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Addiction, adversity, and attachment—Supporting families impacted by parental substance use

January 15, 2025

YCSC Grand Rounds January 14, 2025
Amanda Lowell, PhD
Assistant Professor, Center for Young Children and Families (CYCAF) at Baystate Health
Assistant Professor Adjunct, Yale Child Study Center

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Transcript

  • 00:00Everybody. We're going to get
  • 00:02started. So I'm delighted to
  • 00:04introduce today's Grand Rounds speaker,
  • 00:06Doctor. Amanda Lovell. For many
  • 00:08of you, she's a very
  • 00:09familiar face. She was at
  • 00:10the Charles Stuckert Center for
  • 00:11about eight years before recently
  • 00:13becoming the clinical director of
  • 00:14Bay State Medical Center's new
  • 00:16SAMHSA funded center for young
  • 00:18children and families in Springfield,
  • 00:19Massachusetts.
  • 00:21Doctor Lowell is a licensed
  • 00:22clinical psychologist. She's an assistant
  • 00:24professor at the University of
  • 00:25Massachusetts,
  • 00:26Chan Medical School, Baysay, as
  • 00:28well as being an assistant
  • 00:29professor adjunct here in the
  • 00:30Charles Study Center.
  • 00:32So I had the distinct
  • 00:33honor of mentoring doctor Lowell
  • 00:34during some of her time
  • 00:35at the Charles Study Center,
  • 00:36and I've worked closely with
  • 00:37her on a number of
  • 00:38research studies.
  • 00:39She's a true scientist and
  • 00:41practitioner.
  • 00:42Her program of translational research
  • 00:44studies the impact of addiction,
  • 00:46adversity, and attachment
  • 00:47on parental neuropsychological
  • 00:49and behavioral responses to infant
  • 00:51cues.
  • 00:52As you'll hear about today,
  • 00:53she uses an infant mental
  • 00:54health framework to apply these
  • 00:56findings to developing and refining
  • 00:57interventions for parents with substance
  • 00:59use disorders.
  • 01:01Her work currently focuses on
  • 01:02narrowing the science to service
  • 01:04gap and supporting effective, equitable
  • 01:06and accessible implementation
  • 01:08of evidence based practices for
  • 01:10parents of addictions in community
  • 01:12settings. So please extend, a
  • 01:14very warm welcome to doctor
  • 01:15Lowell, and thanks for being
  • 01:16here today.
  • 01:22Hello.
  • 01:23Hi. Good afternoon.
  • 01:25Good to see you all.
  • 01:26It's been a while since
  • 01:27I've been here in person.
  • 01:29So it's really nice to
  • 01:30be here speaking about this
  • 01:31work specifically.
  • 01:34So thank you for the
  • 01:35very kind introduction.
  • 01:38Post has spotlighted your okay.
  • 01:40Great. Okay.
  • 01:42All right. So we can
  • 01:43just go ahead and get
  • 01:44started. I'm gonna be speaking
  • 01:45today about addiction, adversity, and
  • 01:47attachment,
  • 01:48and their intersection and how
  • 01:49that informs,
  • 01:51the ways that we support
  • 01:52families.
  • 01:54Alright. Just a couple of
  • 01:55disclosures before I get started
  • 01:57that my work is currently
  • 01:58funded by, SAMHSA as well
  • 02:00as the National Child Traumatic
  • 02:01Stress Network,
  • 02:02and I've received funding from
  • 02:04plenty of other places
  • 02:05and have been really fortunate
  • 02:07to have funding to do
  • 02:08the work that I'm gonna
  • 02:09be speaking about today.
  • 02:12All right.
  • 02:13So our agenda for today
  • 02:15is to first begin by
  • 02:17speaking about some of the
  • 02:18background of parental addiction and
  • 02:20its intersectionalities.
  • 02:22We're also going to speak
  • 02:23a bit about neuroscience,
  • 02:25and how that helps us
  • 02:26understand this, intersecting problem.
  • 02:29And then we're going to
  • 02:30speak some about clinical approaches
  • 02:31and, how they're informed by
  • 02:33that background in neuroscience,
  • 02:35as well as then bridging
  • 02:36the science to service gap.
  • 02:38Okay.
  • 02:39I'll try to leave about
  • 02:40ten, fifteen minutes at the
  • 02:41end for questions and discussion.
  • 02:45All right. So in terms
  • 02:46of our background,
  • 02:47just wanna begin with a
  • 02:48couple of statistics.
  • 02:50All right.
  • 02:51So just to kind of
  • 02:53describe the gravity of this
  • 02:55challenge or this intersecting problem,
  • 02:57and its prevalence in in
  • 02:59our country. So over twenty
  • 03:01one million children
  • 03:02live with a parent who
  • 03:03uses substances in the United
  • 03:05States.
  • 03:06And over two million of
  • 03:07those children
  • 03:08live with a parent who's
  • 03:09been diagnosed with a substance
  • 03:11use disorder. So these are
  • 03:12no small numbers.
  • 03:15And on the other side
  • 03:16of that equation is that
  • 03:18seventy percent of people who
  • 03:19use opioids have children. Right?
  • 03:21So most people who have
  • 03:22opioid use disorder,
  • 03:24are parenting, right, or have
  • 03:27parented at some point,
  • 03:28or have filled some sort
  • 03:29of parenting role. Okay? So
  • 03:31there's a very large overlap
  • 03:33here.
  • 03:34And we see that over
  • 03:35fourteen thousand people per year
  • 03:38are admitted,
  • 03:39for substance use treatment while
  • 03:40pregnant.
  • 03:43We've also seen an eighty
  • 03:44three percent increase in neonatal
  • 03:47opioid withdrawal syndrome in the
  • 03:48past about decade, a little
  • 03:50over a decade.
  • 03:51So these, facts and figures
  • 03:53have kind of been climbing
  • 03:54over time.
  • 03:55And neonatal opioid withdrawal syndrome
  • 03:57is what we used to
  • 03:58really call neonatal abstinence syndrome,
  • 04:00just kind of a a
  • 04:01less stigmatizing
  • 04:02term
  • 04:03for the physiological,
  • 04:05symptoms that we see in
  • 04:06infants who have been prenatally
  • 04:08exposed and then are born
  • 04:09and experiencing withdrawal symptoms.
  • 04:12Okay.
  • 04:12So an increase in
  • 04:14this challenge, and that equates
  • 04:16to about one baby every
  • 04:18twenty four minutes who's born
  • 04:19with neonatal opioid withdrawal symptoms.
  • 04:23This is,
  • 04:24these are big numbers, right?
  • 04:27We also see that, you
  • 04:29know, different states have different
  • 04:31requirements
  • 04:32around the importance of notifying
  • 04:34the Department of Children and
  • 04:35Families or Child Child Protective
  • 04:36Services.
  • 04:37And across the board in
  • 04:39our most recent kind of
  • 04:41survey,
  • 04:42we've seen that there have
  • 04:43been over forty five thousand
  • 04:44notifications to Child Protective Services
  • 04:46nationwide,
  • 04:48due to prenatal exposure specifically.
  • 04:50Okay?
  • 04:53Most of those are screened
  • 04:55in as,
  • 04:57requiring some sort of response
  • 04:59from DCF, whether that's a
  • 05:00full investigation
  • 05:02or, some sort of alternative
  • 05:03response that is related to
  • 05:05child welfare. Right? So only
  • 05:07about twenty percent
  • 05:09of kids, you know, live
  • 05:10births that are notified to
  • 05:11DCF as being related to
  • 05:13prenatal exposure kind of get
  • 05:15screened out as not needing
  • 05:17any sort of involvement from
  • 05:18child welfare. But most are
  • 05:19getting, you know, some sort
  • 05:21of response.
  • 05:23No small numbers. Right? Which
  • 05:25is, you know, these figures
  • 05:27on this slide in particular
  • 05:28related to child protective services
  • 05:31are valid in some ways
  • 05:33because there are many risks
  • 05:34to children, right, associated with
  • 05:36parental substance use.
  • 05:38So absolutely there are risks
  • 05:40associated with prenatal exposure itself.
  • 05:42Right? So we talked about
  • 05:44neonatal opioid withdrawal, and there's
  • 05:46also plenty of neurobiological
  • 05:48differences that we see,
  • 05:50when a child has been
  • 05:51exposed to substances prenatally. And
  • 05:53that varies from substance to
  • 05:54substance, but we also know
  • 05:55that most parents who are
  • 05:57using substances pre when they're
  • 05:58pregnant are using more than
  • 06:00one substance.
  • 06:02And so it's really hard
  • 06:02to tease apart what substance
  • 06:04causes what neurobiological
  • 06:06difference, when prenatal exposure happens.
  • 06:09But we do know that
  • 06:10they kind of coalesce in
  • 06:11three domains, meaning
  • 06:13sensory motor development, arousal motivation
  • 06:16and reward, and then executive
  • 06:18functioning and emotion regulation. Right?
  • 06:20And we know that these
  • 06:21are all kind
  • 06:22of they cluster into certain
  • 06:24kind of mental health disorders
  • 06:25or learning problems or, kind
  • 06:27of neurodevelopmental
  • 06:28disorders.
  • 06:30We also know that early
  • 06:32childhood exposure to a parent's
  • 06:34substance use has lasting impacts
  • 06:36as well.
  • 06:37And one of those main
  • 06:38mechanisms is around caregiving. Right?
  • 06:40And we'll talk some when
  • 06:41we get into neuroscience about
  • 06:43the ways
  • 06:43that substance use itself
  • 06:45impacts caregiving at the neural
  • 06:47level. But it also affects
  • 06:49things like caregiving sensitivity
  • 06:51and a parent's ability to
  • 06:52attune to their child's emotions,
  • 06:56and a parent's capacity to
  • 06:57mentalize. And we'll talk a
  • 06:58bit more about that later.
  • 07:01And early childhood exposure to
  • 07:03a parent's substance use also
  • 07:04very often,
  • 07:06intersects with other stressors,
  • 07:08and as well as other
  • 07:09traumas. Right? So grief related
  • 07:11to potential parental
  • 07:13substance overdose,
  • 07:15neglect, other trauma or violence.
  • 07:18And then there are plenty
  • 07:19of other co occurring contextual
  • 07:21factors. Right? And cumulative risk
  • 07:23has an impact. Right? This
  • 07:24is not occurring in a
  • 07:25vacuum.
  • 07:27So absolutely there are risks
  • 07:29to children. So child welfare
  • 07:30involvement
  • 07:31is going to be inherent,
  • 07:33as part of the profile
  • 07:34of experiences that these families
  • 07:36have.
  • 07:37But there are also risks
  • 07:38to parents. Right, when,
  • 07:41substance use and parenting
  • 07:43come together. Right? And so
  • 07:44here we have some information
  • 07:46that talks about
  • 07:48how
  • 07:49pregnancy and postpartum
  • 07:51create this
  • 07:53real decrease or pregnancy creates
  • 07:55a real decrease in substance
  • 07:57use,
  • 07:58especially as parents begin to
  • 08:01learn that they're pregnant
  • 08:03or begin to the baby
  • 08:05becomes real or begins moving.
  • 08:08And we can really develop
  • 08:09a mental model of a
  • 08:10baby. And there's some real
  • 08:12motivation around decreasing substance use.
  • 08:14Right? So we see a
  • 08:15sharp decrease
  • 08:17in substance use in pregnancy,
  • 08:18which is encouraging. Right? We
  • 08:20might say, oh, wow, pregnancy
  • 08:21is a protective factor,
  • 08:24factor, which is great.
  • 08:26And there's a concern here
  • 08:28that we also see this
  • 08:28really sharp
  • 08:29increase in overdose
  • 08:31immediately after our baby is
  • 08:32born.
  • 08:33And you could think of
  • 08:34a variety of reasons for
  • 08:35that, right?
  • 08:37We could think about how
  • 08:38there's no longer a motivation
  • 08:40to decrease
  • 08:41or abstain from use because
  • 08:43there's no longer a direct
  • 08:44physiological impact on an infant
  • 08:47who's in utero. That's not
  • 08:48the case anymore. But also
  • 08:50think about the stress of
  • 08:51parenting. Right? And think about
  • 08:53the stress of an infant
  • 08:54with needs.
  • 08:55Think about the stress of
  • 08:56an infant who maybe is
  • 08:57a bit dysregulated because of
  • 08:59their own prenatal exposures.
  • 09:02Think about,
  • 09:04the isolation
  • 09:05of early parenthood.
  • 09:07Right.
  • 09:09And then the thing that
  • 09:10I'll point out here is
  • 09:11that very bottom bar,
  • 09:13where rates become even higher
  • 09:15than they were prior to
  • 09:16conception.
  • 09:18And we could think about
  • 09:19the reasons for that. Right?
  • 09:20When a kiddo is six
  • 09:21months old, what are they
  • 09:23doing? Right? They we're moving.
  • 09:24We're shaking. We're
  • 09:26making noise. We're having, opinions,
  • 09:28and we have got a
  • 09:29little developing personality.
  • 09:31Right?
  • 09:33A bit different than the
  • 09:34passive
  • 09:35itty bitty infant that, you
  • 09:37know, we had in those
  • 09:37first six months.
  • 09:39Right? So this is concerning.
  • 09:42So there are risks to
  • 09:43parents.
  • 09:44And then ultimately, really, we
  • 09:46see risks to families at
  • 09:48large. So many states, like
  • 09:49I was saying, consider parental
  • 09:51substance use a literal form
  • 09:53of child abuse,
  • 09:54even though research shows that
  • 09:56parental substance use is not
  • 09:58an equivocal or perfect predictor
  • 10:00of child maltreatment. Right? But
  • 10:02they're still really equated
  • 10:03in our systems to a
  • 10:04certain degree.
  • 10:07And child removal itself is
  • 10:09associated with increased parental overdose
  • 10:12and substance use too, which
  • 10:14then
  • 10:15further reduces,
  • 10:17likelihood of reunification.
  • 10:18Right?
  • 10:20So there are risks to
  • 10:21families.
  • 10:22Parental substance use is often
  • 10:24considered child abuse. And I
  • 10:25wanted to kind of highlight,
  • 10:27but as we move into
  • 10:28this next slide, this image,
  • 10:30I took a screenshot from
  • 10:32a resource that's available on
  • 10:34the US Department of health
  • 10:35and services, health and human
  • 10:37services website.
  • 10:38Right child welfare information gateway
  • 10:40children's bureau. Like, these are
  • 10:42legit
  • 10:43federal.
  • 10:45Agencies,
  • 10:47but if you take a
  • 10:48close look at the image,
  • 10:50we see a sweet kiddo
  • 10:52with Down syndrome. Right? And
  • 10:54so I am just curious
  • 10:57about
  • 10:58the ways that.
  • 11:00Our society is,
  • 11:02equating.
  • 11:03Right?
  • 11:04A genetic
  • 11:05disorder with prenatal exposure potentially.
  • 11:08Right? We don't we don't
  • 11:10have evidence that they are
  • 11:13related and here we are.
  • 11:14Right? So I'm concerned about
  • 11:16stigma and misinformation. Right?
  • 11:19And that stigma is really
  • 11:20strong.
  • 11:22And I'd even encourage I
  • 11:23I very often will begin
  • 11:24a talk like this with,
  • 11:27what comes to mind when
  • 11:28you see that this is
  • 11:29what I'm gonna be speaking
  • 11:29about today? Right? And where
  • 11:31do you find yourself aligning?
  • 11:33Or what do you imagine
  • 11:34are the solutions to this
  • 11:35really big problem
  • 11:37that
  • 11:38I, that I raise? Right?
  • 11:40These really
  • 11:41striking figures.
  • 11:42But really, there's a lot
  • 11:43of stigma that this topic
  • 11:45naturally activates.
  • 11:47And those are
  • 11:49somewhat in or in part
  • 11:51caused by the cognitive and
  • 11:52cultural models that are activated
  • 11:53on our own minds in
  • 11:55our society,
  • 11:57based on whatever topic we're
  • 11:58talking about, and in this
  • 11:59case, parental substance use. Some
  • 12:01research that I did a
  • 12:02few years ago suggested
  • 12:03that when we survey folks
  • 12:05kind of across the country
  • 12:06and ask them to talk
  • 12:07about what they're thinking,
  • 12:09when we raise this topic,
  • 12:10a few core themes come
  • 12:12up.
  • 12:13And one is the theme
  • 12:15that or, you know, folks
  • 12:17across the country
  • 12:19indicate that they believe that
  • 12:21this is a problem caused
  • 12:22by a lack of knowledge.
  • 12:24So here's a quote that
  • 12:25we have, from somebody who
  • 12:27said they make sense of
  • 12:28this problem
  • 12:29by saying that parents aren't
  • 12:32educated.
  • 12:34The parents aren't educated to
  • 12:35understand that this is not
  • 12:37just, oh, well, I I
  • 12:38messed up on a test,
  • 12:40but this has high stakes.
  • 12:41Right?
  • 12:43Another theme that comes up
  • 12:44when folks discuss the topic
  • 12:46of parental substance use is
  • 12:48believing that it's caused by
  • 12:49selfishness.
  • 12:50So we have a quote
  • 12:51from somebody who said, I
  • 12:52think everyone growing up in
  • 12:54America knows that you're supposed
  • 12:55to stay away from drugs
  • 12:56and alcohol while you're pregnant.
  • 12:58But you may choose to
  • 12:59anyway because if you're not
  • 12:59as mentally sound or feeling
  • 13:00like you have things together,
  • 13:00you're less likely to care.
  • 13:06Developing inside of you. Right?
  • 13:08So these are real things
  • 13:09that real people have said
  • 13:10that we surveyed,
  • 13:11and interviewed, right, around the
  • 13:13country.
  • 13:15This is what gets brought
  • 13:16up. Right? So there's there's
  • 13:18real stigma. There are these,
  • 13:19cultural models that are activated.
  • 13:21There's also an acknowledgment,
  • 13:23which I'm appreciative of in
  • 13:25some ways,
  • 13:26that there are contextual stressors
  • 13:28that,
  • 13:29influence parental substance use, which
  • 13:31is very much the case.
  • 13:32Right? That there are stressors
  • 13:34like poverty and trauma. Right?
  • 13:36And an acknowledgment that addiction
  • 13:38is a disease, right, in
  • 13:39many ways, and that there
  • 13:41are biological processes, that it's
  • 13:42not about a choice. Right?
  • 13:43So good. We can we've
  • 13:45learned what we can kind
  • 13:45of capitalize on if we
  • 13:47think kind of in the
  • 13:47framework's way,
  • 13:50you know, which things we
  • 13:51should we should be pointing
  • 13:52out. But anyway,
  • 13:54this stigma, I think, has
  • 13:55a lot to do with
  • 13:56some of the
  • 13:57child welfare involvement that we
  • 13:59see.
  • 14:00And here are even some
  • 14:01figures that kind of demonstrate
  • 14:03some of that, which is
  • 14:05suggesting that when,
  • 14:08substance use parental substance use
  • 14:10is part of a clinical
  • 14:11picture of a family, they're
  • 14:12significantly more likely to have
  • 14:14whatever other child maltreatment
  • 14:17report be substantiated
  • 14:20compared to when only domestic
  • 14:22violence
  • 14:23was part of a child
  • 14:24welfare report or when neither
  • 14:25were reported and it was
  • 14:26just child welfare.
  • 14:30Okay. We've seen this number
  • 14:32climb significantly,
  • 14:34in the past twenty years
  • 14:35as you can see here.
  • 14:37And then the last kind
  • 14:38of big fact and figure
  • 14:39that I'll point out is
  • 14:40that this is most common
  • 14:42for infants.
  • 14:43Right? We're one year of
  • 14:45age and older. Like, we're
  • 14:46seeing the kind of this
  • 14:47the
  • 14:48this intersection of parental substance
  • 14:49use and child welfare is
  • 14:51most common and most salient
  • 14:52in kind of early childhood
  • 14:54and early parenthood.
  • 14:58Because of all of this,
  • 14:59I think I've convinced you
  • 15:00that this is a big
  • 15:01problem, but because of all
  • 15:02of this, we often throw
  • 15:03a lot of services at
  • 15:05families. Right? So we might
  • 15:07say, okay, take care of
  • 15:08substance use. Right? Get substance
  • 15:09use treatment, mom or dad.
  • 15:11We're gonna also give you
  • 15:12a peer recovery coach. Right?
  • 15:14And make sure you're keeping
  • 15:15on top of your methadone
  • 15:16maintenance. Get there every day.
  • 15:18Stick with NA. That's good
  • 15:20for you. Maybe you get
  • 15:21an individual therapist. Do some
  • 15:22DBT.
  • 15:23Oh, wait, you've been through
  • 15:24trauma. Let's get you some
  • 15:25trauma focused treatment.
  • 15:27Oh, you're depressed. Okay. Like,
  • 15:28let's make sure we have
  • 15:29a psychiatrist on board. You've
  • 15:31got a kiddo. We're concerned
  • 15:32about them and their safety.
  • 15:34Let's get DCF involved.
  • 15:36Let's get a parenting class
  • 15:37as part of your case
  • 15:38plan.
  • 15:39Oh, you're pregnant again. Let's
  • 15:40make sure you're on top
  • 15:41of your prenatal care. And
  • 15:42we'll make sure that there's
  • 15:43a plan of safe care
  • 15:44so that when you go
  • 15:45have your baby, that the
  • 15:46hospital is satisfied with how
  • 15:47you're gonna care for them.
  • 15:49Then there's postnatal care for
  • 15:50your own self.
  • 15:52Okay. Now you gotta get
  • 15:53back to work. Let's get
  • 15:54childcare involved.
  • 15:56Yada yada yada. Right?
  • 15:58It's a lot. Preschool,
  • 16:01five o fours,
  • 16:03IEPs.
  • 16:04It's a lot.
  • 16:06It's overwhelming,
  • 16:07right, for for anybody.
  • 16:10And it puts parents in
  • 16:11a bind. It really, really
  • 16:12puts parents in a bind.
  • 16:13Right? So there's a decision
  • 16:15to be
  • 16:16made to engage. Right? And
  • 16:18in which case, ideally,
  • 16:20we'll experience benefit. Right? If
  • 16:21we can take advantage of
  • 16:22all of those things, maybe
  • 16:23there's something I can get
  • 16:24from each one. Right? If
  • 16:25I have the executive functioning
  • 16:27to kind of
  • 16:29gel it altogether.
  • 16:30But it can be really
  • 16:31overwhelming. And I'm also making
  • 16:33myself and my family vulnerable,
  • 16:34right, in a lot of
  • 16:35ways. Right? A little bit.
  • 16:37So top left, we have
  • 16:38the card sauce store.
  • 16:41Thank you.
  • 16:43Right. So I make myself
  • 16:44vulnerable in a few different
  • 16:45ways. One of which is,
  • 16:47vulnerable to identification,
  • 16:49right, by child welfare or
  • 16:50legal systems. Right? But the
  • 16:52other being that it's just
  • 16:53vulnerable,
  • 16:55right, to engage in support.
  • 16:57It just is.
  • 17:00I can also make the
  • 17:00choice to not engage. Right?
  • 17:02So I might be able
  • 17:03to avoid identification or I
  • 17:04might be able to avoid
  • 17:06being really vulnerable,
  • 17:07but then I don't receive
  • 17:08support that really could have
  • 17:09been helpful.
  • 17:10And if I'm pregnant, then
  • 17:12I probably am gonna be
  • 17:13identified at some point anyway.
  • 17:15Right.
  • 17:17It's, I think, really summed
  • 17:19up well by some research
  • 17:20from twenty sixteen by one
  • 17:22of my former co fellows,
  • 17:23Amanda Van Schaik,
  • 17:25who who interviewed mothers
  • 17:27and to understand how they
  • 17:28were thinking about
  • 17:30entering treatment while they were
  • 17:32pregnant.
  • 17:33And we have a mom
  • 17:34who says I was so
  • 17:34traumatized by child welfare that
  • 17:36I didn't want them to
  • 17:36be able to attract me,
  • 17:38so I didn't go to
  • 17:38the doctor.
  • 17:42That's that's a concern
  • 17:43for for me,
  • 17:46and makes me really think
  • 17:48about how do we stop
  • 17:49traumatizing families, right? How do
  • 17:52we be supportive?
  • 17:54So but our systems, I
  • 17:55think, are experiencing a double
  • 17:57bind as well, right? So
  • 17:58there's a choice to kind
  • 17:59of report or support. I
  • 18:01choose those words. I don't
  • 18:02think that they're mutually exclusive,
  • 18:04but I think that they're
  • 18:06a nice rep. So, that's
  • 18:07why I did that. But
  • 18:08anyway, so to to report,
  • 18:09right, to get child welfare
  • 18:11involved or to kind of
  • 18:12layer on a gazillion services,
  • 18:14we might reduce reduce some
  • 18:16of the risks that I
  • 18:16was talking about,
  • 18:18reducing risk for the trauma
  • 18:19that children experience.
  • 18:21And also we might risk
  • 18:24attachment disruption,
  • 18:26which we know
  • 18:27influences
  • 18:28risk for later mental health
  • 18:30problems.
  • 18:31And like I mentioned, increases
  • 18:32risk for parental
  • 18:34overdose. And then if we
  • 18:36as a system or as
  • 18:37a set of systems decide,
  • 18:38okay, our technique or our
  • 18:40approach is going to be
  • 18:41support over
  • 18:43report,
  • 18:44children, you know, keeping children
  • 18:46in homes, for example, might
  • 18:47still potentially expose them to
  • 18:48inconsistent or non attuned caregiving.
  • 18:50So that's not ideal.
  • 18:52And, and other trauma, again,
  • 18:53not ideal.
  • 18:54And we avoid potential attachment
  • 18:56disruption and caregivers are maybe
  • 18:58potentially motivated,
  • 19:00and remain hopeful,
  • 19:02around engaging in recovery supports.
  • 19:06The trick is that
  • 19:08that support that I talked
  • 19:09about is so overwhelming and
  • 19:11non intersectional
  • 19:12and the things that are
  • 19:13accessible
  • 19:15aren't always great. I'm not
  • 19:16saying that we don't have
  • 19:17evidence based treatments. It's not
  • 19:18what I'm saying.
  • 19:20They're not always
  • 19:21available. They're not always,
  • 19:23accessible. They're not always,
  • 19:26obtainable by families, right? Depending
  • 19:28on communities and a variety
  • 19:30of factors.
  • 19:31The The other thing is
  • 19:32that support for people with
  • 19:33substance use disorders
  • 19:35are often peer led, twelve
  • 19:36step, disease centric, medication assisted,
  • 19:39developed with males in mind
  • 19:41only,
  • 19:42and
  • 19:43parenting is really not kept
  • 19:45in mind.
  • 19:46Right. And then on the
  • 19:47other hand, support for parents,
  • 19:49things that are evidence based
  • 19:51and are scaled up and
  • 19:52unavailable in communities,
  • 19:54are often skills based, or
  • 19:57behavioral or focus on the
  • 19:58child and how to either
  • 19:59address or prevent misbehavior,
  • 20:02or they're like child parent
  • 20:04psychotherapy, for example, which is
  • 20:05an amazing treatment, but really
  • 20:07focused on the child. Right?
  • 20:08It's we've got child first,
  • 20:10not,
  • 20:11kind of parent child relationship
  • 20:12or parent first. And here
  • 20:14we are, and the parent's
  • 20:14the one that's holding the
  • 20:15whole thing. Right?
  • 20:18So unsurprisingly,
  • 20:20we often see that they
  • 20:21miss the parents' needs and
  • 20:22are minimally effective for parents
  • 20:23with substance use disorder and
  • 20:25not surprisingly associated with premature
  • 20:27exit.
  • 20:29Not ideal.
  • 20:31Some of that is because
  • 20:32of what I was mentioning
  • 20:33doesn't pay attention to the
  • 20:35intersectional identities of parents who
  • 20:37are in recovery. So a
  • 20:38parent in recovery
  • 20:39is not the same thing
  • 20:41as a person in recovery
  • 20:42who happens to be a
  • 20:43parent, right, or a parent
  • 20:44who happens to also have
  • 20:45a substance use disorder.
  • 20:48Right? There's an intersection here.
  • 20:50But parents really notice
  • 20:52that services and systems don't
  • 20:55get that. Right? So for
  • 20:56example,
  • 20:58we have a mom who
  • 20:59says that my child's pediatrician
  • 21:00said, well, is my is
  • 21:01your child okay? And he
  • 21:03never and he asked how
  • 21:04he's developing, how he's responding,
  • 21:05but he never asked how
  • 21:06I was.
  • 21:07Then on the flip side,
  • 21:08we have a substance use
  • 21:09treatment kind of
  • 21:11oriented program who's when a
  • 21:13parent said, if we're in
  • 21:14group and our kid starts
  • 21:16crying or needs a change,
  • 21:17they don't let us go
  • 21:18change them or else we
  • 21:19don't get credit for group.
  • 21:23This is a problem. Right?
  • 21:25So there's gotta be a
  • 21:26better way
  • 21:28of understanding,
  • 21:29the intersection of these problems,
  • 21:31the the complex issues around
  • 21:33parenting and substance use. And
  • 21:35there's gotta be a better
  • 21:36way of, like, putting that
  • 21:37all together so we understand
  • 21:38how to support families. So
  • 21:41this is where we take
  • 21:42a sharp left turn to
  • 21:44neuroscience.
  • 21:45Right?
  • 21:46And I I promise it
  • 21:47will make sense.
  • 21:49And and we're not just
  • 21:50like it's not just totally
  • 21:51separate. It makes a lot
  • 21:52of sense when we get
  • 21:53into it. Right?
  • 21:55So when you see a
  • 21:56picture when you see this
  • 21:58baby, right, I want you
  • 21:59to actually, like, take two
  • 22:00seconds to think, like, what
  • 22:01did it feel like to
  • 22:02see this baby?
  • 22:04What came to mind? How
  • 22:05did it feel? I didn't
  • 22:06hear any audible, like, oh,
  • 22:08but, like, I often do.
  • 22:10Yep.
  • 22:11And there's a reason for
  • 22:12that. Right? And it's because
  • 22:14babies
  • 22:15naturally
  • 22:16activate reward processes in our
  • 22:18brains. Right?
  • 22:19So for example, right, when
  • 22:21you see that picture of
  • 22:22that baby, a few things
  • 22:24happen.
  • 22:26So right, you see this
  • 22:27child
  • 22:28and neural circuits are activated,
  • 22:30associated with reward. So your
  • 22:32amygdala says to itself, that
  • 22:34felt so good. Right? Your
  • 22:36hippocampus is saying, okay, I'm
  • 22:38gonna remember where and when
  • 22:39and how this happened.
  • 22:41Your nucleus accumbens is gonna
  • 22:42say, okay, I wanna do
  • 22:44this again and again and
  • 22:45again.
  • 22:47Prefrontal cortex executive functioning is
  • 22:49saying, okay, we're gonna focus,
  • 22:50we're gonna plan, we're gonna
  • 22:51make this happen.
  • 22:53And then, of course,
  • 22:54dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, all that
  • 22:56good stuff is released.
  • 22:58Right? This is lovely. Right?
  • 23:00And and totally
  • 23:02then
  • 23:03makes sense for why people
  • 23:04would engage in caregiving when
  • 23:05it is stressful. Right? Like,
  • 23:07it's hard. Caregiving isn't all
  • 23:09hearts and flowers, but we
  • 23:11do it anyway, and here's
  • 23:12why. Right?
  • 23:14I'll take two seconds just
  • 23:16to kind of
  • 23:17nod to the research behind
  • 23:19this,
  • 23:20much of which was done
  • 23:21by our own Helen
  • 23:22Rutherford, and Linda Maes for
  • 23:24that matter.
  • 23:25So there are adaptive neurobiological
  • 23:27mechanisms involved with parenting,
  • 23:29that I just really reviewed.
  • 23:31The long and short of
  • 23:32it is that blood flow
  • 23:33in the brain of a
  • 23:35parent
  • 23:36is increased when one is
  • 23:38looking at their own baby,
  • 23:40right, more than a picture
  • 23:41of an unknown baby.
  • 23:43This is also true, like
  • 23:45when you see a baby
  • 23:45smiling, right, that's, that's more
  • 23:47rewarding
  • 23:48than, when you're looking at
  • 23:50a picture of a baby
  • 23:50who's, like, frowning.
  • 23:53Okay.
  • 23:54Some EEG and ERP research
  • 23:56that we've, that, that Helen
  • 23:58has done has also suggested
  • 23:59that kind of greater neural
  • 24:01responses,
  • 24:03associated with kind of attention
  • 24:05allocation
  • 24:06are associated with
  • 24:08interest and curiosity in a
  • 24:10child's mental state.
  • 24:11Okay.
  • 24:13What this winds up looking
  • 24:14like in reality is we
  • 24:16have an infant who gives
  • 24:18a cue.
  • 24:19The reward centers of our
  • 24:20brain, the reward circuits in
  • 24:22our brain are activated and
  • 24:23we engage in caregiving
  • 24:25and
  • 24:26there's a nice gorgeous cycle.
  • 24:28Right? Secure attachment achieved. Check.
  • 24:30Right?
  • 24:32We also know that it's
  • 24:33not always that simple for
  • 24:35caregivers,
  • 24:36with substance use disorders. Right?
  • 24:38There's all this DCF involvement.
  • 24:40There's challenges with sensitivity and
  • 24:42attunement, mentalization.
  • 24:45But the question is why.
  • 24:48And so we have the
  • 24:49same brain. Right?
  • 24:51And you'll see the same
  • 24:52things that are activated
  • 24:55when we look at photos
  • 24:56of babies are activated when
  • 24:58substances are used. Right? So
  • 25:00there is a reinforcing neural
  • 25:01reward
  • 25:02of substances.
  • 25:04So when you engage in
  • 25:05substance use, would you look
  • 25:07at that? Right? Our amygdala
  • 25:09is activated. It says that
  • 25:11that felt really good. Our
  • 25:12hippocampus is activated. Let me
  • 25:14remember where and when and
  • 25:15how this happened.
  • 25:16Nucleus accumbens says, let's do
  • 25:18this again and again.
  • 25:20And our prefrontal cortex is
  • 25:21like, okay, we're gonna focus
  • 25:22on this. We're gonna plan
  • 25:24for this.
  • 25:25And we've got dopamine and
  • 25:26serotonin that are released, but
  • 25:27it's super fast and super
  • 25:29strong
  • 25:30Far far more so than
  • 25:31when you just see
  • 25:33an infant.
  • 25:36I don't like to use
  • 25:37the word hijack, but it
  • 25:39is a word that has
  • 25:40been used. Right? There's kind
  • 25:42of an overriding,
  • 25:44overpowering,
  • 25:45perhaps, right, of these same
  • 25:47neural circuits.
  • 25:48So, of course, that's gonna
  • 25:49get in the way of
  • 25:49parenting.
  • 25:51Right?
  • 25:51Here's some research,
  • 25:53behind that. Right? So,
  • 25:56earlier work looked and compared
  • 25:58parents with and without substance
  • 26:00use disorders
  • 26:01and showed that parents without
  • 26:02substance use disorders
  • 26:04had greater activation and reward
  • 26:06kind of circuits in the
  • 26:08brain compared to
  • 26:09parents without subs or parents
  • 26:12with substance use disorders.
  • 26:15And then some of the
  • 26:16work that I've done with
  • 26:17Helena,
  • 26:18has looked at kind of
  • 26:19the speed and strength of
  • 26:21neural response.
  • 26:22And one of the most
  • 26:23interesting findings that I think
  • 26:25we had was that,
  • 26:28parents without substance use disorders
  • 26:31have a differential response to
  • 26:32high distress versus low distress
  • 26:34cries.
  • 26:35So nonclinical moms,
  • 26:37were listening to babies' cries
  • 26:39and had a stronger reaction
  • 26:40to a high distress
  • 26:42cry compared to a low
  • 26:43distress cry. Makes sense.
  • 26:45We did not see that
  • 26:46differentiation when it came to
  • 26:47parents with substance use disorders.
  • 26:50And instead of it being
  • 26:51a blunted or dampened response,
  • 26:53we actually saw that they
  • 26:54were both equally high,
  • 26:56in activation
  • 26:58in response to both a
  • 26:59high distress cry as well
  • 27:00as a low distress cry.
  • 27:02So think about just how
  • 27:04activating
  • 27:04the sound of an infant
  • 27:05cry can be.
  • 27:07And
  • 27:08if our if a brain
  • 27:09doesn't differentiate between the two
  • 27:11and is just as activated
  • 27:12by something low distress.
  • 27:14Right. What does that mean
  • 27:15for
  • 27:16stress levels and for relapse,
  • 27:18for example, right, and for
  • 27:20caregiving?
  • 27:22So Helena really synthesized a
  • 27:24lot of this work and
  • 27:25spoke to the reward stress
  • 27:27dysregulation
  • 27:28of parenting and addiction, where
  • 27:30a parent in recovery has
  • 27:32a decreased sensitivity to natural
  • 27:34rewards
  • 27:35and an increased,
  • 27:37sensitivity to stress. Right?
  • 27:39And then you've got a
  • 27:40stressor
  • 27:42in the form of an
  • 27:42infant who has needs,
  • 27:44who gives cues and needs
  • 27:46things from a parent.
  • 27:48It's a high stress and
  • 27:49low reward postpartum environment,
  • 27:51which may lead to cravings
  • 27:52and, of course, then substance
  • 27:54use and relapse, which then
  • 27:55continues that cycle
  • 27:57of,
  • 27:59those brain changes.
  • 28:00Okay.
  • 28:03For me as as a
  • 28:04as a clinically, a very
  • 28:06clinically focused person,
  • 28:07I have tended to look
  • 28:09at it this way,
  • 28:12and recognize that stress
  • 28:14overpowered reward.
  • 28:16And
  • 28:17my then mission has been,
  • 28:19okay, like, how do we
  • 28:20tip those scales? Right?
  • 28:23But with that stress overpowering
  • 28:25reward, what you might see
  • 28:26instead
  • 28:27of this lovely cycle
  • 28:28is, an infant gives a
  • 28:30cue. And then instead of,
  • 28:33the reward response in the
  • 28:34brain or the reward circuits
  • 28:36in the brain being activated,
  • 28:37we've got stress responses
  • 28:39activated.
  • 28:42Fight, flight, fawn, freeze.
  • 28:45And And then, again, unsurprisingly,
  • 28:48we might see a return
  • 28:49to use. It's not one
  • 28:50hundred percent of the time
  • 28:51that's not what I'm saying,
  • 28:52but I'm just talking, like,
  • 28:53kind of in general.
  • 28:57Right. So this is a
  • 28:58concern.
  • 28:59And this is the point
  • 29:00in the talk where I
  • 29:00want to acknowledge that addiction
  • 29:03and adversity are inextricably
  • 29:05linked. It's very hard to
  • 29:07study
  • 29:08addiction without acknowledging or understanding,
  • 29:11that trauma is
  • 29:13usually part of the picture.
  • 29:14Right. It's usually part of
  • 29:15the experience of somebody who
  • 29:17faces addiction.
  • 29:19And a lot of our
  • 29:20neuroscience, like we're not quite
  • 29:22there in terms of the
  • 29:23neuroscience to be able to
  • 29:24tease those, those things apart.
  • 29:29So that's a future direction.
  • 29:30But,
  • 29:32what I wanna point out
  • 29:33is that
  • 29:35parents with substance use disorders
  • 29:37very often have experienced both
  • 29:38childhood and adulthood trauma, as
  • 29:41well as acute or, like,
  • 29:42big t trauma and chronic
  • 29:44trauma,
  • 29:45little t trauma,
  • 29:46attachment trauma. Right? So, like,
  • 29:48my little star right there
  • 29:49because to me, that helps
  • 29:51me make sense of it's
  • 29:52not just about
  • 29:54the big things that happen
  • 29:55to you, but it's about
  • 29:56how your reactions to those
  • 29:58big things have been
  • 30:00understood by a caregiver.
  • 30:02Right?
  • 30:04So my favorite quote that
  • 30:05I put in every talk
  • 30:07is
  • 30:07this, right? So understanding of
  • 30:09minds is hard without the
  • 30:10experience of having been understood
  • 30:12as a person with a
  • 30:13mind.
  • 30:15Very often parents with substance
  • 30:17use disorders have not been
  • 30:18understood as a person with
  • 30:19a mind by their own
  • 30:20caregiver.
  • 30:21There are very much intergenerational,
  • 30:24patterns here.
  • 30:28When we've spoken to caregivers
  • 30:31about their wishes and their
  • 30:32needs around how they want
  • 30:33to be supported,
  • 30:35And we have proposed
  • 30:37ideas for them about what
  • 30:39if we were to support
  • 30:41you in this way that
  • 30:42focused on parenting and substance
  • 30:44use at the same time,
  • 30:46or,
  • 30:47was focused on your parent
  • 30:48child relationship in the context
  • 30:49of addiction.
  • 30:51Parents react in a really
  • 30:52positive way and know, yes,
  • 30:54actually that would be super
  • 30:55helpful because us parents in
  • 30:57recovery need that sort of
  • 30:58thing because we never had
  • 31:00the upbringing.
  • 31:02Right? So
  • 31:03this is, you know, there's
  • 31:04a theoretical, like it makes
  • 31:06sense theoretical. There are underpinnings
  • 31:08and
  • 31:08parents in real life are
  • 31:10saying, yeah, this would be
  • 31:11super helpful.
  • 31:13Okay. So this brings us
  • 31:15to the clinical approaches,
  • 31:17and what we've
  • 31:18worked really hard to do
  • 31:21to kind of pull all
  • 31:21of what I just talked
  • 31:22about together,
  • 31:24and do right by families.
  • 31:25Right? So as a reminder,
  • 31:29this is often what we
  • 31:30throw at families,
  • 31:31and it's overwhelming.
  • 31:33I
  • 31:34I find it incredibly kind
  • 31:36of anxiety provoking when I
  • 31:37look at it, and I'm
  • 31:39I'm not facing the many
  • 31:40intersectionalities
  • 31:41or marginalized identities that families
  • 31:43in recovery are. Right?
  • 31:46So to simplify,
  • 31:48I've already kind of said
  • 31:48this, this is my goal.
  • 31:51Right? And so with this
  • 31:53as our guidepost,
  • 31:54I begin to then get
  • 31:56really excited about the different
  • 31:57ways that we might not
  • 31:59add on more services, but
  • 32:01really tailor services and integrate
  • 32:03services. Right? So we'll get
  • 32:05to that.
  • 32:07But some research had to
  • 32:08be done first,
  • 32:09about how to tip those
  • 32:11scales, or what might lead
  • 32:13to the most kind of
  • 32:15bang for your buck when
  • 32:16it comes to tipping those
  • 32:17scales.
  • 32:18And some work by my
  • 32:19late mentor, Doctor. Nancy Sookman,
  • 32:21suggested
  • 32:22that it was going to
  • 32:23be really important to focus
  • 32:25not solely on the child,
  • 32:26that parenting support shouldn't just
  • 32:28be child focused,
  • 32:30and
  • 32:31substance use support shouldn't be
  • 32:33just adult focused,
  • 32:35but rather how do we
  • 32:36combine them and and focus
  • 32:37on
  • 32:38not parent and child and
  • 32:40the relationship.
  • 32:41Right?
  • 32:42So she developed a model
  • 32:44called mothering from the inside
  • 32:45out.
  • 32:46It's an individual
  • 32:48parenting psychotherapy
  • 32:49designed specifically for moms in
  • 32:51recovery,
  • 32:53who are caring for children
  • 32:54five and under.
  • 32:56And she really made the
  • 32:57argument that it needed to
  • 32:59shift that support for families
  • 33:00like this
  • 33:01needed
  • 33:02to needed to move from
  • 33:04focusing on behavior to focusing
  • 33:05on relationships and being mentalization
  • 33:07based. Right? So in other
  • 33:09words, making sense of behavior,
  • 33:11a parent's own behavior
  • 33:12and the child's behavior in
  • 33:14terms of underlying mental states
  • 33:16and letting that guide then
  • 33:17a parent's response
  • 33:19with the support
  • 33:20of a therapist who understands
  • 33:22them as a person with
  • 33:23a mind, gives them that
  • 33:24space.
  • 33:25Okay.
  • 33:27There are five core components
  • 33:29to it, and it is
  • 33:30manualized
  • 33:31in a way that talks
  • 33:33about the progression of these
  • 33:35five components, although it's not
  • 33:36session by session. Right?
  • 33:38So first and foremost, building
  • 33:40a strong therapeutic relationship in
  • 33:42which the caregiver or the
  • 33:44patient
  • 33:45is understood
  • 33:46person with a mind, as
  • 33:48a parent with a mind,
  • 33:49and,
  • 33:51is safe in that relationship
  • 33:54with a therapist who has
  • 33:56earned trust,
  • 33:58epistemic trust, ideally.
  • 34:03Second,
  • 34:04the therapist has to maintain
  • 34:05a reflective stance throughout. We'll
  • 34:07come back to this in
  • 34:08the next slide.
  • 34:10And then
  • 34:12facilitating
  • 34:13self focused reflection and prioritizing
  • 34:15that beginning with that, like
  • 34:16an oxygen mask, right,
  • 34:19where a caregiver is able
  • 34:21to reflect on their own
  • 34:22mental states and how they
  • 34:24then influence their behavior
  • 34:26as a person
  • 34:27and as a parent
  • 34:30and as a child, their
  • 34:31their own selves. Right?
  • 34:33And then moving from there
  • 34:36to understanding what the child's
  • 34:37behavior is saying, what the
  • 34:39child's needs are,
  • 34:41what the child's,
  • 34:43how to make sense of
  • 34:44the child's behavior in terms
  • 34:45of underlying mental states,
  • 34:47and then being able to
  • 34:48tie tie it together by
  • 34:50providing when appropriate developmental guidance
  • 34:52that is very much attachment
  • 34:54informed.
  • 34:55K.
  • 35:00So in terms of the
  • 35:01mentalizing stance or a reflective
  • 35:02stance,
  • 35:04what I think is important
  • 35:05to consider is that it's
  • 35:07not just what we say,
  • 35:08but it's how we say
  • 35:09it. Right? And so being
  • 35:11able to provide our interventions
  • 35:13with curiosity,
  • 35:15by being able to hold
  • 35:17a not knowing stance of
  • 35:18non
  • 35:20expert, and one that is
  • 35:21collaborative,
  • 35:22where we make meaning mutually
  • 35:23together.
  • 35:25And there's a negotiation,
  • 35:27and there's playfulness.
  • 35:29Being transparent about one's own
  • 35:31mental states and one's own
  • 35:32intentions,
  • 35:34creates a lot of safety.
  • 35:35And then, again, like, attachment
  • 35:37focused or focusing on the
  • 35:38child when it's appropriate, right,
  • 35:39or focusing on the relationship
  • 35:41when there's space for it.
  • 35:44Keep this in mind. Right?
  • 35:48I swear we'll come back
  • 35:48to it.
  • 35:50So
  • 35:52it's very encouraging. There there's
  • 35:54been a lot of research
  • 35:55that shows really promising results
  • 35:57when it comes to
  • 35:59taking this approach or providing
  • 36:01this intervention,
  • 36:03mothering from the inside out.
  • 36:04So compared to parenting psychoeducation,
  • 36:08using a mentalizing approach,
  • 36:10a la mothering from the
  • 36:11inside out, is associated with
  • 36:13improved parental reflective functioning,
  • 36:15improved maternal sensitivity when we
  • 36:17watch parents and children play
  • 36:19together,
  • 36:21as well as increased dyadic
  • 36:22reciprocity
  • 36:23and,
  • 36:24even improved child attachment security
  • 36:26looking using even the strange
  • 36:28situation.
  • 36:30We also see that mothering
  • 36:31from the inside out is
  • 36:32associated with decreased parental substance
  • 36:34use
  • 36:35and decreased depression,
  • 36:37decreased
  • 36:38negative emotionality or kind of
  • 36:39irritability when playing with kids,
  • 36:42and decreases in the child's
  • 36:43withdrawal from their parent. Right?
  • 36:45These are not findings that
  • 36:47we saw in parents who
  • 36:49received psychoeducation.
  • 36:52And these were all parents
  • 36:54that were in substance use
  • 36:55treatment. Right? They were all
  • 36:56in substance use treatment. We
  • 36:57only saw decreases,
  • 36:59significant decreases in the mothering
  • 37:01from the inside out group,
  • 37:02not in the psycho ed
  • 37:03group, even though they were
  • 37:04all getting substance use treatment.
  • 37:06Right?
  • 37:07So that begins
  • 37:09to make me start thinking
  • 37:11about what's happening here that
  • 37:12we're not actually targeting substance
  • 37:14use or depression,
  • 37:16but that's improving
  • 37:17for caregivers when we're improving
  • 37:19the parent child relationship.
  • 37:21Pretty cool.
  • 37:24And
  • 37:25those studies were in tightly
  • 37:26controlled research settings,
  • 37:28with research clinicians.
  • 37:30So that's a little bit
  • 37:32of a problem. So then
  • 37:33the question becomes, how do
  • 37:34we bring this to the
  • 37:34real world? How do we
  • 37:36bring it to scale? Because
  • 37:37that's not reflective of of
  • 37:39what's out in the community
  • 37:40or what's gonna be available
  • 37:41in the community.
  • 37:44So let's end with bridging
  • 37:45the science to service
  • 37:47gap.
  • 37:47Right.
  • 37:49So what I mean by
  • 37:50that is there is a
  • 37:52a known phenomenon,
  • 37:53when it comes to evidence
  • 37:55based treatments
  • 37:56where they are developed
  • 37:58in really rigorous randomized controlled
  • 38:00trials. They were eloquently designed.
  • 38:02They are fantastic. You see
  • 38:04fabulous results. You're like, sweet,
  • 38:06let's get it out there.
  • 38:08And then you fall off
  • 38:10this cliff.
  • 38:12And,
  • 38:13it's no it's not implementable,
  • 38:15right, because it's too clunky
  • 38:17or you lose all of
  • 38:18the efficacy
  • 38:19that's no longer effective,
  • 38:21because
  • 38:22there wasn't time spent making
  • 38:24sense of what is really
  • 38:26needed here to make this
  • 38:27work in the real world.
  • 38:30So this is what we
  • 38:31want to avoid.
  • 38:33Okay.
  • 38:34So work that I recently
  • 38:35did with my colleague,
  • 38:37up at UMass
  • 38:38is,
  • 38:39really looked at the barriers
  • 38:40and facilitators
  • 38:41of providing
  • 38:43mothering from the inside out
  • 38:44or mentalization based parenting support
  • 38:46to parents with addiction. You
  • 38:48know, what is gonna get
  • 38:49in the way and what's
  • 38:50going to be super helpful,
  • 38:52and how should that inform
  • 38:53our next steps?
  • 38:54Steps? What we found is
  • 38:55that,
  • 38:57there are some real barriers
  • 38:58to care for these families,
  • 39:00including things like
  • 39:01the location of the service
  • 39:03delivery and a parent feeling
  • 39:05safe and comfortable in that
  • 39:07location,
  • 39:10on top of then just
  • 39:11the actual issue of transportation.
  • 39:13Right?
  • 39:15And, and there's just a
  • 39:16general lack of trust in
  • 39:18systems.
  • 39:19Okay.
  • 39:22On the other hand, there
  • 39:22were some facilitators when we
  • 39:24when we raised this idea
  • 39:25of, hey, what if we
  • 39:27brought mothering from the inside
  • 39:28out into this setting or
  • 39:30this setting or this setting?
  • 39:31Right? So home visiting or
  • 39:33early intervention, or in Connecticut,
  • 39:34it's birth to three,
  • 39:36was one of the places
  • 39:37that we explored, hey, what
  • 39:38if we brought it into
  • 39:39this setting?
  • 39:40And parents were pretty enthusiastic
  • 39:42about it. And they indicated
  • 39:44they were really encouraged by
  • 39:45the idea that they would
  • 39:46have
  • 39:47early intervention providers who are
  • 39:49super focused on child development,
  • 39:58they were thrilled at the
  • 39:58idea that they might have
  • 39:59supports that provide that work
  • 40:01but also understand parental addiction
  • 40:03or parental substance use.
  • 40:06And other facilitators included kind
  • 40:08of the, the real emphasis
  • 40:10on the relationship.
  • 40:11Okay.
  • 40:12What we,
  • 40:13concluded by understanding is that
  • 40:16mothering from the inside out
  • 40:17could potentially address some of
  • 40:18the emotional
  • 40:19barriers to engaging in services
  • 40:21that were traditionally child focused,
  • 40:25and that bringing it into
  • 40:26preexisting services
  • 40:28without reinventing the wheel,
  • 40:30could
  • 40:31potentially address some of the
  • 40:33logistical barriers like transportation,
  • 40:36or needing
  • 40:37to develop another
  • 40:38relationship among the gazillion that
  • 40:40we already expect people to
  • 40:41establish
  • 40:42in a group that's already
  • 40:43pretty, like, not sure if
  • 40:44they wanna trust people.
  • 40:47So that was encouraging.
  • 40:49Some of the other work,
  • 40:50right? So in addition to
  • 40:51bringing it into home visiting
  • 40:52or early intervention,
  • 40:54another idea that, Nancy Slipman
  • 40:56had was to have addiction
  • 40:58counselors provide this support because
  • 41:00people are already going to
  • 41:01the methadone clinic. So let's
  • 41:03have it there and let's
  • 41:05have it be real world
  • 41:06clinicians.
  • 41:07So step one was to
  • 41:09even see, can
  • 41:10substance use counselors be trained
  • 41:12to provide
  • 41:13this kind of intervention or
  • 41:15support with any degree of
  • 41:17fidelity?
  • 41:19So could, could people who
  • 41:21have maybe bachelor's degrees or
  • 41:22like substance use counselor certifications
  • 41:25provide a mentalization based psychotherapy?
  • 41:28So she trained them and
  • 41:30that's where kind of I
  • 41:31began coming on board, and
  • 41:33we did a lot of
  • 41:34training and supervision together of
  • 41:35substance use counselors. It was
  • 41:36some of the most fun
  • 41:38work of of my life,
  • 41:39and I miss it every
  • 41:40day.
  • 41:41And the good news was
  • 41:43that
  • 41:44the answer was yes, that
  • 41:46we could train counselors to
  • 41:47provide it with fidelity when
  • 41:48we looked and and rated
  • 41:49their their adherence to the
  • 41:51model. So then step two
  • 41:53was to compare
  • 41:54the efficacy
  • 41:55of
  • 41:56MIO, mothering from the inside
  • 41:58out, to psychoeducation
  • 42:00as provided by substance use
  • 42:01counselors.
  • 42:04So we found some promising
  • 42:06results.
  • 42:07They weren't quite as robust.
  • 42:09So we saw an improvement
  • 42:11in children's clarity of cues
  • 42:12when interacting with their caregivers.
  • 42:15We also saw parents decrease
  • 42:16in their certainty about their
  • 42:18children's mental states, which to
  • 42:19me means increased flexibility, which
  • 42:21I'm okay with, I'm happy
  • 42:22about,
  • 42:23and and decreases in parents'
  • 42:25depression. So those are still
  • 42:26nice results. They're just not
  • 42:27quite as amazing,
  • 42:29as when provided by research
  • 42:31clinicians.
  • 42:34And something to also look
  • 42:36at and keep in mind
  • 42:37is that for the psychoeducation
  • 42:38group, we saw some deterioration
  • 42:40in their functioning.
  • 42:42Right?
  • 42:44So their substance use actually
  • 42:46increased.
  • 42:48Their children's compliance decreased. Their
  • 42:50children's clarity of cues decreased.
  • 42:52Children's responsiveness to their caregiver
  • 42:54decreased,
  • 42:55and the contingency of their
  • 42:57children's behavior decreased.
  • 42:59So, over time, we saw
  • 43:00this deterioration
  • 43:02in this group,
  • 43:03and we did not see
  • 43:04that deterioration for mothering from
  • 43:05the inside out. So,
  • 43:08there's this idea that MIO
  • 43:10might be protect protective in
  • 43:11certain domains.
  • 43:12Right?
  • 43:13And prevent this deterioration,
  • 43:16when provided by
  • 43:18treaters in the community. That
  • 43:20doesn't mean that it's still
  • 43:21the best fit for a
  • 43:22kind of treater. There might
  • 43:23still be kind of an
  • 43:24intervention and intervener
  • 43:26fit challenge there,
  • 43:28which just makes me really
  • 43:30interested in where do we
  • 43:31bring it next? Who are
  • 43:32the right people? Where is
  • 43:34the right venue? What is
  • 43:35the right setting?
  • 43:36Where do we go from
  • 43:37here?
  • 43:38Right? So,
  • 43:41the other other research needs
  • 43:42to happen in order to
  • 43:43understand why did we see
  • 43:44these less robust outcomes? And
  • 43:46again, what does that mean
  • 43:47for implementation?
  • 43:50My colleague Lily Peacock Chambers
  • 43:52up at UMass,
  • 43:53received an R01,
  • 43:56pretty recently to conduct a
  • 43:57hybrid type two effectiveness implementation
  • 44:00trial in order to
  • 44:01have equal emphasis looking at
  • 44:03effectiveness outcomes,
  • 44:05so parent child like clinical
  • 44:07outcomes as well as implementation.
  • 44:09So she's going to be
  • 44:10examining,
  • 44:11clinic, clinician, and client factors
  • 44:13that go into
  • 44:15understanding what the outcomes are
  • 44:17and that service barriers are
  • 44:19facilitators.
  • 44:20So that's really exciting. I'm
  • 44:21really honored to be a
  • 44:22co investigator on that project.
  • 44:24And then for for me,
  • 44:26I think some of the
  • 44:27other future directions include quality
  • 44:29improvement projects. Right? So instead
  • 44:31of throwing the kitchen sink
  • 44:32at parents, like that really
  • 44:33big overwhelming scary slide,
  • 44:36how do we begin to
  • 44:37integrate mothering from the inside
  • 44:38out across systems of care
  • 44:40and across early parenthood? Right,
  • 44:42from pregnancy,
  • 44:44and prenatal care. Right? So
  • 44:45I think about OEDYN clinics.
  • 44:46I think about maternal fetal
  • 44:47medicine,
  • 44:49as well as substance use
  • 44:50treatment clinics, which is you
  • 44:51know, I'm encouraged by places
  • 44:53like the App Foundation have
  • 44:54like, pregnancy teams, which is
  • 44:55nice.
  • 44:57I think about labor and
  • 44:58delivery and maternity units. I
  • 45:00think about eat sleep console
  • 45:01and the integration
  • 45:03of the really wonderful work
  • 45:04that Matt Grossman has done
  • 45:06around decreasing the length of
  • 45:08hospital stay using non pharmacological
  • 45:10care,
  • 45:11for infants who are prenatally
  • 45:12exposed. And then how do
  • 45:13we use some of the
  • 45:14principles
  • 45:15of mothering from the inside
  • 45:16out,
  • 45:18to really focus on what
  • 45:19the parents' needs are. Right?
  • 45:21So I think that that's
  • 45:22been something that that I've
  • 45:23wanted to see more of,
  • 45:25and that I, in my
  • 45:26clinical work, have heard parents
  • 45:28want more of.
  • 45:30I think about,
  • 45:31the implementation of mothering from
  • 45:33the inside out using through
  • 45:34NICU follow-up. Right? So this
  • 45:36is a population that very
  • 45:37often is part of NICU
  • 45:39follow-up clinics.
  • 45:42And
  • 45:43if NICU follow-up clinics kind
  • 45:45of are fortunate to have
  • 45:46longitudinal support of caregivers,
  • 45:48I think about the many
  • 45:49ways that this is a
  • 45:50population that could be better
  • 45:52served,
  • 45:53by using again the same
  • 45:54principles that mothering from the
  • 45:55inside out carries.
  • 45:58And then we've talked about
  • 45:59early intervention,
  • 46:00in home outpatient,
  • 46:01a nod to
  • 46:02FBR.
  • 46:04Family treatment court, I think,
  • 46:05is another really interesting, place.
  • 46:06So in actually Hamden County
  • 46:08up in,
  • 46:09Springfield, Massachusetts, that's, you know,
  • 46:12mothering from the inside out
  • 46:13has actually been
  • 46:14adopted as the primary,
  • 46:17clinical option that parents are
  • 46:19sent to. And so they're
  • 46:20sent kind of into
  • 46:22different agencies in the community
  • 46:24of,
  • 46:25that each have providers that
  • 46:26are trained in mothering from
  • 46:27the inside out that I
  • 46:28myself have trained. So that's
  • 46:30really exciting. It's a nice
  • 46:31opportunity.
  • 46:33Mhmm.
  • 46:34And then lastly,
  • 46:35right, this is where I
  • 46:36said, I swear I'm gonna
  • 46:37come back to this. Right?
  • 46:38And you've heard me say,
  • 46:39what about the principles? Right?
  • 46:40So it's not just about
  • 46:41best practices and not just
  • 46:43about providing MIO as an
  • 46:44intervention,
  • 46:45but what are the principles
  • 46:46underlying
  • 46:47MIO that we can lend,
  • 46:50across systems of care and
  • 46:52across professionals? Right? So regardless
  • 46:54of what kind of work
  • 46:56you're providing or what kind
  • 46:57of support you're providing, what
  • 46:58your professional training background is,
  • 47:02how can you use a
  • 47:03mentalizing
  • 47:04frame to provide that support
  • 47:06so that families feel safe
  • 47:08and heard and understood and,
  • 47:09like, their
  • 47:11intersecting
  • 47:12identities
  • 47:13are cared for.
  • 47:14Right.
  • 47:15So fortunate to also have
  • 47:17funding from PCORI and from
  • 47:18Apricus Principle
  • 47:20to, develop a training that
  • 47:22we're calling Early Relationships
  • 47:23across systems, that takes this
  • 47:25mentalizing stance,
  • 47:27and applies it to,
  • 47:29whatever type of work a
  • 47:31professional is engaged in. So
  • 47:32we've been fortunate to train,
  • 47:34some
  • 47:36childcare
  • 47:37centers in this recently,
  • 47:38and some other kind of
  • 47:39home visiting paraprofessionals,
  • 47:40community health workers,
  • 47:42doulas,
  • 47:43etcetera.
  • 47:46And then lastly,
  • 47:47up in up across the
  • 47:48state of Massachusetts,
  • 47:50I'm fortunate to work with
  • 47:51this program called First Steps
  • 47:53Together,
  • 47:54that provides
  • 47:56it's a peer led service
  • 47:57that also has clinicians
  • 47:58that are part of the
  • 48:00work, and we've been able
  • 48:01to train, all clinicians across
  • 48:02the state of Massachusetts and
  • 48:03mothering from the inside out.
  • 48:05But peers are also trained
  • 48:06again in these principles,
  • 48:08and we've seen some really
  • 48:09promising outcomes
  • 48:10there. So really, the sky
  • 48:12is the limit.
  • 48:14And I will end there.
  • 48:16We've got I did it.
  • 48:18We've got ten minutes,
  • 48:20but also happy to kind
  • 48:21of answer any questions and
  • 48:23a big thank you for
  • 48:24for having me and for
  • 48:25my collaborators. So thank you.
  • 48:37So much about that kind
  • 48:38of questions.
  • 48:44That that was really wonderful.
  • 48:45Your excitement just, you know,
  • 48:47is contagious here. I have
  • 48:49one question for you.
  • 48:50I've been working with this
  • 48:51wonderful group of nuns in
  • 48:53in Bridgeport,
  • 48:55at a literacy center. And,
  • 48:57what they do,
  • 48:59just incredible group of people,
  • 49:02they asked the women in
  • 49:03this literacy center what was
  • 49:05helpful,
  • 49:06every one of them, and
  • 49:06and what did you want?
  • 49:07And they all wanted their
  • 49:09basic needs met. Mhmm. You
  • 49:10know,
  • 49:12diapers,
  • 49:13food for their kids, a
  • 49:14safe bed.
  • 49:16My my question to you
  • 49:17is, and and I understood
  • 49:19some of what you got
  • 49:20at with this, but when
  • 49:21you ask
  • 49:22these substance abusers what it
  • 49:24is that they really want,
  • 49:27and and you said to
  • 49:28be heard and to be
  • 49:28understood, but could you just
  • 49:30address that a little bit?
  • 49:31What what are they really
  • 49:32asking you for?
  • 49:35Sure.
  • 49:37Sure. I think one thing
  • 49:40is
  • 49:41decreased stigma and improved understanding,
  • 49:44and so I try to
  • 49:44avoid the term substance abuser.
  • 49:47So that would maybe be
  • 49:48one of the first things
  • 49:49that I
  • 49:51would
  • 49:53encourage in a setting like
  • 49:54this.
  • 49:57And then we have, I
  • 49:58think, really
  • 49:59the wish from mothers who
  • 50:02are in recovery
  • 50:03from substance use disorder,
  • 50:05something that they express that
  • 50:07they wish.
  • 50:08I think basic needs are
  • 50:09a big piece,
  • 50:11and and help communicate that
  • 50:13we see
  • 50:14that their needs are more
  • 50:16than just the really heady
  • 50:18stuff that I think we
  • 50:19often think about.
  • 50:21But to be seen and
  • 50:22to be heard, is your
  • 50:23question to is is it
  • 50:25to tease apart what that
  • 50:26means?
  • 50:27No. Just just, you know,
  • 50:30how how far you get
  • 50:31down to, you know,
  • 50:33what and the surface when
  • 50:35they start what they really
  • 50:36want in order to do
  • 50:37that Sure.
  • 50:38Sure. Sure.
  • 50:39So
  • 50:40so often and, again, like,
  • 50:41in in our research settings,
  • 50:46we would often have folks
  • 50:47enroll
  • 50:48in the parenting program, is
  • 50:50kind of how it was
  • 50:51described.
  • 50:52And they would say that
  • 50:53their reason was because they
  • 50:55wanted to,
  • 50:56A, manage their ch their
  • 50:58toddlers' behavior. Because and it
  • 51:00was like when the kiddos
  • 51:00were toddlers, that's when they
  • 51:01were like, I need help.
  • 51:03Right? So wanting to manage
  • 51:04toddler behavior.
  • 51:05And then we even had
  • 51:07a lot of parents be
  • 51:07able to say and have
  • 51:09some degree of insight and
  • 51:10say, I just want to
  • 51:11do things differently.
  • 51:13Right? And so we'd say,
  • 51:15got it. We can that's
  • 51:16what we're here for. Right?
  • 51:17But there's,
  • 51:18I've often been astounded and
  • 51:20impressed and amazed,
  • 51:22the ways that
  • 51:24this very specific population
  • 51:27of
  • 51:28caregivers who are in recovery
  • 51:30and having that intersection
  • 51:32have the insight and the
  • 51:33vulnerability to say, like, that
  • 51:35did not look so hot
  • 51:36when I was a kid,
  • 51:38and I wanna do it
  • 51:38differently. I don't know how.
  • 51:40Please help me.
  • 51:43And that's where the fun
  • 51:44is. Thank you. Yeah. Yeah.
  • 51:47And I think we have
  • 51:48a question from Catherine Barb.
  • 51:49Catherine, if you want to
  • 51:51jump in.
  • 51:52Sure. Thank you. Thank you
  • 51:53so much for this talk.
  • 51:54Can you guys hear me
  • 51:55okay? Yep. Yeah. Cool.
  • 51:58I have a question. I
  • 52:00just recently and I don't
  • 52:01wanna overtalk it because I'm
  • 52:02still
  • 52:03trying to figure out what
  • 52:04we're doing, but I just
  • 52:05recently joined a work group
  • 52:06with, the Department of Children
  • 52:08and Families
  • 52:09focusing on birth to five
  • 52:10kiddos and and families of
  • 52:12birth to five kiddos.
  • 52:15Some of what we're looking
  • 52:16at are risk factors, safety
  • 52:18concerns.
  • 52:19My inclination
  • 52:21is that we're going to
  • 52:21be working on psychoeducation
  • 52:24with these families. Can you
  • 52:25talk a little bit about
  • 52:26that psychoeducation
  • 52:27piece that actually resulted in
  • 52:29some harm with these families
  • 52:32and,
  • 52:33what what that looked like,
  • 52:34what the research showed, and
  • 52:36and any insights that I
  • 52:37could glean from that would
  • 52:38be really helpful. Yeah. I
  • 52:40mean, I I would
  • 52:43Let's say it's a good
  • 52:44it's a really good question.
  • 52:45I would hesitate
  • 52:47and I apologize if it
  • 52:48if it looked as or
  • 52:49if if my way of
  • 52:50communicating about psycho ed
  • 52:53made it look like it
  • 52:54was associated with harm. Because
  • 52:55I think
  • 52:56where what I take away
  • 52:58from those findings is that
  • 53:00and what because what we
  • 53:01have to keep in mind
  • 53:01is that this is pre
  • 53:02to post treatment, right? And
  • 53:04so there's a passage of
  • 53:05time that's happening.
  • 53:07And so
  • 53:08what there's also research indicating
  • 53:10is that families with substance
  • 53:11use problems
  • 53:13tend to generally just show
  • 53:15a deterioration
  • 53:16over time
  • 53:17anyway, right? So kiddos
  • 53:19wind up having behavior problems
  • 53:21as they mature
  • 53:22and parents struggle a bit
  • 53:24more and become maybe a
  • 53:25bit more depressed as this
  • 53:27kind of unfolds,
  • 53:28that's just the general trajectory
  • 53:30that research shows can happen.
  • 53:32And so my argument, I
  • 53:33think, is that psycho ed
  • 53:34just, like, doesn't prevent that
  • 53:35from happening. Right? It doesn't
  • 53:37it's not the protective buffer
  • 53:38that we might hope it
  • 53:40is, whereas a more mentalization
  • 53:42frame,
  • 53:43was able to kind of
  • 53:44bolster that and prevent it
  • 53:46from from deteriorating
  • 53:48as it naturally would over
  • 53:49time. Does that make sense?
  • 53:53Yeah. It does. Thank you
  • 53:54so much. Yeah. That's that's
  • 53:56very helpful. But but still
  • 53:57a lot to think about
  • 53:58as we're rolling out some
  • 53:59of these,
  • 54:01these ideas and and providing
  • 54:03some feedback.
  • 54:04So thank you. Yeah. Yeah.
  • 54:06Always open to discuss
  • 54:08this topic.
  • 54:10Hi. Thank you so much
  • 54:10for your talk. My name
  • 54:12is Victoria. I'm one of
  • 54:13the child fellows.
  • 54:14And, in a past life,
  • 54:16I worked as a substance
  • 54:17use treatment counselor for parents,
  • 54:19who are mandated to treatment
  • 54:20through,
  • 54:21drug courts in Inglewood, California.
  • 54:23So a lot of what
  • 54:24you shared really resonated,
  • 54:26for me in that work
  • 54:27and kind of adding to
  • 54:29that question, I was also
  • 54:30thinking about the parental psycho
  • 54:32ed piece and was thinking
  • 54:33about the,
  • 54:35clinic that I worked at
  • 54:36was an an abstinence only
  • 54:39model.
  • 54:39And so
  • 54:41I found it didn't really
  • 54:42utilize harm harm reduction frameworks.
  • 54:44It was definitely nonrelational
  • 54:47in its field
  • 54:48field and kind of, like,
  • 54:49used a very moralizing
  • 54:51view, you know, a moral
  • 54:53failing type of view of
  • 54:54addiction. So I was wondering
  • 54:55in the,
  • 54:56settings that you worked at,
  • 54:58were they mostly kind of
  • 54:59abstinence
  • 55:00only type of models?
  • 55:02Or,
  • 55:03was it varied? And did
  • 55:05you notice, like, a difference?
  • 55:07It definitely varied. In my
  • 55:08work in Florida, that was
  • 55:10abstinence only.
  • 55:11Hard hard stop.
  • 55:13You were in residential, and
  • 55:15you you went and you
  • 55:16had a day pass and
  • 55:17you used something and you
  • 55:18came, you're out.
  • 55:20Right? In Connecticut,
  • 55:21I was doing much more
  • 55:22work with, like, kind of
  • 55:23in the outpatient setting and
  • 55:25there were slip ups and
  • 55:26that was
  • 55:27part of the deal. Right?
  • 55:28So,
  • 55:31and I think that that
  • 55:32holds a much more mentalizing,
  • 55:33you know, I think that
  • 55:34that's much more kind of
  • 55:35simpatico with
  • 55:36with,
  • 55:37a mentalizing
  • 55:38frame. But, oh, that's really
  • 55:39interesting. Thank you for
  • 55:41sharing your experience.
  • 55:44That's that's an interesting world.
  • 55:49So thank you. This is
  • 55:51a really terrific talk, and
  • 55:52I resonated with me a
  • 55:53lot. And I just wanted
  • 55:54to share that there
  • 55:56your results are consistent
  • 55:58with I've started doing similar
  • 55:59work with substance using fathers
  • 56:01using a mentalization
  • 56:03focused intervention
  • 56:04and
  • 56:06the relapse or the substance
  • 56:07use outcomes are similar that
  • 56:09when we compare it to
  • 56:10the exact same thing that,
  • 56:11that Nancy Suckman used the
  • 56:13parent education,
  • 56:14as the comparator, that those
  • 56:16getting
  • 56:17something that was more focused
  • 56:18on the parent and the
  • 56:19child together.
  • 56:21The fathers were less likely
  • 56:23to relapse after they were
  • 56:24discharged from residential treatment.
  • 56:26So I think there is
  • 56:28something
  • 56:28about like, not that the
  • 56:30education is harmful necessarily, but
  • 56:32it doesn't have the same
  • 56:33protective factor. They don't feel
  • 56:34as seen or as part
  • 56:35of the relationship, like you
  • 56:37said, and that the improved
  • 56:39relationship is really what
  • 56:41is protective, I I think.
  • 56:42I think that's what you
  • 56:43were saying. Yeah. Yeah. Well,
  • 56:44and the bidirectional nature of
  • 56:46it. Right? So the old
  • 56:47way of doing it used
  • 56:48to be like, get clean
  • 56:50and sober and then focus
  • 56:51on parenting. But what I
  • 56:53think really we see is
  • 56:54that by focusing on parenting,
  • 56:55it kind of goes back.
  • 56:57And so the synergy and
  • 56:58bidirectionality
  • 57:00of it is
  • 57:01really exciting. And I But
  • 57:02not focusing on the mechanics
  • 57:04of parenting. Like this is
  • 57:06how you
  • 57:06discipline your child. More like
  • 57:08how do you be in
  • 57:09relationship and understand your child,
  • 57:11right, which I think is
  • 57:12the key to what you're
  • 57:13saying.
  • 57:14Yes. Thank you. Yes. Yes.
  • 57:15Yes.
  • 57:20Any other final questions for
  • 57:22Amanda, either in the room
  • 57:23or on Zoom?
  • 57:28Great. Well, if not, then
  • 57:29just all that's left is
  • 57:30to thank you once again
  • 57:31for talk. Talk.