47:11person.
- 47:12And it's not our favorite
- 47:13option and it's not the
- 47:14best option, but
- 47:16it's the option.
- 47:18And if the alternative, like
- 47:19in my state is you
- 47:20give up custody of this
- 47:22child
- 47:22because you're never leaving,
- 47:24maybe that's a good enough
- 47:25option. And I think that
- 47:26a lot of these discharge
- 47:27do become about
- 47:29building consensus with parents about
- 47:32safe enough
- 47:33in an imperfect world.
- 47:36But one of the things
- 47:36that's really hard is when,
- 47:38especially when we start getting
- 47:39really creative and engaging parents
- 47:40with like
- 47:42really out of the box
- 47:42ways, finding like resources in
- 47:44their communities and things is
- 47:45that there there are data
- 47:48that those resources go away
- 47:50and that these safety nets
- 47:52that people build, the novelty
- 47:53of this wears off and
- 47:55people leave.
- 47:57But
- 47:59how you get people we're
- 48:01doing some empirical research at
- 48:02our place on how parents
- 48:03get engaged in tracheostomy decision
- 48:05making and who they talk
- 48:07to and where they go
- 48:07for information
- 48:09and how you get people
- 48:10to
- 48:11really engage with this question
- 48:13of, am I ready to
- 48:13have an ICU in my
- 48:14house?
- 48:16And if I'm not,
- 48:17what's the alternative? So in
- 48:19my experience,
- 48:20when people say no to
- 48:21tracheostomy,
- 48:23they're not saying,
- 48:25if what this takes is
- 48:26a tracheostomy and then ICU
- 48:28in my house,
- 48:29I'd rather consider hospice and
- 48:30comfort care. What they're saying
- 48:32is we will stay here
- 48:33until we don't need one.
- 48:35What? Until we don't need
- 48:36one.
- 48:37And we talked about this
- 48:38at lunch. Sometimes they successfully
- 48:39stay until they don't need
- 48:40one.
- 48:41Sometimes they stay until they're
- 48:42like, alright. I guess we're
- 48:43not ever gonna not need
- 48:44one, and they got one.
- 48:46Sometimes something catastrophic happens.
- 48:48But usually, the alternative they're
- 48:50weighing
- 48:51is not different goals of
- 48:53care. It's a workaround to
- 48:55the thing that they don't
- 48:56want, can't fathom, can't achieve.
- 48:58I don't know if that
- 48:59kinda got it here.
- 49:03But to a point that
- 49:04you made,
- 49:05here, take that with you,
- 49:06To a point that you
- 49:07made before, Naomi, which is
- 49:09maybe we can reject the
- 49:10premise. And this is something
- 49:11that you touched on, which
- 49:12that does
- 49:14going home
- 49:15I mean, should that be
- 49:16the North Star? Would we
- 49:18take an awful lot of
- 49:19pressure
- 49:19off an awful lot of
- 49:21people if
- 49:23we didn't say what we're
- 49:23gonna try and do is
- 49:24get this to the point
- 49:25where you can take this
- 49:25child home. You know what?
- 49:27Your life is could be
- 49:28better, and, in fact, the
- 49:29kid's life could be better
- 49:30if we found some place
- 49:31within a thirty minute drive
- 49:32of your house,
- 49:34where they could take care
- 49:34of this. And you could
- 49:35still be very much involved
- 49:36in the child's life. And,
- 49:38I mean, here, I mean,
- 49:39some folks in the room
- 49:40still might remember our pediatric
- 49:42respiratory care unit.
- 49:44And, I mean, I mean,
- 49:45I'll be blunt, which was
- 49:47for, you know, for some
- 49:48cases like this, it wasn't
- 49:49designed for exactly like this,
- 49:51but I I never heard
- 49:52an argument for closing it
- 49:53down except that, you know,
- 49:55it costs money.
- 49:58That, obviously, it would cost
- 49:59money to have these facilities
- 50:01and and
- 50:02in terms of generating RVUs,
- 50:04etcetera, this would be a
- 50:05big question. But but but
- 50:06what about that? You you
- 50:07you question that premise yourself
- 50:08that maybe we shouldn't be
- 50:10aiming to get these kids
- 50:11home, but someplace else parents
- 50:12who don't want I mean,
- 50:13I think to say
- 50:14to take a parent who
- 50:15doesn't wanna turn their living
- 50:17room into an ICU
- 50:18but wants their kid to
- 50:20live
- 50:21as being fundamentally irrational, I
- 50:23don't think that's that irrational.
- 50:24Like, I think that makes
- 50:25a lot of sense. You
- 50:26know?
- 50:28Please.
- 50:29Sure. Thank you so much,
- 50:31for coming. It's really a
- 50:32thought provoking talk, and
- 50:35it made me think of,
- 50:38Emily Oster, who's an economist
- 50:40out of Brown who writes
- 50:41about parenting issues.
- 50:43And she often says there's
- 50:45no secret option c, meaning
- 50:47we ought to dispense with
- 50:48the magical thinking
- 50:50and the wishing away of
- 50:51certain problems and sometimes come
- 50:53to a place of acceptance
- 50:55depending on our role in
- 50:56a given system about
- 50:58what the limitations are. And
- 51:00you reference, like, some of
- 51:01these are hospital level solutions.
- 51:02Some of these are systems
- 51:03level solutions. Some of these
- 51:05are Mount Everest y things
- 51:06where we'd have to move
- 51:07heaven and earth to get
- 51:08to them.
- 51:09I'm in my first year
- 51:11of medical school.
- 51:12So I'm thinking about the
- 51:14long training road ahead, and
- 51:16I'm wondering what you think
- 51:18are
- 51:19practical
- 51:20skills
- 51:21that medical students,
- 51:23residents, fellows, even attendings. What
- 51:26have you seen people equip
- 51:27themselves with
- 51:29that lets them
- 51:31come to a place of
- 51:32acceptance without having to solve
- 51:33those systems level problems.
- 51:36And
- 51:37we'll never avoid moral distress,
- 51:39but navigate it in a
- 51:41healthy way while caring for
- 51:43these patients.
- 51:45Well, I'll give you one
- 51:46that doesn't apply to all
- 51:47of those situations,
- 51:49but does work for me
- 51:51a lot of the time
- 51:53that comes around
- 51:55letting people want things that
- 51:56I wouldn't pick.
- 51:58Right. And mine is it's
- 51:59truly a mantra and it's,
- 52:00I wish they didn't want
- 52:01this, but they do. And
- 52:02I say those words in
- 52:03my head, I wish they
- 52:04didn't want this, but they
- 52:05do as opposed to what's
- 52:07wrong with you, that you
- 52:08want this. Right. And letting
- 52:10people want something and value
- 52:12something
- 52:13that isn't necessarily what you
- 52:15would pick.
- 52:16Right?
- 52:17And that to me, to
- 52:18me, it has all been
- 52:19about trying to at least
- 52:21come out of a place
- 52:22of judgment
- 52:23and try not to view
- 52:24people as particularly as being
- 52:26defective for wanting their kid
- 52:27to live. Right as a,
- 52:29as a general idea.
- 52:32And not to confuse hope
- 52:34and denial,
- 52:35right? So when people say,
- 52:37I know you're telling me
- 52:38that this is really long
- 52:39shot and I believe that
- 52:40my child is going to
- 52:41be the zero point one
- 52:41percent,
- 52:43They're not making an actuarial
- 52:45determination that they think that
- 52:46their child is gonna be
- 52:47a point one percent. Right?
- 52:48That's not the activity that
- 52:49they're engaging in. And so
- 52:51trying to talk them out
- 52:52of that by making an
- 52:53actuarial argument isn't going to
- 52:56work.
- 52:56Right? And so I think
- 52:58that
- 53:01don't put it that way.
- 53:02If that you know, if
- 53:04it's not gonna happen,
- 53:05just say it's not gonna
- 53:07happen and don't hinge it
- 53:08on, like, this. But I
- 53:09have to be absolutely truth
- 53:11and tell them that, like,
- 53:11I guess it's theoretically a
- 53:13tiny bit possible and, like,
- 53:14offer that as an anchor.
- 53:15Right? So
- 53:16so one is let people
- 53:18pick things that you wouldn't
- 53:19pick. Another is don't offer
- 53:20people choices that aren't things
- 53:22that
- 53:23they, that you're going to
- 53:24let them pick. Right? So
- 53:25if it's not a choice,
- 53:26don't put it on the
- 53:27menu and then say you
- 53:27were wrong for picking the
- 53:28thing that I didn't want
- 53:29you pick.
- 53:32How not to, as a
- 53:33first year
- 53:34student, be totally depressed by
- 53:36this. You know, Mark started
- 53:37with like this depressing. Right?
- 53:39Is a lot harder, right?
- 53:40And how not to feel
- 53:41totally daunted by this is
- 53:43a lot harder. And, you
- 53:44know, we talked earlier this
- 53:45morning about just the challenges
- 53:47of like, how do you
- 53:48build
- 53:49a working functional system to
- 53:51improve continuity over the six
- 53:54months of a hospitalization.
- 53:55Even that's really hard.
- 53:57And that my last sort
- 53:59of mantra there is like
- 54:00if you read the book,
- 54:02the power of habit is
- 54:03small wins, right? Just you
- 54:05don't have to fix it
- 54:06all. Like, take a tiny
- 54:08thing and fix a tiny
- 54:10thing is is the way
- 54:11that I have
- 54:13lived with how imperfect that
- 54:14it is.
- 54:16Yeah. Well, here we got
- 54:17a gentleman here and then
- 54:18a gentleman back there.
- 54:19Hi.
- 54:20Thank you so much for,
- 54:22this talk. It's a lot
- 54:23to think about.
- 54:25I wanted to touch on
- 54:26the question that's on the
- 54:27slide.
- 54:28When is good enough good
- 54:29enough?
- 54:30And we talked a lot
- 54:31during this talk about how
- 54:33the healthcare system is really
- 54:34strained.
- 54:35There's often a backlog of
- 54:37a lot of patients.
- 54:38And I was curious if
- 54:39those pressures
- 54:40of, like, the high, like,
- 54:43load on these hospital systems
- 54:45ever changes the threshold of
- 54:46good enough for patients.
- 54:48And,
- 54:49additionally, whether, like, the implied
- 54:52odds
- 54:53of, like, a patient's family
- 54:54being able to take care
- 54:55of them outside of the
- 54:56hospital ever changes,
- 54:58what we define as good
- 55:00enough, whether it does and
- 55:01whether it should.
- 55:04That's a really good question.
- 55:05And in some ways, there
- 55:06are some sort of simple
- 55:07answers,
- 55:09that I really learned during
- 55:11the pandemic, actually. So one
- 55:12of the things that happened,
- 55:13like, if you're a bioethicist
- 55:14during the pandemic, you're like,
- 55:15this is it. This is
- 55:16what we trained for.
- 55:18And
- 55:19one of the things that
- 55:20I learned that I invoke
- 55:21all the time is if
- 55:22you're going to ration something,
- 55:25you do it with rules
- 55:26in the light of day.
- 55:28You don't do it in
- 55:29darkness. You don't make it
- 55:31up on the fly.
- 55:32You
- 55:33you convene a room. You're
- 55:34explicit that that's what you're
- 55:36doing and you write it
- 55:37down and you vet it
- 55:38and vet it and vet
- 55:39it and you show it
- 55:40to people that you know
- 55:41are going to hate it
- 55:42and pick it apart and
- 55:43you make sure you've done
- 55:44it fairly. So if you're
- 55:45going to do something like,
- 55:46say,
- 55:48it's RSV season and the
- 55:49hospital is more full than
- 55:50usual, so we're going to
- 55:51move the goalpost about when
- 55:52we do this or what
- 55:53the discharge criteria are.
- 55:55I mean, I think it's
- 55:56extremely
- 55:57hard to, to execute something
- 55:59like that, but you're really
- 56:01explicit about what you're doing
- 56:03and you make the trade
- 56:04offs really clear.
- 56:08I think this,
- 56:09you know, things come up
- 56:10like this with like
- 56:12early discharge around newborn care,
- 56:13right? Where you have some
- 56:14parents who really want to
- 56:15go home, like the, like
- 56:16the UK model where you
- 56:17go home after six hours,
- 56:18right? And generally we think
- 56:19of like going home with
- 56:20a newborn in less than
- 56:22twenty four hours as being
- 56:23like,
- 56:24like potentially risky, right? Sometimes
- 56:26the way you do this
- 56:27is you build creative workarounds.
- 56:28Like the way we're doing
- 56:29this at our hospital is
- 56:30we're
- 56:31we're sending,
- 56:32midwives to the homes. Right?
- 56:33So sometimes the way you
- 56:35do the good enough is
- 56:36that you think more creatively
- 56:37about what the patches are.
- 56:39Right? And you don't just
- 56:40say, well, this sucks, but
- 56:41I guess it's all we
- 56:41can do. You think really
- 56:43creatively about
- 56:45the and. Right? Like, it's
- 56:46not a but, it's an
- 56:47and. Like, well, we're gonna
- 56:49change the standard
- 56:50and we're gonna
- 56:52mitigate our discomfort with the
- 56:54potential downsides of that by
- 56:56adding these other things.
- 56:59It's when what we learned
- 57:00during the pandemic is that
- 57:01when we didn't
- 57:02think hard enough and we
- 57:04weren't careful enough and we
- 57:05didn't show it to enough
- 57:07people, we made terrible mistakes.
- 57:12The other thing that's sad
- 57:13is that kids often pay
- 57:15the price for this because
- 57:16we're all they're almost always
- 57:17an afterthought. Right? Like, the
- 57:18outer space for kids is
- 57:20almost always less of a
- 57:21perceived crisis than like outer
- 57:22space for adults.
- 57:25But
- 57:27it's really dicey to say,
- 57:31well, we're full. So like,
- 57:33you know, yesterday, you you
- 57:35needed two providers, but today
- 57:36it's that, you know, like,
- 57:37you start doing that case
- 57:39by case and somebody gets
- 57:40hurt.
- 57:43So my question is around,
- 57:47my question is around what
- 57:49is meaningful function
- 57:51that makes sort of, like,
- 57:53return to home, like,
- 57:56a a moral good in
- 57:57a sense. Meaningful function?
- 57:59Like, meaningful function.
- 58:01So,
- 58:02like, I think a lot
- 58:03of the reasons why we
- 58:04consider, like, going home and
- 58:06we assume that going home
- 58:07is a good idea is
- 58:08also because of the potential
- 58:09activities and development that the
- 58:11child can engage in,
- 58:13at home as opposed to
- 58:14in the hospital. And you've
- 58:16kind of, like,
- 58:17pushed against some of these.
- 58:19But I I'm wondering if
- 58:20there's any thought around, like,
- 58:22are there, like, requirements
- 58:25of certain children that make
- 58:26it such that the function
- 58:28that they
- 58:30will regain or are likely
- 58:31to regain in the short
- 58:32term is, like,
- 58:33not enough for them to
- 58:35actually benefit
- 58:36from going home.
- 58:38I am gonna push back
- 58:39against what you're saying. I
- 58:40think that there is a
- 58:42sense that
- 58:44there's existential good in being
- 58:45at home
- 58:47beyond some of those,
- 58:49you get to roll around
- 58:49on the floor with your
- 58:50your siblings and your dog
- 58:52kind of things. I mean,
- 58:53we have people who ask
- 58:54to take the bodies of
- 58:56their children who have died
- 58:57home.
- 58:58Right? And we we have
- 58:59people, you know, people who
- 59:01go home, you know, ambulance
- 59:03home on CPAP so that
- 59:04their children can die at
- 59:05home. I think for some
- 59:07families, this
- 59:08truly kind of spiritual existential,
- 59:11you belong at home with
- 59:12us thing has nothing to
- 59:14do with function at all.
- 59:15And we sell that when
- 59:17it's convenient. Right? When we
- 59:18want our bed back, we
- 59:20push hard on this, don't
- 59:21you want your child at
- 59:22home with you? And some
- 59:23people really do. I mean,
- 59:25so it is the North
- 59:26Star for some people that
- 59:27has nothing to do with
- 59:30tangible things they're gonna get
- 59:31out of being at home.
- 59:32It's that
- 59:33our family is together at
- 59:35home.
- 59:36And even if it's just
- 59:37that they smile when we
- 59:38come into the room or
- 59:39I smile when I see
- 59:41them in the room that
- 59:41they belong,
- 59:44that has nothing to do
- 59:45with the function they're going
- 59:47to achieve.
- 59:50The bigger question of
- 59:52so one way people have
- 59:53talked about this is relational
- 59:54potential, right? Just thinking in
- 59:55the longer term about
- 59:58about how much does a
- 59:58society invest in someone who
- 59:59is technology dependent
- 01:00:00has to do with their
- 01:00:02different kinds of potential. That's
- 01:00:04a very different conversation than
- 01:00:05what I've talked about. That's
- 01:00:06a who's worth it question.
- 01:00:08That is not really what
- 01:00:10I talked about
- 01:00:11here, which
- 01:00:14I'd say in general in
- 01:00:15pediatric ethics, we've mostly moved
- 01:00:17away from, right? Like this
- 01:00:18idea that like we get
- 01:00:19to decide
- 01:00:20whose
- 01:00:22quality of life is worth
- 01:00:23it. I think our bracket
- 01:00:25around that is really suffering.
- 01:00:26Right? If we you have
- 01:00:28suffering that I can't relieve,
- 01:00:31I don't prolong that suffering.
- 01:00:32But beyond that,
- 01:00:34I think
- 01:00:35if your parents
- 01:00:37see that you
- 01:00:39you live a life that
- 01:00:40they see you benefiting from
- 01:00:42having,
- 01:00:42we we don't push back
- 01:00:44against that.
- 01:00:50Here, please.
- 01:00:58Hi. Thank you. I'm curious,
- 01:01:00like, how much of this
- 01:01:01problem, if any of this
- 01:01:02problem, you think could be
- 01:01:03addressed by simply increasing the
- 01:01:05number of NICU beds? And
- 01:01:06you talked about, like, the
- 01:01:07baby,
- 01:01:09baby LTAC, so it was.
- 01:01:10Like, how how like, what
- 01:01:11sort of additional ethical challenges
- 01:01:13that that might, address?
- 01:01:15Well, so we don't have
- 01:01:16enough beds, full stop. Right?
- 01:01:17And it's not just the
- 01:01:18right beds. It's the right
- 01:01:19beds in the right places,
- 01:01:21the right
- 01:01:22providers in the right places.
- 01:01:26The baby LTAC thing is
- 01:01:27is there there's two questions.
- 01:01:28There's capacity overall. There's there's
- 01:01:31these could we ever have
- 01:01:32a baby LTAC? Who would
- 01:01:33be the
- 01:01:34care providers in those places?
- 01:01:35Like, we are looking, for
- 01:01:37example, at my place. We
- 01:01:38just acquired another NICU. And
- 01:01:39we are looking
- 01:01:42at if you are not
- 01:01:43ready for a trach, you
- 01:01:44can go to this other
- 01:01:45NICU and you can be
- 01:01:46there for months on CPAP,
- 01:01:48sort of like trying to
- 01:01:49get off this.
- 01:01:50But it's the reason that
- 01:01:51I talked about my research
- 01:01:52agenda for this. I don't
- 01:01:53think we have any real
- 01:01:54sense of what the scope
- 01:01:55of this is because we're
- 01:01:57still defining ultra long stay
- 01:01:58as twelve days.
- 01:02:01I think we need to
- 01:02:02know that.
- 01:02:06Do you think it'd be
- 01:02:07premature? Sorry. Just tell you
- 01:02:08to make any of these
- 01:02:09big changes before you got
- 01:02:10that sort of data.
- 01:02:14Could you repeat the question
- 01:02:15then? Yeah. So the question
- 01:02:15is whether it would be
- 01:02:16premature to make those sort
- 01:02:17of big changes. If I've
- 01:02:18learned anything in my budding
- 01:02:19career as like a suit,
- 01:02:20it's that you can't make
- 01:02:21a big change without making
- 01:02:23a numbers case for it.
- 01:02:24So and it's not a
- 01:02:25good idea. Right? Because if
- 01:02:26you do that once, right,
- 01:02:27if you get people to
- 01:02:28invent invest in a big
- 01:02:30idea once and you were
- 01:02:31wrong, they never listen to
- 01:02:32you again. So I wouldn't
- 01:02:34advocate for that.
- 01:02:37Thank you so much.
- 01:02:39I'm Sylvia. I am a
- 01:02:41a pediatric,
- 01:02:42social worker here at the
- 01:02:43hospital, and I work with,
- 01:02:45transplant recipients and transplant candidates.
- 01:02:47So while we're waiting for
- 01:02:48the transplant,
- 01:02:50we do have long hospitalizations.
- 01:02:52And I have found that
- 01:02:53for the moral distress
- 01:02:55part, like, actually having, like,
- 01:02:56debriefings and talking to one
- 01:02:58another, hey. This is really
- 01:02:59challenging to see the the
- 01:03:00child with this long hospitalization
- 01:03:01has been very helpful.
- 01:03:03And in Connecticut, we do
- 01:03:04have medically complex foster homes,
- 01:03:07but I've seen children be
- 01:03:09completely heartbroken
- 01:03:10when we advocate for a
- 01:03:12safe placement because it's psychosocially
- 01:03:14unfit, and all that child
- 01:03:16wants to do is to
- 01:03:18go home with with their
- 01:03:19parent,
- 01:03:20regardless of the ramifications.
- 01:03:23So one of the saddest
- 01:03:24cases I had, he had
- 01:03:25a really short life expectancy.
- 01:03:27And,
- 01:03:28part of all my advocacy
- 01:03:29efforts towards the end was
- 01:03:31trying to break down the
- 01:03:33barriers
- 01:03:34put in place by our
- 01:03:35department of children and families,
- 01:03:36your CPS.
- 01:03:38So this is extremely emotionally
- 01:03:39challenging. And I feel like
- 01:03:41my patient
- 01:03:42is the pediatric patient and
- 01:03:44also the families, but also
- 01:03:46the staff. And it's been
- 01:03:47really hard, to to provide
- 01:03:49support with the staff.
- 01:03:50Yeah. There's a lot in
- 01:03:51that comment that's important.
- 01:03:54I mean, one is just
- 01:03:55any version of calling people
- 01:03:57bad parents for
- 01:03:59not I mean,
- 01:04:00doing that with healthy children
- 01:04:02when parents don't have what
- 01:04:03they need is sort of
- 01:04:04bad enough. But when what
- 01:04:05they need is heroic, I
- 01:04:06think is sort of even
- 01:04:07worse.
- 01:04:09And yeah, kids want to
- 01:04:10be with their parents even
- 01:04:11when their lives with their
- 01:04:12parents are pretty bad. And
- 01:04:13even when their parents are
- 01:04:15potentially not good people, kids
- 01:04:16want to be with their
- 01:04:17parents. Right?
- 01:04:18The issue of staff, I
- 01:04:19mean, there's been some work,
- 01:04:20like, in NICUs, for example,
- 01:04:21about embedded psychologists in NICUs
- 01:04:24to support, not like like
- 01:04:25for parents, but also for
- 01:04:27staff. Right? I mean, the
- 01:04:28the toll these kinds of
- 01:04:30cases take on people, you
- 01:04:31know, like in our NICU,
- 01:04:32I imagine the NICU here
- 01:04:33is the same, nurses take
- 01:04:34on this, like, primary role.
- 01:04:35Right? And they and
- 01:04:37one, I mean, the potential
- 01:04:38for, like,
- 01:04:40really problematic boundary violations. Right?
- 01:04:43But also just, like,
- 01:04:44they when these patients die,
- 01:04:46they experience profound loss. When
- 01:04:48these patients get discharged, they
- 01:04:49have, like, problems with separation.
- 01:04:51I mean, I think that
- 01:04:53we didn't build acute care
- 01:04:54hospitals for what these kinds
- 01:04:56of relationships were gonna do
- 01:04:58to our staff either. And
- 01:04:59they are leaving the profession.
- 01:05:01They also make more mistakes.
- 01:05:02They do there's a thing
- 01:05:03called, like, values and position.
- 01:05:04We talked about this. Right?
- 01:05:05Like, you lose the ability
- 01:05:06to to participate in perspective
- 01:05:08taking. Like, what happens to
- 01:05:10you if you don't
- 01:05:12have this kind of thing
- 01:05:13tended to over months and
- 01:05:15years is is like we
- 01:05:16know it's really bad.
- 01:05:18I just probably have to
- 01:05:19hear it. But they don't
- 01:05:20they don't get to see
- 01:05:21the long term outcome that
- 01:05:22I do. I'm inpatient and
- 01:05:24outpatient.
- 01:05:24Mhmm. So so I think
- 01:05:26that's important. We should
- 01:05:28I think it would be
- 01:05:28curative to have the inpatient
- 01:05:30staff that only sees the
- 01:05:31acute part. Like, in my
- 01:05:33role as a transplant social
- 01:05:34worker, I get to serve
- 01:05:36inpatient and outpatient. And these
- 01:05:37nurses are just seeing the,
- 01:05:39like,
- 01:05:40the most brutal time without
- 01:05:41seeing the awesome quality of
- 01:05:43life that comes after. And
- 01:05:44I've been trying to shed
- 01:05:45light on that, but I
- 01:05:46think that that should be
- 01:05:47in embedded. It shouldn't be
- 01:05:49something that is spontaneously offered.
- 01:05:51Oh, when they come back
- 01:05:52for their outpatient appointment, I'll
- 01:05:53make sure that they come
- 01:05:54visit you at the unit.
- 01:05:55Yeah. I think that that
- 01:05:56kind of closure that's something
- 01:05:57we see with residents too.
- 01:05:58And it actually becomes a
- 01:05:59big problem with residents because
- 01:06:01the kids with chronic critical
- 01:06:03illness that they see are
- 01:06:04the ones who get admitted
- 01:06:05every month. Right? And they
- 01:06:06don't see the ones who
- 01:06:06are home.
- 01:06:07Right? And I had this
- 01:06:08happen to me actually. I
- 01:06:09was in attending when this
- 01:06:10happened where it's,
- 01:06:12a patient that I was
- 01:06:13seeing was telling me about
- 01:06:13her another child
- 01:06:15that had Down syndrome. And
- 01:06:16I said, oh, like, you
- 01:06:17know, where does he get
- 01:06:18his specialty care? And she
- 01:06:18said, what specialty care? He
- 01:06:19doesn't need any. Right? And
- 01:06:21we don't see that child,
- 01:06:22right? We don't and our
- 01:06:23residents have this all the
- 01:06:25time where their experience of
- 01:06:26like, for me, extreme prematurity,
- 01:06:28prematurity
- 01:06:29is the frequent flyers to
- 01:06:30the ER, not the ones
- 01:06:31who go home and stay
- 01:06:32there. Right? And so I
- 01:06:33do think that ability to,
- 01:06:35to achieve that, to recognize
- 01:06:36that life over the lifespan
- 01:06:38builds empathy, if nothing else.
- 01:06:41I kind of just sort
- 01:06:42of a pragmatic question.
- 01:06:44And those families that are
- 01:06:45sort of decisionally rigid and
- 01:06:47maybe you're
- 01:06:48choosing the thing you're not
- 01:06:49wanting them to choose.
- 01:06:51I'm thinking about the repeated
- 01:06:53code type patient. How do
- 01:06:55you build a constructive relationship
- 01:06:57with that family? I I
- 01:06:58would imagine they if they're
- 01:06:59seeing you for the sixth
- 01:07:00time,
- 01:07:01they're not going to engage
- 01:07:03with you. And I know
- 01:07:04there's certainly something to be
- 01:07:05said for rapport building, but
- 01:07:07I just know that through
- 01:07:08some of my work with
- 01:07:09tracheostomy, and I'm kind of
- 01:07:11the face of that discussion
- 01:07:12month over month with some
- 01:07:13of these families.
- 01:07:15Some of that that's been
- 01:07:16a I've built great relationships
- 01:07:18that I've continued even beyond
- 01:07:19discharge, and sometimes I feel
- 01:07:21like
- 01:07:22the family can become avoidant
- 01:07:23of the hospital, and I'm
- 01:07:24building
- 01:07:26an interaction that is distancing
- 01:07:27that parent from their child,
- 01:07:29which I hate. And I
- 01:07:30was just wondering what your
- 01:07:31perspective is on kind of
- 01:07:33a how can we build
- 01:07:34something constructive
- 01:07:35and be and hold their
- 01:07:36hand longitudinally rather than drive
- 01:07:38them away?
- 01:07:40I think there's a lot
- 01:07:41there's a lot there, and
- 01:07:42and it you're one, one,
- 01:07:43I mean, you accept that
- 01:07:44you're not gonna win them
- 01:07:44all. But but I think
- 01:07:46some of that is building
- 01:07:47in other sorts of supports
- 01:07:49for parents. So they have
- 01:07:50other outlets of it. Like,
- 01:07:52they feel heard
- 01:07:54in other settings. Some of
- 01:07:55it is anticipatory guidance. We're
- 01:07:57gonna talk about this and
- 01:07:58we're gonna keep talking about
- 01:08:00this.
- 01:08:00And sort of setting up
- 01:08:02early so that you're having
- 01:08:03that conversation before the sign
- 01:08:04goes up on the wall
- 01:08:05that says I don't wanna
- 01:08:06hear anything negative. Right? Because
- 01:08:08you've heard that by the
- 01:08:09time the sign goes up,
- 01:08:10it's it's gone. And and
- 01:08:12that experience of the parents
- 01:08:13never come, and as soon
- 01:08:14as they come, you're like,
- 01:08:15good. You're here. I can
- 01:08:16tell you how bad it
- 01:08:16is. And then they don't
- 01:08:17come back. And then and
- 01:08:19you
- 01:08:20that's the QI. Like, you've
- 01:08:21built the system designed to
- 01:08:22get exactly the result that
- 01:08:23it gets. Right? When people
- 01:08:25come and all you do
- 01:08:26is bludgeon them with the
- 01:08:28truth.
- 01:08:29And for me, that, yeah,
- 01:08:30I heard you the first
- 01:08:31twenty times, you told me
- 01:08:32how bad this is.
- 01:08:34I think
- 01:08:36setting expectations early for what
- 01:08:39these goals of care conversations
- 01:08:40are gonna be like, that
- 01:08:42we are gonna talk about
- 01:08:43this at regular intervals.
- 01:08:46But I also think a
- 01:08:47lot of us in ways
- 01:08:48that we don't realize are
- 01:08:49kind of like
- 01:08:51punitive about some of the
- 01:08:52way we talk about this
- 01:08:53in ways that we don't
- 01:08:54even realize. So like one
- 01:08:55of the things that I
- 01:08:55sometimes hear is,
- 01:08:57you know, when I have
- 01:08:58a parent who's chosen something
- 01:08:59that they don't, that people
- 01:09:00didn't want them to choose,
- 01:09:01right? It's like, I want
- 01:09:02them to go up to
- 01:09:03the pick you and see
- 01:09:04what this is gonna look
- 01:09:05like when when he's six.
- 01:09:07And part of me is
- 01:09:08like, think about
- 01:09:10that six year old's parent
- 01:09:11and the
- 01:09:13you just made a cautionary
- 01:09:14tale out of someone else's
- 01:09:15kid. Right? And imagine if
- 01:09:17that was your kid. And
- 01:09:18and so the lack of
- 01:09:19empathy for the whole situation
- 01:09:20there, like to punish you
- 01:09:21for wanting something I don't
- 01:09:22want you to want, I'm
- 01:09:23gonna go,
- 01:09:24like, like,
- 01:09:25waterboard you with with with
- 01:09:27something bad.
- 01:09:29But,
- 01:09:32I think
- 01:09:35setting up the expectation,
- 01:09:38not
- 01:09:40making people, like, sort of
- 01:09:41saying, like, you're wrong for
- 01:09:42being hopeful.
- 01:09:45But,
- 01:09:46like, there's another piece of
- 01:09:47this that I I do
- 01:09:48think is actually helpful that,
- 01:09:49like, flitted
- 01:09:50past me. But
- 01:09:54I I think there's something
- 01:09:55about the way we engage
- 01:09:57with it that isn't just
- 01:09:58like you're wrong, wrong, you're
- 01:09:59wrong. Like one of my
- 01:10:00one of my colleagues used
- 01:10:01to say something like, if
- 01:10:02you wanna be hopeful, I'll
- 01:10:03be hopeful with you. And
- 01:10:05we still have to talk
- 01:10:06about what this is going
- 01:10:07to look like if it
- 01:10:08doesn't go the way both
- 01:10:09of us hoped it would
- 01:10:10go. Right? And sort of
- 01:10:12building this alliance around, like,
- 01:10:13I will share the wanting
- 01:10:15this to go well, and
- 01:10:16also help you prepare for
- 01:10:18what if it doesn't.
- 01:10:19Instead of this, like, you
- 01:10:21know it's gonna be really
- 01:10:22bad. Right? And the other
- 01:10:22thing is the best way
- 01:10:23to lose someone is by
- 01:10:25telling them about only the
- 01:10:26bad parts and having it
- 01:10:27go better than expected. Right?
- 01:10:29Like
- 01:10:30like, you lose someone forever
- 01:10:32when you only prepare them
- 01:10:34for a terrible outcome and
- 01:10:35it goes really well. And
- 01:10:35they're like, why would I
- 01:10:36trust you? You rooted against
- 01:10:37my kid. Why would I
- 01:10:39trust you?
- 01:10:41So but you're gonna lose
- 01:10:42some people some of the
- 01:10:43time. Right? And the Internet's
- 01:10:44gonna tell them how terrible
- 01:10:45you are and how terrible
- 01:10:46all of us are, and
- 01:10:47you're gonna lose some people
- 01:10:48some of the time. And
- 01:10:49you give yourself some grace
- 01:10:50when that happens.
- 01:10:56Anyone else? Is there anybody
- 01:10:58that you'd like to share?
- 01:10:59Online or Say again? Is
- 01:11:00there anyone on Zoom?
- 01:11:01Do we have I mean,
- 01:11:02you wanna check, see if
- 01:11:03there's a question on Zoom?
- 01:11:07What is where it means
- 01:11:08to be You know, it
- 01:11:09was it was you know,
- 01:11:10you made a a point,
- 01:11:12Naomi, that I thought was
- 01:11:13really,
- 01:11:14important. And there's a couple
- 01:11:15points when you talked about,
- 01:11:17you know, when this is
- 01:11:18what kids want, sometime is
- 01:11:20is is sometimes it's not
- 01:11:22just about trying to figure
- 01:11:23out what kids want. You
- 01:11:24know, I I tell a
- 01:11:25story about when one of
- 01:11:26my kids wanted something,
- 01:11:28and I said, well, I
- 01:11:29can't do that because I
- 01:11:30have to justify it to
- 01:11:31the boss.
- 01:11:32She's like a twelve year
- 01:11:33old girl and wants her
- 01:11:33to do something I thought
- 01:11:34was dangerous. And then she
- 01:11:35said, well, who's the boss?
- 01:11:36And I said, well, the
- 01:11:37boss is twenty five year
- 01:11:39old you. And when she
- 01:11:40gets here, I have to
- 01:11:41explain. So, I mean, it
- 01:11:42gets to a question of
- 01:11:43will people will these kids
- 01:11:46I mean, I I think
- 01:11:47that it's not so much
- 01:11:48about making
- 01:11:49a a a child happy
- 01:11:51as as it is. It's
- 01:11:53certainly, that's important or even
- 01:11:54the parents happy, but I
- 01:11:55sometimes think the person I
- 01:11:57work for most
- 01:11:58is this kid at twenty
- 01:11:59five. Will this kid at
- 01:12:00twenty five look back and
- 01:12:01say, thank you. You did
- 01:12:02the right thing for me,
- 01:12:03or you really did the
- 01:12:04wrong thing for me. That
- 01:12:05may be everything from placing
- 01:12:06the child with the the
- 01:12:08the biological parents to, doing
- 01:12:10a tracheostomy or whatever is
- 01:12:12to try and imagine what
- 01:12:13this looks like from the
- 01:12:14child's point of view,
- 01:12:16looking back
- 01:12:17as an adult. That's a
- 01:12:18very hard thing to do
- 01:12:19with newborns.
- 01:12:20The older the kid gets,
- 01:12:21it gets a little bit
- 01:12:22easier. But to try and
- 01:12:23have that perspective because in
- 01:12:25the moment, some so much
- 01:12:26of it seems so cruel.
- 01:12:29Well and I don't know
- 01:12:30about you, but the longer
- 01:12:31I do this, the less
- 01:12:32confident I feel on my
- 01:12:33crystal ball.
- 01:12:34You know, and and and
- 01:12:35the less sure I am
- 01:12:36that I can predict the
- 01:12:37future. And and somebody asked
- 01:12:39about this, you know, but
- 01:12:39patients that I didn't think
- 01:12:40were gonna live, live.
- 01:12:42And patients that I thought
- 01:12:43were gonna need a Drake
- 01:12:44don't or, you know, patients
- 01:12:45I thought were gonna do
- 01:12:46pretty well, do way worse
- 01:12:46than I expected.
- 01:12:48And so
- 01:12:49how on earth do you
- 01:12:50know how to answer to
- 01:12:51that future twenty five year
- 01:12:53old? Some sometimes you do.
- 01:12:54I would say that sometimes
- 01:12:56you do because some things
- 01:12:57are are are clearly not
- 01:12:58good for the child. So
- 01:12:59for example, the child who
- 01:13:00wants very much to be
- 01:13:01placed with a parent who
- 01:13:02clearly
- 01:13:03is, an an important and
- 01:13:05significant danger to that child.
- 01:13:07So clearly, I think you
- 01:13:08can bet that that child
- 01:13:09as an adult may look
- 01:13:10back and say, I'm glad
- 01:13:11I was taken out of
- 01:13:12that unsafe setting. But your
- 01:13:14point is well taken that
- 01:13:15that that often, you know,
- 01:13:17often we can't we can't
- 01:13:18know and we can't predict
- 01:13:19that stuff. You're absolutely right
- 01:13:21about that. And and so,
- 01:13:23you know, we're left grappling
- 01:13:24with this stuff and trying
- 01:13:25to make small changes and
- 01:13:26working with these things.
- 01:13:29Other thoughts?
- 01:13:32Yes, please.
- 01:13:34Wait for the mic.
- 01:13:39Well, thank you for for
- 01:13:41the thought.
- 01:13:43Well, my name is Francisco.
- 01:13:45I am from Colombia. I
- 01:13:47am during this month as
- 01:13:50international med student,
- 01:13:52and I want to share
- 01:13:53an experience that we have
- 01:13:55in our country.
- 01:13:57It's called,
- 01:13:59hospitalization. Maybe you have any
- 01:14:01strategy
- 01:14:02similar to it,
- 01:14:04and I want to know,
- 01:14:06what's your opinion about it
- 01:14:07because, well,
- 01:14:09a step behind,
- 01:14:12the full discharge of the
- 01:14:15of the hospital of on
- 01:14:16our patients in the area,
- 01:14:18on pediatrics area.
- 01:14:21We
- 01:14:23recently
- 01:14:23used it
- 01:14:25on that patients
- 01:14:26that only need oxygen or
- 01:14:29antibiotics.
- 01:14:31And, well, that things,
- 01:14:34limit
- 01:14:35the the
- 01:14:36the usefulness
- 01:14:38of,
- 01:14:40of the admission of that
- 01:14:41patients on
- 01:14:43on our,
- 01:14:45hospitalization
- 01:14:46floor.
- 01:14:47So the question that we
- 01:14:49use is,
- 01:14:51when is the the time
- 01:14:52that our patients
- 01:14:54can go to home and
- 01:14:56staying on a constant follow-up,
- 01:14:59consults?
- 01:15:01And, well,
- 01:15:02do you have an strategy
- 01:15:05similar to it, or do
- 01:15:07you use
- 01:15:08that,
- 01:15:09home hospitalization as an strategy,
- 01:15:13behind the full discharge
- 01:15:15or, like, medium point?
- 01:15:19So if I understand this
- 01:15:20correctly, you're talking about situations
- 01:15:21where you go home with
- 01:15:22a fair amount of in
- 01:15:23home supports?
- 01:15:24Yeah. Yeah. So I guess
- 01:15:26we I think different different
- 01:15:27institutions use that more or
- 01:15:29less. I mean, like in
- 01:15:30our adult hospital, we have
- 01:15:31something we call hospital at
- 01:15:32home. You know, we're really
- 01:15:33I mean, I think this
- 01:15:34is a fairly intensive amount
- 01:15:35of of services that we're
- 01:15:37providing in the home. Mhmm.
- 01:15:39You know, we, for example,
- 01:15:40like my one of my
- 01:15:40examples, I mean, we send
- 01:15:41kids home on oxygen all
- 01:15:42the time. We are very
- 01:15:44aggressively sending kids home with
- 01:15:46NG tubes.
- 01:15:48And I think this again,
- 01:15:49starts to get into at
- 01:15:50least with kids, interesting things
- 01:15:51about parental
- 01:15:53preferences.
- 01:15:53Okay. Right? Because we do
- 01:15:55still offer some choices about
- 01:15:57this and, you know, sort
- 01:15:58of.
- 01:16:00And what I've done is,
- 01:16:01you know, parents who say,
- 01:16:02I would never want to
- 01:16:03take my baby home with
- 01:16:04an NG tube. After a
- 01:16:06couple of weeks, they're like,
- 01:16:07can we talk about that
- 01:16:07program again? Because I've had
- 01:16:09enough of this.
- 01:16:10A good friend of mine
- 01:16:11who's a neonatologist,
- 01:16:12who studies chronic lung disease
- 01:16:14Yeah. Did a study with
- 01:16:15parents looking at sort of
- 01:16:17how much would it be
- 01:16:19worth to you? Like, how
- 01:16:20how much longer would you
- 01:16:21be willing to stay in
- 01:16:22the hospital to not go
- 01:16:23home on oxygen?
- 01:16:25And sort of had them,
- 01:16:26like, use, like, a physical
- 01:16:28scale to kind of, like,
- 01:16:28pull, like, how many more
- 01:16:29days you know, if you
- 01:16:30could go home two more
- 01:16:32days or two more weeks.
- 01:16:33So, like, what is it
- 01:16:33worth to you to stay
- 01:16:34in the hospital to get
- 01:16:35off oxygen? And then she
- 01:16:36actually talked to parents who'd
- 01:16:38gone home on oxygen or
- 01:16:39not,
- 01:16:40and said,
- 01:16:42you know,
- 01:16:43kind of like if you
- 01:16:44had to do it again.
- 01:16:45No parent of a baby
- 01:16:46who went home on oxygen
- 01:16:48said, I shoulda
- 01:16:49stayed and come off oxygen.
- 01:16:51But a lot of parents
- 01:16:52who who stayed said, I
- 01:16:53shoulda just gone home on
- 01:16:54the oxygen. Right? So not
- 01:16:55that value of being home
- 01:16:56thing. People start to go
- 01:16:57a little nuts in the
- 01:16:58NICU. Right? Like, they really
- 01:16:59wanna get out. Yeah. Some
- 01:17:01people think you shouldn't have
- 01:17:02a choice about that. Some
- 01:17:03people say, like, this isn't
- 01:17:04like, I'm sorry if you
- 01:17:04don't like it, you meet
- 01:17:05eligibility criteria. You're going home
- 01:17:07with oxygen. Right? Different programs
- 01:17:09build those things differently.
- 01:17:12I think it also like
- 01:17:14depends on do you have
- 01:17:15the resources to consistently put
- 01:17:17those resources in the home
- 01:17:19that you need?
- 01:17:22I think that telehealth for
- 01:17:23us changed this a lot.
- 01:17:25Like our HomeNG program works
- 01:17:27because
- 01:17:29almost all the visits are
- 01:17:30video visits.
- 01:17:32And our HomeNG program offers
- 01:17:35a little more
- 01:17:36than if you just go
- 01:17:37home and follow-up with your
- 01:17:38pediatrician.
- 01:17:39Okay. So like you go
- 01:17:40home with HomeNG, you get
- 01:17:42a speech pathologist, a dietitian,
- 01:17:43and a feeding psychologist. Right?
- 01:17:45You get this whole bundle,
- 01:17:46and we make it really
- 01:17:47attractive
- 01:17:48to go home with all
- 01:17:49these things, like,
- 01:17:51look over here, look over
- 01:17:51here, look over all these
- 01:17:52things.
- 01:17:54But some people say, like,
- 01:17:55I don't want stuff on
- 01:17:57my kid's face. I don't
- 01:17:58want people to see it.
- 01:17:59I don't want people to
- 01:18:00see my child as someone
- 01:18:01who has all these things.
- 01:18:03And I think the really
- 01:18:04compelling question in a country
- 01:18:05like the U. S, which
- 01:18:06is very much about what
- 01:18:08do I want, is how
- 01:18:09much do we care about
- 01:18:10what people want
- 01:18:12versus our public health need
- 01:18:14to open up that bed.
- 01:18:17And right now this is
- 01:18:18done hospital by it's not
- 01:18:20even done state by state.
- 01:18:21It's done hospital by hospital.
- 01:18:23And there are people who
- 01:18:24think it's hideously unsafe to
- 01:18:25send anyone home with an
- 01:18:26NGT.
- 01:18:27Right? And so,
- 01:18:29we don't have a strong
- 01:18:31collective identity about how we
- 01:18:33think that should be done.
- 01:18:34Okay. Well, thank you.
- 01:18:36Let me,
- 01:18:37close-up Yeah. Doctor Leventhal with
- 01:18:39a comment.
- 01:18:41Thank you for this wonderful
- 01:18:42discussion. I'm a pediatrician at
- 01:18:43the hospital for special care
- 01:18:45in Connecticut.
- 01:18:46About ten percent of the
- 01:18:47beds are for children. This
- 01:18:49is the only place in
- 01:18:50Connecticut that will accept transfers
- 01:18:52from Yale's unit or from
- 01:18:53the PICU.
- 01:18:55And children you were talking
- 01:18:56about, yes,
- 01:18:58you hit on the issues
- 01:18:59we face every day. So
- 01:19:00a a note of thanks
- 01:19:01and endorsement. I will take
- 01:19:03that. Along those lines, please
- 01:19:04join me in thanking.
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